I'm offically homeless

[Arabmann]

i was put out of my house for not paying rent
wallahi its not even funny i was sleeping in my car for the past two days. I tell you what its not easy but my situation is a bit better i have my own car so i find a safe spot to park and sleep inside car with pillow and cover...Plus i wish my windows were tainted.

There are articles dedicated to how to survive as a homeless. If you're focused, it's manageable.

[Hyperactive]

Did you not have furniture? How were you literally put out of your own home? Where did the couch n the bed go?

they put them outside. ive seen palastinian people who vacated. they were in the street sitting on their furniture.

[daiman]

So, xiimaaye how are things with you now? do you have any close relatives you can stay with for the time being?

[gobdoon]

Imisa sano baad jirta kelyo iska raadi waxas wa lasoo wada maray, Somalida beryahan dambe wa bakhti , dad ba xata ka xishooda inay dhibaatadooda meel shir ah ka sheegan.

[daiman]

Imisa sano baad jirta kelyo iska raadi waxas wa lasoo wada maray, Somalida beryahan dambe wa bakhti , dad ba xata ka xishooda inay dhibaatadooda meel shir ah ka sheegan.

Acuudu bilaah, it is better that we share our problems. This kind of attitude makes people to suffer alone, so many people went mental. It is good to share your problems big or little. He would have to do about it certainly, but we are there for him for moral support.

[gobdoon]

Yes , i do agree with you but at the same time don't be a softie, where is your Somali spirit and strength We are known as strong tough people who survive harsh climates.

[LobsterUnit]

i was put out of my house for not paying rent
wallahi its not even funny i was sleeping in my car for the past two days. I tell you what its not easy but my situation is a bit better i have my own car so i find a safe spot to park and sleep inside car with pillow and cover...Plus i wish my windows were tainted.

where the fuck is your tol?

[daiman]

Yes , i do agree with you but at the same time don't be a softie, where is your Somali spirit and strength We are known as strong tough people who survive harsh climates.

toughen up odes not work in the West most of the time, here in the West. May be a pat at the back is better.
It is tough world, much more tougher than the harsh somali environment, because over there we have parents, tol and we are in our home country.
I see so many Somalis falling into all sort of things. I stop and talk to whenever I see a Somali person sitting on a bench talking to himself, and ask which clan they belong to, so I would find someone to help them( if I can't). But I also realise that there are no tolnimo anymore in the West, people are haasid. But my somallinimo has not died yet.

I want people to be there for me and them be there for me.....

[gobdoon]

And come on We are also known independent, individualistic people I don't even get involve my broblems with my family/relatives let alone so called TOL IT IS A TOUGH WORLD MY FRIEND.

[Mason]

And come on We are also known independent, individualistic people I don't even get involve my broblems with my family/relatives let alone so called TOL IT IS A TOUGH WORLD MY FRIEND.

When you have the odds stacked against you, no amount of individualism helps you get on your footing. You need to start somewhere. For xiimaaya, He needs:


A- Gas in his car to keep looking for work or keep the one he has.
B- He needs food to have the energy to work.
C- He needs somewhere to stay to clean up.


If he goes to the Mosque and asks for temporary help on Friday, am sure someone will help him temporarily. He is young and able bodied, so he won't be a burden if he doesn't have bad habits like Alcohol and drugs.

[daiman]

this xiimaaya guy waa qudhun. waan nacey.

[xiimaaya]

this xiimaaya guy waa qudhun. waan nacey.

Why my friend???? barasho horteda haa naciin.. <.. cant write somali properly..


By the way this is true story thanks all who gave advice.....

[xiimaaya]

Did you not have furniture? How were you literally put out of your own home? Where did the couch n the bed go?

What good is fruniture when you are homeless

i dont know how you think

[xiimaaya]

Imisa sano baad jirta kelyo iska raadi waxas wa lasoo wada maray, Somalida beryahan dambe wa bakhti , dad ba xata ka xishooda inay dhibaatadooda meel shir ah ka sheegan.

Im qute young...

[xiimaaya]

but things are turning fine im starting to drive truck soon.. So i wouldnt need home...

I have moved from my parents house thinking i am self sufficient .. Moved to diff state to start school then i couldnt find a job all my savings dried up and i coulndt pay my rent for two months so i was put out .. the owner of the house was somali which made it worst i dont want mention his tribe...

but its getting better my parents dont know my sitiuation so im trying to tough it out..