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R.T: When is it okay to meet his/her family?
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I'd ask why she didn't want to meet them and wait for the explanationJasmine6 wrote:Would you be offended if she didn't want to or just accept it as her thing?Shirib wrote:Siblings, when i think she's the one.
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Im with L ila habeenka doonis taa before that is a no no
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It certainly sounds as though matrimonial thoughts are on the uppermost of her mind. Nothing wrong there, particularly, for the fair sex, who, are often at disadvantage, (compare to their male counterpart) and have to contend with a formidable cadow commonly known as the biological clock. As women advance in age, it is not unusual for them to start hearing the proverbial wedding bells with deafening pounding.SelfD wrote:Me thinks Jasmine has a prospect husband...with all the honeymoon night and meeting family questions.
If your doubtful about him in anyway, keep your distance.
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barbarossa wrote:It certainly sounds as though matrimonial thoughts are on the uppermost of her mind. Nothing wrong there, particularly, for the fair sex, who, are often at disadvantage, (compare to their male counterpart) and have to contend with a formidable cadow commonly known as the biological clock. As women advance in age, it is not unusual for them to start hearing the proverbial wedding bells with deafening pounding.SelfD wrote:Me thinks Jasmine has a prospect husband...with all the honeymoon night and meeting family questions.
If your doubtful about him in anyway, keep your distance.
Who let this one back into SNet
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lol logical next stepShirib wrote:I'd ask why she didn't want to meet them and wait for the explanationJasmine6 wrote:Would you be offended if she didn't want to or just accept it as her thing?Shirib wrote:Siblings, when i think she's the one.
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It's best not to meet a member of his family before u absolutely sure and wedding is set and ready to roll....otherwise u might become friends with his sister and then y'all break up and u never wanna see him again..but you're still friends with the sister cuz she's so nice to u and makes an effort to keep u as her friend.... and how awkward when u see him at her house.. Yeah don't rush into family unless things are legit.
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zulaika wrote:It's best not to meet a member of his family before u absolutely sure and wedding is set and ready to roll....otherwise u might become friends with his sister and then y'all break up and u never wanna see him again..but you're still friends with the sister cuz she's so nice to u and makes an effort to keep u as her friend.... and how awkward when u see him at her house.. Yeah don't rush into family unless things are legit.

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SelfD wrote:Me thinks Jasmine has a prospect husband...with all the honeymoon night and meeting family questions.
If your doubtful about him in anyway, keep your distance.

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Keep it professional then, I am more concerned with dealing with fcked up in-laws for the rest of my marriage than making friends with the sibling of my ex fiancee. lolzulaika wrote:It's best not to meet a member of his family before u absolutely sure and wedding is set and ready to roll....otherwise u might become friends with his sister and then y'all break up and u never wanna see him again..but you're still friends with the sister cuz she's so nice to u and makes an effort to keep u as her friend.... and how awkward when u see him at her house.. Yeah don't rush into family unless things are legit.
It's important to meet family even before you get serious, ask if he/she can bring their sibling or parent to your house or a restaurant so you can have a chat. When you marry someone, you marry into their family, for your own sake don't leave it to the last minute, some families are truly toxic so vet them first.
Your advice are normally on point, but this one is so bad I had to say something.

Re: R.T: When is it okay to meet his/her family?
After u settled on baby names,curtain colours etc.
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barbarossa wrote:It certainly sounds as though matrimonial thoughts are on the uppermost of her mind. Nothing wrong there, particularly, for the fair sex, who, are often at disadvantage, (compare to their male counterpart) and have to contend with a formidable cadow commonly known as the biological clock. As women advance in age, it is not unusual for them to start hearing the proverbial wedding bells with deafening pounding.SelfD wrote:Me thinks Jasmine has a prospect husband...with all the honeymoon night and meeting family questions.
If your doubtful about him in anyway, keep your distance.


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Tuushi wrote:After u settled on baby names,curtain colours etc.

After she gets pregnant, she can meet my folks.

Re: R.T: When is it okay to meet his/her family?
I never wanna meet them, thats why I prefer one that came to the US with her relatives, got into an irreconcilable feud and packed her bags leaving for a new city and becoming independent. Ilaahay amirkiis.
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Advo wrote:I never wanna meet them, thats why I prefer one that came to the US with her relatives, got into an irreconcilable feud and packed her bags leaving for a new city and becoming independent. Ilaahay amirkiis.


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