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we somalis have no right to lecture africans, considerning our recent experince with mac daddy gunter bischoss of somaliland

War niyow Ilaahey haddaad garanaysaan , meel idin gaar ah furta . Nacayb waxaan ahayn ka ma' qaado bahaladan afkan ku hadla , @#!*% !
Eaglehawk , iska gudhu dacar midgaan ku hadhay baad tahay e , haddaan ku tusi laha meelaha qaarkood , wallahi dib ba u maad soo gasheen halkan .Dad idiin caan ah weliba baan ka hadkaya anigu , not a random prostitute.
Leave it to these gudhus to take a shot at another somali while protecting the kikuyus {waa u dhaqan nacdal ku dhacdadu}
"We" somalis kuye , isku dad ma nihin hooyada wase , addon baad tahay adigu calooshu taagan tahay .

GedoGurl,

Muslim Rasta beach boys ? So are you still in the coast ? I was planning to Watamu for relaxation and to destress. How long before 30 ? Did you get married ?

Yep...as in they are dreadlocked, peace loving, reggae music loving, weed smoking guys who go to Mosque on Fridays ans Eid LOL.

I have a few more years to go, but I want to fit in a second degree in that time and get married. I left the coast, will be back at some point though, probably Shelisheli next. Not married yet, keep bumping into Mr Wrong...and I'm pretty easy to please. I have my own money, career etc I just need someone who wont milk me or resent me for it. How about you, I hear you have half a dozen Caasho Luuls in Mogadishu, kibirka baa kaa batey LOL

GedoGurl,

Stop looking for Mr. Right. He doesn't exist. Try Mr. OK.

I am doing well. I am enjoying my stay in the homeland. There is no kibir dada. I am just being me. At the end of the day, you have to live with yourself.

Take your time and enjoy life. My only regret is not moving back years ago. Life is much simpler out here.

Hmmm...I cant deal with OK. I make an effort with myself diinwise/lifestyle/looks etc and I want someone similar...or ready to change. I dont want a loser raising my kids.

I'm happy for you bro, glad you made it out, I'm leaving Ulaya soon too. My female friends went to Xamar and are traumatised by the sexism there, no-one takes orders/advice from them even though they are qualified to the eyeballs. That put me off going back to Xamar. What are you doing for work out there? Please tell me you only have the one wife...thats what I meant by kibir...more than one is too much!

GedoGurl,

I had a wife. It then got ugly. All I remember was jumping out the window and doing a Abdibile over 1 km. I now have to avoid a whole xafaad cuz of her and her kin.

Relax sister, Xamar is moving along. You just have to be a loud, aggressive person to get things done. I hope to remarry some day but the risks associated with failure are too damn high.

P.S. I would never suggest a loser. You just need a supportive, understanding, and loving kasband who will stand with you during the good and bad times. Remember to never let others get between you because once you are married you are ONE: one family, one team, and each other's BEST FRIEND.

Love the last part of your message! My friends know not to get involved in my business like that...I'm quite a private person in that sense anyway so I hope not. The man you have described is a bit elusive in my case, but inshaAllah khair!

You and women Abdi, you need to really know who you marry before the nikaax! I'll return someday, but only as a medical professional, I'm re-training as a midwife next September, hopefully I wont have any problems in that field. You never told me what you were doing there?

AbdiWahab252 wrote:GedoGurl,

Stop looking for Mr. Right. He doesn't exist. Try Mr. OK.

I am doing well. I am enjoying my stay in the homeland. There is no kibir dada. I am just being me. At the end of the day, you have to live with yourself.

Take your time and enjoy life. My only regret is not moving back years ago. Life is much simpler out here.

Walee waa advise worth taking

AW, I must say you made the right call the day you left debadaha for dalka, you should be applauded mann. Unfortunately, I like so many other Somalis are still stuck here and still pumping money back home even though we don't plan to move back anytime soon while, yes still paying rent when our own build villas are decaying back home... ninyahow yaa naa habaray? And if that wasn't enough of a headache, we single men have gone broke chasing after chicks aad modiid in mator kibir aah sanka loga dhajiyeey... shit mann!

My father tells me he manage to corner my mother while he was broke, gorgeous woman who still loves him like the day they first met some 30 plus years ago in Xamar. Worlds apart!

Ninyahow soo duce... qaxootinimo, baraf, iyo gabadho with a list as heavy as matorka sanka ka saran baa raxada naga qadaye.

D-Runner,

What you need to do is deprogram your shukaansi game. You need to have a heart to heart with yourself and ask what is it you want, and most importantly what kind of woman can you live with. When I was younger, I was solely into good looking women who fawned over me and would sweet talk. I also was into the game: the chase, the hunt and the kill (no, not murder but you know what I mean). I sat down one evening with a woman who has known me since I was a toddler and is one of my closest and best friends. She set me straight and told me what I was doing wrong. It was a life changing moment and I began connecting the dots. Of all the women I dated, had certain common characteristics.

As part of my deprogramming, I looked for women with the opposite attributes. Tried going out with them and really trying hard to revert to the typical woman I date. It took time but now I am deprogrammed and meeting women I can marry and share a life with.

I wish you the best in your journey. Don't forget to enjoy it as your youth is to be cherished.