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He probably lost interest in you..or playing one of those pre calculated games. Anyway ha ka neefin..move on..get urself a hot guy..and make that jerk jealous

gemini07 wrote:You either gave him what he wanted or he got it from someone else and is now investing his time in her. Either way, move on.

gemini07 wrote:You either gave him what he wanted or he got it from someone else and is now investing his time in her. Either way, move on.

Giiiirl. Don't listen to homegirl op. Never give him the milk for free...keep putting him off until you're married, then put him off for a couple days after you marry him. To let him know who runs things.

PS. Never chase a man, there's one on every street corner if you don't like the one you have now replace him. He's not that into you love you're probs a dime put on a new batti and do your thing.

ZahraWadani wrote:why would a guy all of a sudden start avoiding you when a week ago he was all into you

Maybe he wasn't really all that into you. Can't imagine someone being into you one minute and avoiding you the next. I mean, you only avoid creepy people...or at least I do.

Or if I be completely zany, maybe he was completely taken back by his overwhelming feelings for you and thought to himself avoiding you is the only way to keep both his weak heart and your honour safe from his uncontrollable and besotted feelings until he is able to better understand and control his feelings...

Thanks you guys ....

i've decided to move on ...

ZahraWadani wrote:Thanks you guys ....

i've decided to move on ...

well i suggest you completely halt having premarital relationship as this is not allowed in Islam.

i read most of the suggestions and no one mentioned a good reason why or why not and perhaps because we all focused on the wrong side of things.

furthermore this shows how far we are slipping away from our beautiful religion and our superior tradition of family values.

sista zahra, if you make yourself available for guys, they will just take advantage of you and when they are done with you they will just abandon you. that's what guys do. so the best thing for any girl to do is to guard her modesty and listen to what her family has to say about what she should or shouldn't do because, like many, i believe parents have a role to play when it comes to a lawful relationship preceding marriage.

my comments might be off topic here but this is what i believe is the right thing to do.

^^Dating dad badan bu caadi oo noqday because they see their friends doing the same shit.It takes one hell of strong person to stay away from group pressure.Qof kasta waa saaxibki, in order to be good person you must hang out with the right crowed.With the sam values, manners and believs as you're.

what about halal dating ?

ZahraWadani wrote:what about halal dating ?

i presented this question to many imams and sheikhs and they all told me that there's nothing called "halal dating." any physical contact with a non-relative male for females is prohibited just as a man is prohibited for having any physical contact with a non-relative females.

however, if your intention is to get married , then there's a halal way to do it. they told me that it is best you introduce the person to your family and bring him/her home and courting or anything else you do must be done in full view of parents or others and it must not be done in secluded area in any circumstance whatsoever. and that's the best, most authentic way to start a pious family.

i hope this helps. you are doing a good job sista for asking the right questions. in a world with so much temptation, may allah guide us to the right path and give us the patience to do it, insha allah.