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Re: Somali men marry Ajnabi Women

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Enlightened~Sista wrote:Why attach so much importance on being Somali? It hardly illicits any feelings of pride these days. .

Sadly this is very true.
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Re: Somali men marry Ajnabi Women

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It does have importance since we're referring to back home here. It creates a big stigma if the kid's father is not Somali, hence not
accepted in Somali society.


This is the problems when Halimos and Bantus cohabit and breed causes in back home = unwanted babies.


Somali mother looks for her UPDF lover



By Patrick Jaramogi

A Somali mother is in Kampala looking for a UPDF soldier who she says fathered her four-month-old baby-boy. The 23-year-old Nino Omar Ibrahim
arrived five days ago after a one-week journey from war-torn Somalia.

The situation back home, she said, had forced her to search for the father of her son who was one of the 1,600 Ugandan peace-keepers deployed in Mogadishu.

“I met him when I took my father, Sheik Ibrahim Omar, for treatment at the AMISOM hospital in Mogadishu,” said the frail-looking Nino.

While she searches for the soldier, Nino has taken refuge in Kisenyi, the Kampala slum which has most Somali refugees.
“I love the father of my boy. All I need is to get in touch with him for assistance. I need him that is why I came. My child is a Ugandan but I feared being
killed due to this act. I am safer here,” she said.

Under Islamic law, which operates in some parts of Somalia, a woman may be killed for having sex out of wedlock
.

http://www.newvision.co.ug/D/8/13/646169
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Re: Somali men marry Ajnabi Women

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I'll say the same thing I said about "somali women and ajnabi men thread" which is, who cares.
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Ducaysane209 wrote:It does have importance since we're referring to back home here. It creates a big stigma if the kid's father is not Somali, hence clan less.


This is the problems when Halimos and Bantus cohabit and breed causes in back home = unwanted babies.


Somali mother looks for her UPDF lover



By Patrick Jaramogi

A Somali mother is in Kampala looking for a UPDF soldier who she says fathered her four-month-old baby-boy. The 23-year-old Nino Omar Ibrahim
arrived five days ago after a one-week journey from war-torn Somalia.

The situation back home, she said, had forced her to search for the father of her son who was one of the 1,600 Ugandan peace-keepers deployed in Mogadishu.

“I met him when I took my father, Sheik Ibrahim Omar, for treatment at the AMISOM hospital in Mogadishu,” said the frail-looking Nino.

While she searches for the soldier, Nino has taken refuge in Kisenyi, the Kampala slum which has most Somali refugees.
“I love the father of my boy. All I need is to get in touch with him for assistance. I need him that is why I came. My child is a Ugandan but I feared being
killed due to this act. I am safer here,” she said.

Under Islamic law, which operates in some parts of Somalia, a woman may be killed for having sex out of wedlock
.

http://www.newvision.co.ug/D/8/13/646169
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Please do not rehash old articles. Maxaa kaa galay waxaa ka uureeyey? MIyaad gursanlaheyd? lol A person like you who cares about primitiveness like clans and wastelands passing off as cities should not even think about marrying foriegn women. No foreign women will want to marry some one like that who will bore her to death with his clan nonsense. Secondly you cannot force an identity on your brother's kids, runta hadaa laysu sheego your brothers children will not care about clans or this or that tuulo in fact they will be more Yemeni than Somali. Somali children aah dirqii ku ah Somali, the levels of low self esteem, the insecurity is unprecidented, you think children of Arab women or Cadaan women will enthusiastically embrace it? You are either crazy or too ambitious.
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That is so true. You have to be strong and confident with who you are first, that's goes for anyone. The lowered morale among some of the Somali kids relates to the trouble with a bi-cultural dilemma that many of the 1.5 and second generation deal with regarding identity politics. They themselves might be Somali, yet they can't identify completely. Since they are nearly a generation removed from back home. They might feel doubly disadvantaged if they aren't fluent tongued in the language either. This would only become glaringly obvious from a visit back home where one is recognized as somewhat of an outsider, particularly being raised abroad. In which case you don't really know where you fit in. You might even adopt the whole global citizen identity which is a bit more transnational in scope.

I once did a genogram which is more of a health, education and social history of your family. And I guess what I came to realize is that there was a sort of currency via social support, social capital and financial capital through my family that allowed certain people to excel, while others were not afforded the same luxury. There is just a strong obligation to pay it forward which placed on me to help them out anyway I can. Not to do so, would seem like a disservice.
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Re: Somali men marry Ajnabi Women

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I find it funny this kid Ducaysane is stressing about the Somali-ness of kids in interracial marriages yet... he is a clannist himself and engages in this useless banter all the time.
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Re: Somali men marry Ajnabi Women

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It is not what I care or think, it is the stance of the Somali society. It is what it is, if you want to cohabit with a Congolese feel free to do so, just remember
your kid's nationality will be Congolese and will have no place in Somali society. :) Somalis are not a hybrid society where all kinds of garbage are absorbed,
Somali Bantus already face problems and ethnic Somalis avoid marrying from them, and you're talking about foreigners Lol.


My brother's kids will be more Yemeni than Somali? :lol: Are you nuts, we're a traditional paternal society , who take pride in their father's roots and
teach our kids their roots at young age.


White women love men who're confident in their roots, whether it is clan or nationality.


Exhibit A: This man's father is Somali and his mother is White Finnish. Somali men and white women = produce patriotic kids, Bantu men and Somali
women produce = unwanted babies. Like I said, it is what it is. That is the reality.

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As member of the Swedish parliament, I am delighted to send best wishes to the people of Somaliland as you celebrate your 22nd independence day this May 18.

Over the past years, progress has been made toward stability and good governance. Free and fair elections have been held.

Since 2000, five national elections were held, judged by international experts as free and fair, which have seen power transferred peacefully. Somaliland is still treated officially by international organizations as an autonomous region of Somalia, but this ignores both history and reality in the ground.

Hence it is time for the International Community to recognize Somaliland. Independent Somaliland will contribute peace and stability in a region characterized by war and unrest.

On this special day, I extend our warmest wishes to the people of Somaliland.

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FAH1223 wrote:I find it funny this kid Ducaysane is stressing about the Somali-ness of kids in interracial marriages yet... he is a clannist himself
and engages in this useless banter all the time.

Clan is part of being a Somali. There is time for clan and time for preserving the Somali race. Just like the Arabs have their clans but also
advocate for pan-Arab interests.
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FAH1223 wrote:I find it funny this kid Ducaysane is stressing about the Somali-ness of kids in interracial marriages yet... he is a clannist himself and engages in this useless banter all the time.
I am surprised too...his only equal is one who is as primitive as he is. To marry a foreign wife you have to shed all of this nonsense be open minded etc. Otherwise your marriage will end in divorce. I remember reading on the net a while back these sisters {converts} discussing their husbands clans, each one kept stressing how their husbands hailed from an arab! Fairytaleskii baalaga dhaadhiciyey and the arab connection was the only source of faan. Very weird.
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Enlightened~Sista Adigu gabadh baad tahay, As they say ...... qabil maleh. So don't stress about clan, go to the jungles of Congo, for all we care. Just don't try to
bring garbage to Somaliland or Somalia.
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How many times have this exact same thread and video popped up? Get your shit together snet, this is getting embarrassing.
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Ducaysane209 wrote:It does have importance since we're referring to back home here. It creates a big stigma if the kid's father is not Somali, hence not
accepted in Somali society.


This is the problems when Halimos and Bantus cohabit and breed causes in back home = unwanted babies.

Your WHOLE existence/history/ancestry is based upon a Somali woman marrying an Arab man and raising his "unwanted babies" in areas inhabited by "Somalis". :lol:
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A kids self esteem and self worth comes from How His Parents raised Him, the influences in His life. It has nothing to do with national identity.
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Who said anything about Somali woman, the land was inhabited by different natives back then, don't mistake us with the descendants of Somali women and Italian
men as late as 19th century :) .
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Ducaysane209 wrote:Who said anything about Somali woman, the land was inhabited by different natives back then, don't mistake us with the descendants of Somali women and British
men as late as 19th century :) .

Corrected. :mrgreen:
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