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Because I'm not a simplton who only cares about money fool



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OliveOil wrote:Because I'm not a simplton who only cares about money fool

everyone does

Like Rabshoole said... It goes hand in hand.


He's gotta look somewhat OK enough for me to look at.

Everyone does what? Care about money? Key word was "only" dude...I do care about money, but that is NOT the only thing that I care about and I would never fanalize my commitment to a guy based on how loaded he is! I once let go of a rich guy wallahi

The_Patriot wrote:

XaliimoFarax wrote:Any day for sure. Especially those who are all rounders and not just one topic.

Mashallah overall Snet has quite intelligent guys but there is certain one individual that caught my eye from the beginning. But I think he is tint bit qabiilst. So I won’t name, I could be wrong lakiin it’s a vibe I got.

What about you looks or intelligence?

Ps guys would vote looks so the question would remain to the ladies.

They mean Executive

How the hell did you come up with that? Not even close.

Looks attracts me initially, but that's not enough, it's hard to go gaga over a hot bloke with no brain, eventually you gotta hit the road.

I have a difficult time understanding these sort of questions.
What makes you fall for a certain individual? Are you falling for characteristics, or the person? Besides, knowledge and intelligence aren't always one-and-the-same. I wouldn't know how to answer this question. People change over time, and I'm no exception. Whether they are physical or personal traits, nothing is constant. Kind and caring people can become scornful just as easily as someone who isn't on the attractive end of the spectrum can slide over. But maybe personality traits are harder to change. I forgot my point.

XaliimoFarax wrote:Any day for sure. Especially those who are all rounders and not just one topic.

Mashallah overall Snet has quite intelligent guys but there is certain one individual that caught my eye from the beginning. But I think he is tint bit qabiilst. So I won’t name, I could be wrong lakiin it’s a vibe I got.

What about you looks or intelligence?

Ps guys would vote looks so the question would remain to the ladies.

I dont know why everyone thinks I have a crush or something for a forumer Is it the bold?
My bad I was meant to say I look out for this person and see what their view points are on certain topics which I can say 50/50 I go against.

I have been here a short period to fall for someone who I DON'T even know anything about whow knows they could be a serial killer let loose or something.

Are you the lesbian KOW was speaking about?

^^^^Akhas illahay kabaq ninyaho wa haas waa dambi

Why kid yourself?

You know full well that a man who looks like bernie mac issnt going to spark your interest no matter how smart he is.



So looks & personality & intellegence are all V important - END OF STORY

Alphanumeric wrote:I have a difficult time understanding these sort of questions.
What makes you fall for a certain individual? Are you falling for characteristics, or the person? Besides, knowledge and intelligence aren't always one-and-the-same. I wouldn't know how to answer this question. People change over time, and I'm no exception. Whether they are physical or personal traits, nothing is constant. Kind and caring people can become scornful just as easily as someone who isn't on the attractive end of the spectrum can slide over. But maybe personality traits are harder to change. I forgot my point.

AlphaNumeric

You know about yourself more than anyone. Draw from that intimate knowledge and tell us what is the first thing that attracts you about a woman? My reply to the question is, I am first attracted by the looks of the woman if she is good looking. I have no standard of facial beauty that I subject to women, they can be black, white, or somali. I admire all beautiful females. I am more into their figure than their facial stracture. So, what about you?

Also, this is the first impression, as in when you see a woman first, not necessarily what decides for you if the woman is one you would have as your partner. We all agree that good looks alone do not make a person whole. Both mind and body need to complement each other. Hope this helps you come up with a reply.

Oxy- wrote:Why kid yourself?

You know full well that a man who looks like bernie mac issnt going to spark your interest no matter how smart he is.



So looks & personality & intellegence are all V important - END OF STORY

True. But good looks help you attract the opposites towards you. A good starting point right? Whereas if you are not good looking, it might take a little more work and exposure for you to score.

GeoDesic wrote:

Alphanumeric wrote:I have a difficult time understanding these sort of questions.
What makes you fall for a certain individual? Are you falling for characteristics, or the person? Besides, knowledge and intelligence aren't always one-and-the-same. I wouldn't know how to answer this question. People change over time, and I'm no exception. Whether they are physical or personal traits, nothing is constant. Kind and caring people can become scornful just as easily as someone who isn't on the attractive end of the spectrum can slide over. But maybe personality traits are harder to change. I forgot my point.

AlphaNumeric

You know about yourself more than anyone. Draw from that intimate knowledge and tell us what is the first thing that attracts you about a woman? My reply to the question is, I am first attracted by the looks of the woman if she is good looking. I have no standard of facial beauty that I subject to women, they can be black, white, or somali. I admire all beautiful females. I am more into their figure than their facial stracture. So, what about you?

Also, this is the first impression, as in when you see a woman first, not necessarily what decides for you if the woman is one you would have as your partner. We all agree that good looks alone do not make a person whole. Both mind and body need to complement each other. Hope this helps you come up with a reply.

GeoDesic,

I accept the premise that we are attracted to physical presentation foremost, whether consciously or sub-. What I wanted to touch on is the stencil we carry in our minds, of what beauty is meant to be. That stencil is more often than not a mold of our upbringing. We don't decide what is beautiful; beauty is predefined. With that in mind, do we hold out this stencil with everyone we encounter, allowing them to pass if they match it? A cynical understanding, but that is how I see it. But as a I said, people change over time. The body is most often the first to change.

I know what would make me fall head-over-heels for her; eyes that say more about her than she could, a smile that would brighten any dark day, a gentle laugh and a soothing voice, sharp mind and a soft tongue, a caring heart and open hands, loyalty and firmness on principles; these traits all in one woman, and I would scorch the seas to get her attention, if need be. Firsts are physical, but personality seals the deal.

What I intended by my posts was to nurturing the traits you find exceptional in your other half. Encouraging each other is what is important, not relying on a stencil that is handed to you. People change over time. Holding out a stencil and demanding they fit into it may not be as fruitful as sincere and polite encouragement. Of course, it must go both ways.

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