Re: finding a suitable mate
Posted: Sun Sep 30, 2012 11:03 pm
Ninyahoow it's easy to insult. So if you're going to convince me your point I suggest you do so without the insults. If not then, don't bother responding to me at all.
If we are to assume that one woman is able to sleep with 7 men in "a whole day", then can we not assume that each of those men will sleep with multiple women or prostitutes during that day (at least 3)? We know that men (Soldiers, Businessmen, Truck drivers- main culprits) who use prostitutes do not usually go to the same one every time and women especially in the old days (And some current ones -issues of legality) avoided to incur any suspicion from their neighbors, and as a result they would either wonder around or live in a area where there are "multiple prostitutes". There are more women then men, and it's obvious that prostitutes commit fornication, but there are women who are not prostitutes that also fornicate, and are not accounted for in your equation.
Lack of social acceptability of an action/behavior doesn't translate to people never acting upon that behavior. There are many things which are still not acceptable and adultery is one of them. Nevertheless, that never stopped people from doing what they want. The supposed sexual revolution you're stating has done nothing but normalized an action that was merely kept in the closet by many people (mainly women).
You're under the impression that Muslim women in the West are not undertaking the same actions as their male counterparts. Why?
Adultery, unlike murder and thief, requires two individuals to commit the act for it to be a crime.
Religion never advocated for adultery/fornication. In Islam a man who commits adultery/fornication is as guilty as the woman. Christianity which has the largest followers of any religion actually advocates for monogamy and "Till death do us apart".
Traditions differs depending on the social group's religious and legislative background.
Patriarchy, the extreme type favors machoism and womanization.
And Honor depends once again on the religiosity and social construction of the respected group. Arabs and people from the sub-continent have the worst sense of honor.
First of all, a woman does not have to be a "prostitute" to be unchaste. Prostitution is the oldest job in the world, which proves exactly what you are trying to argue against: The Sexual Freedom of women and the notion that women are "less lustful than men".sahal80 wrote:no. This is your stupid
No. This is your immature conclusion and you have no idea of mans civilazation. To nullify your childish math, I will give you two examples: There is a village where one woman sells her body, each night she meets 7 men. Here, we have within 4 nights 1 woman vs 28 men!!.
If we are to assume that one woman is able to sleep with 7 men in "a whole day", then can we not assume that each of those men will sleep with multiple women or prostitutes during that day (at least 3)? We know that men (Soldiers, Businessmen, Truck drivers- main culprits) who use prostitutes do not usually go to the same one every time and women especially in the old days (And some current ones -issues of legality) avoided to incur any suspicion from their neighbors, and as a result they would either wonder around or live in a area where there are "multiple prostitutes". There are more women then men, and it's obvious that prostitutes commit fornication, but there are women who are not prostitutes that also fornicate, and are not accounted for in your equation.
The other example is related to the civilazations and its locations. In the 17 century, both the west and the rest were similar and adultery was not permitted even in the west for any gender before their sexual revolution. The westren women had gained her sexual freedom during the 60s after a century of the westren men having their free sexual lives.
Lack of social acceptability of an action/behavior doesn't translate to people never acting upon that behavior. There are many things which are still not acceptable and adultery is one of them. Nevertheless, that never stopped people from doing what they want. The supposed sexual revolution you're stating has done nothing but normalized an action that was merely kept in the closet by many people (mainly women).
Now let us say the muslim men of the west are not in need sexually for the muslim women in the west. Here, we have the westren women vs the westren men plus the third world men!!! Are there any equality in numbers? This again nullifies your "math".
You're under the impression that Muslim women in the West are not undertaking the same actions as their male counterparts. Why?
Its a fact that men are natural promiscuous to the point that the feminism claim apologetically of women being superior morally than men but this has nothing to do with their morals, it has to do with the religions, traditions, patriarchism and honour.
Adultery, unlike murder and thief, requires two individuals to commit the act for it to be a crime.
Religion never advocated for adultery/fornication. In Islam a man who commits adultery/fornication is as guilty as the woman. Christianity which has the largest followers of any religion actually advocates for monogamy and "Till death do us apart".
Traditions differs depending on the social group's religious and legislative background.
Patriarchy, the extreme type favors machoism and womanization.
And Honor depends once again on the religiosity and social construction of the respected group. Arabs and people from the sub-continent have the worst sense of honor.
get outta here