greeny, did you ever pull that on a guy before? Sidaad u isticmaashay aaba iga yaabisay!greenday wrote:If the girl is cool take it, deen eaa deen from a guy or a girl its never a nice thing or feeling but if you must her being a women makes no difference walahi. This idea that women are power hungry and would use it against u waa been, what is she going to say waryaa i gave u money now wash my kastuumo? No.
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I dont need him to owe me money for me to say this noohTwist wrote:greeny, did you ever pull that on a guy before? Sidaad u isticmaashay aaba iga yaabisay!greenday wrote:If the girl is cool take it, deen eaa deen from a guy or a girl its never a nice thing or feeling but if you must her being a women makes no difference walahi. This idea that women are power hungry and would use it against u waa been, what is she going to say waryaa i gave u money now wash my kastuumo? No.![]()
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I was caught in this position time ago once.
Started a job in mid july, first pay check was going to be at the start of september and i was so broke i literally had my whole account balance in my pockets. Some girl i knew from secondary realised the situation and offered me some money. I didn't want to accept but at the same time i didn't wanne go round begging people especially my parents. After some contemplation i accepted and i ended up giving her money back on september before i even spend a penny on myself.
Started a job in mid july, first pay check was going to be at the start of september and i was so broke i literally had my whole account balance in my pockets. Some girl i knew from secondary realised the situation and offered me some money. I didn't want to accept but at the same time i didn't wanne go round begging people especially my parents. After some contemplation i accepted and i ended up giving her money back on september before i even spend a penny on myself.
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I would take it, and treat it as a interest-free loan. I'll give her back when the financial situation gets better. If she is Islamic-loving and has high deen, then you know for sure that she wouldn't use it against you. It depends really.Advo wrote:Say financial wise u seen better days and some girl ur either close to or talking to offers you money and I dont mean pocket change, as a man would you feel comfortable accepting it or is ur ego too big?
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Sugar moms are cool, take it and ask for more.
On the real though, do the right thing.
On the real though, do the right thing.
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i never turn down free money.
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Well if the person is a stable person. Take the money. If the person aint stable. Do not take the money.
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Advo, listen & learn from the experienced.xaski_cigaal wrote:if you take it from her, the relationship is probably gonna be over. Lets be real, the more a woman invests in a man: time, money, gifts, the higher expectations she has of him. And by higher expectations, she generally expects commitments. Unless your planning on getting hitched, you not wanting to move the relationship forward and her feeling as though shes investing in a sinking ship will lead to fighting. And fighting with somebody you're indebted a significant amount to is a bad idea. Why do you think you should never mix business with pleasure?
No matter how bad things are for you financially (which really can't be too terrible since you're living at home) it can't be worse than how bad things are gonna be for you when you got halimo talking all over the town about how much time and effort she put into your relationship and she even gave you money but you still didn't 'man up' and pop the question.this is a recipe for disaster.
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It is never a good idea to borrow money,esp. someone u r involved with.Shit can hit the fan very quickly.
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^^ Look who's here! Eedo, I thought in aad diraca bedelatay. Almost knocked at your door.
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Firstly, LMAO @ your avatar. SubhanAllah.
Secondly, I don't feel comfortable taking money from family, let alone strange girls. Nah. I'd rather starve it out, eat Heinz beans and trail mix for a month if need be. Pick up an extra shift or a job. Anything. If i had to, wallahi I'd live under a bridge or in a car for a month, as long as i had steady income and PO Box to my name.
Secondly, I don't feel comfortable taking money from family, let alone strange girls. Nah. I'd rather starve it out, eat Heinz beans and trail mix for a month if need be. Pick up an extra shift or a job. Anything. If i had to, wallahi I'd live under a bridge or in a car for a month, as long as i had steady income and PO Box to my name.
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Twist Maya.Meesha waan iloobay runtii
Hi Alpha
Hi Alpha
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Hello...
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Waan iloobay? Just like that?Beans wrote:Twist Maya.Meesha waan iloobay runtii![]()
Hi Alpha
Malaha meel kalaad heshay? Come on, son!
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Twist Inteen aadi lahaa oo kale? Tell me that saying that something sagaaro meeshay barato ayey macluul ugudhimataa,was it?
Jus like that,walle inaan meshaan mardhow soo xasuustey.
Lols Alpha Was that ur "I am somewhat paranoid " hello?
Jus like that,walle inaan meshaan mardhow soo xasuustey.
Lols Alpha Was that ur "I am somewhat paranoid " hello?
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