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Advo.... If you are going to be the champion for adoon people and culture, you have to also embrace the consequences. Statistics say--blacks, somalis included are far more likely to abandon their kids than White. That father most likely grew up in a single parent household, and can easily rationalize and justify that it is 'OK" to abondon his kids. For White people it is hard to do that, having--grown up in a two parent household. Also there is the question of socio-economic status. Blacks, somalis included are far more poor and are not able to support their children, but that nothing stop them from dropping them like its 1999.

I actually talk to lebrons "alleged" dad on facebook and Im convinced it's his dad but dude is a jerk. He says he remembered in 2006 that he got a chick from akron, Ohio pregnant and only thing he told her was make sure he plays basketball. He went on to attend Princeton and become a lawyer. , while his "son" was struggling in the hood.

Advo

The nigga also sued his former employers back in '99 for supposed "discriminatory" practices and was awarded a massive settlement.

Probably ran out of it and saw jackpot when he spotted Lebron. Some men have no integrity.

and then these men get shocked when their abandoned son ends up in jail and their daughter end up becoming the baby mama of some drug dealer.

I heard of this dude who abandoned his daughter as a toddler and her mom passed away when she reached puberty and was taken care of by her granny.He called her when she had graduated from uni trying to mend relations.

The daughter was shocked cos she had thought all her life her dad was not alive and she told him saw.
few months later the dad had passed away.

Lakin what is more shocking is to see dads expecting their sons to be brought up by others and later when he notices that the dude is financially stable the dad wants to be part of the sons life he tells him to support him and his newlywed wife and sees his son more of ATM.

some even use the walid card and threaren their kids with habar if they do not compy

you ask him the logic he says my dad did the same.

Init. It takes 2 to make a baby so it is as much his fault as it her fault. I really don't know how you can abandon something that's half yours. The way the child is gonna hate the father afterwards jheze.




And aint it shameful how aggins blame hoes for givin birth
To a baby that took two to make
Coward aggin, you a fake
How you gon look in your sons face and turn your back?
Then go start another family dog, what type of shit is that?

The_Patriot wrote:I heard of this dude who abandoned his daughter as a toddler and her mom passed away when she reached puberty and was taken care of by her granny.He called her when she had graduated from uni trying to mend relations.

The daughter was shocked cos she had thought all her life her dad was not alive and she told him saw.
few months later the dad had passed away.

Lakin what is more shocking is to see dads expecting their sons to be brought up by others and later when he notices that the dude is financially stable the dad wants to be part of the sons life he tells him to support him and his newlywed wife and sees his son more of ATM.

some even use the walid card and threaren their kids with habar if they do not compy

you ask him the logic he says my dad did the same.

Ohh I heard of this girl who gave her baby up for adoption and when she turned 21 or something , she came back for it....I was like awwwwwwwwwww............ that's so nice....don't know if the kid was being looked after by a Somali family or what but hey, walahi things like that make me smile.

sorry, I know this is completely unrelated , but thought i'd share

what u mean leave his kids a man never leaves his kids he just leaves the wife he was with now she is the mother of the child he still loves the childeren with all his heart they can even live with him

Advo I too cannot understand this.Makes me extremely angry.It should be a crime.It is shocking how MEN find it really easy to walk away from their children ..go with a new woman and start off anew..isn't it?? Wallahi I've tried to make sense of it but I can't.

I can't understand how you cannot understand

Men are animals and that's how animals behave....all you need to do is watch the discovery channel to understand.

eyes-only wrote:I can't understand how you cannot understand

Men are animals and that's how animals behave....all you need to do is watch the discovery channel to understand.

Some ladies use kids as leverage and would want to make your live a living hell rather than go crazy just ignore the entire thing and start a new life

omar07 wrote:it's something to do with kacsi perhaps, he wants to get laid.. Seriously though sometimes fathers go crazy with their wives. He might be working driving
taxi or working in some low paying job and when he gets home she doesn't show home coming face instead she ask him more money and things
he can't afford to give.

I am a taxi driver, I work 2 jobs. If some Xalimo says she wants more money I will leave her and the kids!

Then go to my other wife!

What about the many Somali-American men who fathered children from black, white and Latino women? I'm sure you've seen many mixed children with traces of Somali features. And it isn't a new phenomenon; it has been happening since the 70s.

Arabischer wrote:What about the many Somali-American men who fathered children from black, white and Latino women? I'm sure you've seen many mixed children with traces of Somali features. And it isn't a new phenomenon; it has been happening since the 70s.

And was it a success? The somali-americans who fathered the white women?

Lots of info please...