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Re: Thinking like a man?

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ms.naliaa wrote:
Women talk their problems out. Thats why we tell eachother the most mundand of things "shiit my split end are back....I have nothing to wear" etc etc

Men are fixers, they dont want to listen to a problem that they either 1. cant fix 2.dont need to fix

There is some truth to this and it gets men into a lot trouble with their significant others. Most men prefer to walk out and don't listen when their wives have something to say about an issue, an act that enrages females even more and shows disrespect.

Listening is important, and even when she is out of her mind, pretend you are listening till she cools off and feels she vented her frustration. Si kalaa looga aarsadaa for the little listening inconvenience LOL.
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Re: Thinking like a man?

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Tuushi wrote:I am a problem solver and i have been asked not to offer a feedback on different issues by my female friends.

It is automatic rsponse for me.
Thank you! I am not alone :blessed:


I have noticed unimpressed expressions after giving my 2 cents (when it wasn't asked for) so it didn't get to the flat out keep it yourself yet aniga shib iska dhahay. :lol: Self improvement but it's hard to bite your tongue
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ms.naliaa wrote:
AgentofChaos.....you shouldnt be here.

Jas is under strict orders to maintain her distance from you otherwise she will get the wrath of ilall
This joke is just as lame as the first time I heard it. :mrgreen:
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Re: Thinking like a man?

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Jasmine6 wrote:
See that's what I mean nowadays I noticed if my friend says hey I have split ends again I'd be like why don't you go to the hairdressers or ask her to join me if I was planning on going. If it's the clothes I'd make a suggestion etc

I noticed it with big life problems particularly I can't just sit there and nod but that's normal right?

You know I love you, but you're being mean.
You dont want your friends to just vent?

Alto wrote:

There is some truth to this and it gets men into a lot trouble with their significant others. Most men prefer to walk out and don't listen when their wives have something to say about an issue, an act that enrages females even more and shows disrespect.

Listening is important, and even when she is out of her mind, pretend you are listening till she cools off and feels she vented her frustration. Si kalaa looga aarsadaa for the little listening inconvenience LOL.
Thats what I taught my brothers after years of living with me
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Re: Thinking like a man?

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Jasmine6 wrote:
Tuushi wrote:I am a problem solver and i have been asked not to offer a feedback on different issues by my female friends.

It is automatic rsponse for me.
Thank you! I am not alone :blessed:


I have noticed unimpressed expressions after giving my 2 cents (when it wasn't asked for) so it didn't get to the flat out keep it yourself yet aniga shib iska dhahay. :lol: Self improvement but it's hard to bite your tongue
Your friends are nicer than mine.They tell me right off that i dont understand and not every problem is shared to be solved.

If i tell u my problem(in most cases),it means i ran into a dead end and need suggestions.
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Re: Thinking like a man?

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I tend to offer advice and listen to people with simple problems such as having lost something, one of their break lights needing fixing iyo waxaa.

But people with marriage issues, physical fights, love issues, family, financial, housing, sex, health and religious issues I don't have the time of day for.
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Re: Thinking like a man?

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It isn't even hentai.
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I've learned to just listen to females. 9 times out of 10 my friends really don't care or want to hear a solution, smh. Guys tend to explicitly ask for advice if they want it.
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Re: Thinking like a man?

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Jasmine didn't make you feel funny as a kid watching Aladdin? I think I was starting to get erections around this time.
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Re: Thinking like a man?

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That explains your attraction to young arab boys.
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Re: Thinking like a man?

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CaliBurco wrote:Jasmine didn't make you feel funny as a kid watching Aladdin? I think I was starting to get erections around this time.
No mate, Lion King, Simba's wifey gave me confusing erections. :lol:
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Re: Thinking like a man?

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Bv, what? When did I ever post something like that?

Afro, she didn't do it for me. Mufasas wife was quite cute.
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Re: Thinking like a man?

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Tuushi the subtlety in their cuncun aan iska fahmey but it is confusing :lol:

Lillaahiya wrote: explicitly ask for advice if they want it.
I think this should be the golden rule, from now on keep it zipped until they ask :meles:
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Re: Thinking like a man?

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Afro and CaliGaabow get a room :hijack:
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Re: Thinking like a man?

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Come to think of, most of the cartoons I watched as a kid had a lot of sexual undertones. f-king gaalo trying to mess with kids.
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