Settle this argument.

[Alphanumeric]

Then why ask immediately? Wouldn't that create a "false sense of security" if their responses align with your views?

No more so then postponing doing it an getting feelings involved. I really think marriages should be approached like business deals as much as possible.

Hence the contract. But all that goes out the window when shit hits the fan.

What happened to your disdain for relationship topics? Seems like 1 of every 3 of your threads are on this. Should congratulations be in order?

[Nanees]

trust me alfs, when i get hitched ull probably end up invited.

[Alphanumeric]

Doubtful, but it is a possibility.

On marriage though, it's really just about closing your eyes, jumping in, and hoping for the best. Just pray you don't end up with a manipulative scum, as seems to be the trend.

[Nanees]

wait, alfs giving marriage advice thats not 'dont get married'? war ileen wax aduunka la arqay. you finally wore down?

[Alphanumeric]

No. If anything, this thread only reaffirms my perspective. The conclusion seems to be "you can never know who you're getting with", which has always been my stance. It doesn't matter how amazing a Muslim they are, how many achievements they have, what ambitions they've got, or how clean their past is; you can never really know em. Certainly never before getting married. It doesn't matter how many clauses are in the contract, if it breaks down, it breaks down. It's all a gamble. Depends entirely how much you want it.

[Nanees]

No. If anything, this thread only reaffirms my perspective. The conclusion seems to be "you can never know who you're getting with", which has always been my stance. It doesn't matter how amazing a Muslim they are, how many achievements they have, what ambitions they've got, or how clean their past is; you can never really know em. Certainly never before getting married. It doesn't matter how many clauses are in the contract, if it breaks down, it breaks down. It's all a gamble. Depends entirely how much you want it.

i heard something today that would make you swear on monkhood.

[Alphanumeric]

I don't really get surprised much any more. It can't be worse than not knowing if your child is yours

[Nanees]

I don't really get surprised much any more. It can't be worse than not knowing if your child is yours

trust me alfa, you might consider seppuku. Have you figured out how to work this new chat feature yet?

[Alphanumeric]

No, I haven't even attempted. Facebook was never for me, and I've yet to use the chat over there. I think you need to add friends.

I think that chat feature will only slow down the forums, greatly.

[Nanees]

its like the private-group killer.

[Alphanumeric]

Yeah, actually hope it does kill off private groups

[DisplacedDiraac]

I would side with you..

[Thuganomics]

like do you expect your wife to cook for you? ?

Is the pope catholic

[Keyblade]

like do you expect your wife to cook for you? ?

Is the pope catholic

[Advo]

Wife duties: anything related to the house except fixing pipes, damaged roof, basically all repairs etc (wish that was included too). Coming home to a nice meal on the table, newspaper neatly placed on the edge, ur wife wearing a kitchen apron dusting off the shelves and respecting the moment by remaining completely silent. Perfect wife