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BlackVelvet wrote: @ YFresh you got experience in this haye what comes after arriving at her side? Your list is more entertaining that mine
Naaaah you ladies are just predictably unpredictable...you almost have to do the opposite of what your instincts tell you for you to get on her good side
West & Helwaa, the thing is sometimes we genuinely don't know what time it is and we approach you cuz we genuinely just wanna know what time it is...the problem with most Somali girls is they think any interaction is an attempt at getting with them. We say "Assalamu Alaykum", and they reply "Istaqfurullah...don't try that on me saqajaan yahow".
BlackVelvet wrote: There is a thin line between confidence and arrogance. Some chicks might be tempted to put you back in your place just because you acted like you need it.
this chick was lamenting and complaining to a group of us about how no one wants to marry her, she just graduated, and all that typical shid.. then she blurts out "WHY DON'T THESE GUYS IN THE MSA KNOW HOW TO TALK TO WOMEN? I KNOW WHY, THEY ONLY VIEW ME AS A SEX OBJECT AND CAN'T LOOK ME IN THE FACE"
FAH1223 wrote:this chick was lamenting and complaining to a group of us about how no one wants to marry her, she just graduated, and all that typical shid.. then she blurts out "WHY DON'T THESE GUYS IN THE MSA KNOW HOW TO TALK TO WOMEN? I KNOW WHY, THEY ONLY VIEW ME AS A SEX SUBJECT AND CAN'T LOOK ME IN THE FACE"
BlackVelvet wrote: There is a thin line between confidence and arrogance. Some chicks might be tempted to put you back in your place just because you acted like you need it.
So in a way being arrogant works.
Here is confidence....and over here ................ is arrogance. No one likes an arrogant prick because they are a negative force of energy. Stay positive kiddo.
gurey25 wrote:dont forget the 5 second rule, if you establish eye contact and show your interest you should approach and start a conversation within 5 seconds.
if you pass 5 secods, do not do it... move on to the next girl
It's like you never grow out of your childhood ADD
You might have a point but if you don't go she would wonder why and when you finally do, she might be more curious.
BlackVelvet wrote: @ YFresh you got experience in this haye what comes after arriving at her side? Your list is more entertaining that mine
Naaaah you ladies are just predictably unpredictable...you almost have to do the opposite of what your instincts tell you for you to get on her good side
West & Helwaa, the thing is sometimes we genuinely don't know what time it is and we approach you cuz we genuinely just wanna know what time it is...the problem with most Somali girls is they think any interaction is an attempt at getting with them. We say "Assalamu Alaykum", and they reply "Istaqfurullah...don't try that on me saqajaan yahow".
There's a difference between 'excuse me, do you mind telling me the time' and than quickly bouncing off.. And being told what the time is and yet waiting around still trying to beg conversation with you..
To them asking for the time is some sort of conversation opener
Plus another thing Somali guys are famous for is.. calling you some random girls name just to get your attention.. Like are you bloody serious ninyahow.
If a female isn't dead on staring you down.. That means keep it moving hayee
I'm being serious, minus complementing the ugly friend I am really bad lying so I don't do that.
you can treat her like shit to deflate that big ego or treat her nice and make her more big headed, don't get me wrong there are cool chicks that you can lime with without saying much but for the most part thirsty niggas got a lot girls feeling like beyonce.
Mr. Yungnfresh wrote: West & Helwaa, the thing is sometimes we genuinely don't know what time it is and we approach you cuz we genuinely just wanna know what time it is...the problem with most Somali girls is they think any interaction is an attempt at getting with them. We say "Assalamu Alaykum", and they reply "Istaqfurullah...don't try that on me saqajaan yahow".
Yes sometimes your watch breaks, phone switches off, battery on your phone dies as does your ipod, the ipod touch can be experiencing problems too. Than you sometimes cant be bothered to look at a clock in the room your in . You just gotta ask the hot female beside you
I'm being serious, minus complementing the ugly friend I am really bad lying so I don't do that.
you can treat her like shit to deflate that big ego or treat her nice and make her more big headed, don't get me wrong there are cool chicks that you can lime with without saying much but for the most part thirsty niggas got a lot girls feeling like beyonce.
so true, girls have been hyper inflated by thirst nigga's that an ugly girl thinks shes a dime, B*** plz that nigga just wanted to hit it and bounce, he don't think u look better beyonce
and then when they hit 25 they wonder why they can't get a man willing to settle down
Here's my method to get any girls interested in me.
1. Make yourself look like you're selling yourself to the said girl, and be sure it's related to what she likes and her personalities. For example, if she embraces Islam so much that she preaches about it everyday, then you should wear Arabic clothes complete with red/white headscarf plus oil thingy you use on your back of hand to make yourself smell nice, I heard that green oil are girl magnet...
2. Confidence is key, don't make it seem obvious you're not match for her or she's way out of your league.
3. Strike up conversation with appropriate topic, if you're in Eid party, ask her how was the party, and things like that.
4. Don't generate lies to make yourself seem more attractive as some girls might find it to have opposite effect.
5. Don't be selfish and talk too much about yourself, ask her some questions about herself, social balance is key at here.
6. Don't expose your personal information as it will be needed in later when you finally "date" her.
7. Bring Mahram and make him/her stand few foot away from you, upon talking her, if things get too flirtatious and she stops asks you "Isn't this haraam", then point your hand to your own mahram and say "He's my friend, supervising us so that's fine".
8. Upon finishing the conversation, try your luck, ask for number if she lives in your city, otherwise ask if she has FB and this is where journey to marriage starts.
9. Be sure make her laugh, and test her intelligence level by listening to what she says, if her intellegence level is low, don't make complex jokes or jokes that are "hard to get". Otherwise try your luck and do it.
10. Test her knowledge by asking her hard question, if she answers it wrong, prove her wrong. As she will fall into your trap and argue with you. It is best to ask Islamic question on Islamic matters that are commonly mistaken by many other Muslims.
11. Show yourself as good Muslim who tries hard to follow Islam, although don't make it seem like you're perfect who never makes mistake.
Phew. I think this will offend many SNET girls... Apologises if you have been offended.
FAH1223 wrote:this chick was lamenting and complaining to a group of us about how no one wants to marry her, she just graduated, and all that typical shid.. then she blurts out "WHY DON'T THESE GUYS IN THE MSA KNOW HOW TO TALK TO WOMEN? I KNOW WHY, THEY ONLY VIEW ME AS A SEX OBJECT AND CAN'T LOOK ME IN THE FACE"
What's weird is how they are perfectly capable of talking to other women but somehow a Muslim one is impossible to look in the eye. Women are women no?
BlackVelvet wrote: There is a thin line between confidence and arrogance. Some chicks might be tempted to put you back in your place just because you acted like you need it.
So in a way being arrogant works.
Here is confidence....and over here ................ is arrogance. No one likes an arrogant prick because they are a negative force of energy. Stay positive kiddo.
Of course an overtly pompous individual is very very annoying. But a slighty cocky, a show off always keeps the punters interested. Slighty cocky people always get the most attention therefore if your looking for attention than wouldn't bring a tad cocky be the best motto
