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Re: Is this feeling OK
Posted: Thu May 17, 2012 10:33 am
by Lamagoodle
greenday wrote:Waa caadi i myself dont see me as a "mother" but i know children are a blessing so
There should be a reason for bringing a kid to this world though.. don't you agree? Yes, there are rational reasons; insurance policy that provide you with an indemnity when you are not able to function but that is not a reason enough if you have accumulated wealth.
P.s. I can't overcome the fooling you subjected this odeyga shaalka watow
Re: Is this feeling OK
Posted: Thu May 17, 2012 10:35 am
by Shirib
^^^ lool, why can't you just want kids. There is joy into having them. Everyone I've met says they love their kids more than anything else in the world, and it's not for insurance
Re: Is this feeling OK
Posted: Thu May 17, 2012 10:36 am
by nomadicwarlord
daiman wrote:I said this to someone who is a relative of mine ( a year and so ago). I am still angry the way he responded which was ' waxa qoran wey qoran yahiin, maxaa niyada iskaga dileysaa'
I did not understand where that came from since I was not old or anything. I said similar thing to a cousin of mine and she did not believe me.
But walahi, I feel I do not want to have children. I do not see myself bringing up children for such a long time( another 18 years).
am I selfish?
but at the sametime somalida would look at you differently. I saw them feeling sorry for childless old people.
That's your choice and people should respect that. Are you planning not to get married too?
Re: Is this feeling OK
Posted: Thu May 17, 2012 10:38 am
by Lamagoodle
Shirib wrote:^^^ lool, why can't you just want kids. There is joy into having them. Everyone I've met says they love their kids more than anything else in the world, and it's not for insurance
If you just take a minute and reflect (critically) by setting aside the conventional wisdom on this issue, you will conclude that there are holes here and there.
Re: Is this feeling OK
Posted: Thu May 17, 2012 10:39 am
by greenday
Lamgoodle wrote:greenday wrote:Waa caadi i myself dont see me as a "mother" but i know children are a blessing so
There should be a reason for bringing a kid to this world though.. don't you agree? Yes, there are rational reasons; insurance policy that provide you with an indemnity when you are not able to function but that is not a reason enough if you have accumulated wealth.
P.s. I can't overcome the fooling you subjected this odeyga shaalka watow
I beleive there will be a feeling that comes when you have the child something i cant feel now but would like to experience nooh
its just i have too many fears what if they turn out wrong? i mean no mother raises her children to be monsters/ being pregnant and giving birth/not being able to cope/ feeling hopeless if they have some illness or they get sick
Icafi kuma dhihino adi
Re: Is this feeling OK
Posted: Thu May 17, 2012 10:41 am
by Shirib
Lamgoodle wrote:Shirib wrote:^^^ lool, why can't you just want kids. There is joy into having them. Everyone I've met says they love their kids more than anything else in the world, and it's not for insurance
If you just take a minute and reflect (critically) by setting aside the conventional wisdom on this issue, you will conclude that there are holes here and there.
survival of the fittest, fittest depends on how you are able to reproduce
haye hows that argument?
Re: Is this feeling OK
Posted: Thu May 17, 2012 10:46 am
by Lamagoodle
Greenday, haa waad i tirii cafi laakin weli waan iloobi la'ahay. I was thinking about the welfare of that rascal! I was trying to send a ticket for Paris Disney.
Shirib, now you are talking saaxib! Natural selection . Then, you are into biological instincts which is far from the emotional reasons you gave earlier because many animals do not nurture their offsprings. They mate only to produce.
Re: Is this feeling OK
Posted: Thu May 17, 2012 10:48 am
by greenday
Lama how about this you tell me your name and inshallah hadaa wiil dhalo wakugu saminaa and we are even
Re: Is this feeling OK
Posted: Thu May 17, 2012 10:51 am
by Shirib
Lamagoodle,
Children are a blessing from Allah...and I'm out
Re: Is this feeling OK
Posted: Thu May 17, 2012 10:54 am
by Lamagoodle
greenday wrote:Lama how about this you tell me your name and inshallah hadaa wiil dhalo wakugu saminaa and we are even
Ha igu saminin sababtoo ah wiilkaaga inuu raaca ayaan ka cabsanayaa;
Seriously though; I kind of felt sorry for you. Single mother raising a boy whose father has abandoned him. Walaahi, I also thought about kicking the tenents of my houre in Southall so that you could move in for free.
Shiribow; now you are taking a perspective that closes the issue. If you say ALLAH's will who am I to disagree.?
Re: Is this feeling OK
Posted: Thu May 17, 2012 10:59 am
by greenday
Lamgoodle wrote:greenday wrote:Lama how about this you tell me your name and inshallah hadaa wiil dhalo wakugu saminaa and we are even
Ha igu saminin sababtoo ah wiilkaaga inuu raaca ayaan ka cabsanayaa;
Seriously though; I kind of felt sorry for you. Single mother raising a boy whose father has abandoned him. Walaahi, I also thought about kicking the tenents of my houre in Southall so that you could move in for free.
Shiribow; now you are taking a perspective that closes the issue. If you say ALLAH's will who am I to disagree.
Calool jilcanida ma hiniya wax kugaleen
Re: Is this feeling OK
Posted: Thu May 17, 2012 11:02 am
by Lamagoodle
I am a naive guy or as Northern European say "blue eyed" ; an aura of innocense and believing in what people tell me. You see, I have not had a bad time; I have always had the best of everything; education, money and blessings.
Re: Is this feeling OK
Posted: Thu May 17, 2012 11:06 am
by greenday
Lamgoodle wrote:I am a naive guy or as Northern European say "blue eyed" ; an aura of innocense and believing in what people tell me. You see, I have not had a bad time; I have always had the best of everything; education, money and blessings.
I guess you dont pay much attention to what people say because if you did you might have been able to tell i was bluffing based on my previous comments
Re: Is this feeling OK
Posted: Thu May 17, 2012 11:12 am
by Lamagoodle
greenday wrote:Lamgoodle wrote:I am a naive guy or as Northern European say "blue eyed" ; an aura of innocense and believing in what people tell me. You see, I have not had a bad time; I have always had the best of everything; education, money and blessings.
I guess you dont pay much attention to what people say because if you did you might have been able to tell i was bluffing based on my previous comments
Yes, that is one of my major weakness. I believe what people tell me. I am always a victim of scums. I once sent 500 dollars to someone who said we were related. I later found out that that person was a liar.
Habeen wanaagsan.
Re: Is this feeling OK
Posted: Thu May 17, 2012 11:15 am
by greenday
You dont know your relatives
habeen wanaagsan