Would you consider dating/marrying

[1nemansquad]

i have done it, messed with ma boy's girl after they broke up, it happend precisely tha same way as tha one of your friend, sh.it like this is always inevitable don't know why

your boy screw's up by some means, you finish up cleaning his mess, xalimo gona start your likin your concerned ways, you two will come close and then you become conscious of how pleasant she is, booom without warnin you too bee feelin one an'otha

that's how it happens more often than not

p.s i had to end ma relationship with her cause of ma boy, he wasn't managing it well

[muslim-man]

This is a true story so pay attention and give feedback folks.

my best freind left his wife for a younger woman two months ago. he is older than me and he is been married to this woman since 98. i have been a regular in their yard ever since. they have three children (2 boys and a gal). One day, two to three weeks before he left her, i and him took the children to walk them in the nearby children's play ground. we were alone untill a beutifull somali woman appeared from nowhere. After the formal "maficantiin?." somali salaams, i left them two to continue their chitchat and went to play with the kids. xarifkii telefoonka ayuu islamarkiiba ka garsiiyey qoftii. markan macsalamene oo soo baxney, yuu yiri "war qoftii waa kadhameye oo haben dambey xafadeeda igu casuuntay". i said "sxibow qoftan iskadaa man! casho (his wife) kama qurxoonee, wa kusidee adigu?". to which he replied, "sxb qoftan waa ushekenaa lee."

Three usbuux later, xaskiisi oo aad iyo aad aan isugu fiicnen aa isoo wacdey. waxey tiri "ninkii wuu baxsadey, waxa lashegey in qoftoo dariska ah luuqeeda ambush ugu jiro. As a best freind, i found it my duty to go and look for him and return him back to the kids if possible. To cut a long story short. ninkii waan is aragney oo wuxu yiri "i aint going back to that wife ee sxb haisdaalinin" i went back and relayed the bad news to her.

That was ALMOST four to five weeks ago. ever since my fone hasn't stopped ringing man! she is been calling me like every half an hour. i been driving her to the shops and places with her new baabur . yesterday waxey igutiri "waan iska fasaqayaa qadar (the freind's name) waana kujeclahay ee igu guurso . she is xabatul ceyn (stunning) and i always found her irresistable to be honest! however i never imagined this coming! he is my best freind and our freindship will hit a dead end as soon as he gets an inkling of what his wife is upto.

I am a poor and a jobless student. anybody in my shoes will find this tempting! she has a very nice car ( something luxury to me ) and a shop in one of the somali shoping bazaars in east london. maxaa sameyaa sxbyaal. madaxmadax maisugu turaa mase waa iska daaya???? your thoughts pliz???

[1nemansquad]

mm, it look as if your interest in her is immoral, talkin bout how broke you are and her monetary circumstances; let me tell something i have well-read thru occurrence/experience

women who are on tha re-bound after a long serious relationship and after bein hurt are yet to return to their normal self waa very very vulnerable and in a emtionally fragile position markaas camal soo dude, unless your lookin to benefit from that then you have no binis gettin your self implicated, plus there are kids involved sooooo its more complicated and be more complicated than your think

gotssss to run ... but good luck

[intellex]

let me ask you this guys would you bang your friends girls if she hits on you?????

[kambuli]

MM,

So in other words you want to become "Caana Dhame" That is the name they call for those jobless guys that marry single mothers. I have heard they ask each other "Are you married to caano keene or caano dhame"

Consider the following:

1. Never marry by impulse.
2. Never marry for sympathy.
3. Never marry for greed.

Make sure, why the guy left his wife. Is she at fault or he is one of those irresponisble guys?

Is the lady younger than you or older than you? What is the age differense.?

You need to watch her very closely. Is she taking care of her children probably.?

I wonder why is it a big deal to you to have a nice car? What is a nice car? Something to throw your whole life into a women?

Isn't it easy to buy a car in England? And what is your plan after you finish your college?

I also wonder why she needs a replacement immediately? Waxay is leedahay ku xumee ninka. Laakiin miskiinta god ay iska ridee.

When you hear or see something like that, then most of the girls are realy discouraged to get married at all.

[Gogarad]

I don't think "your friend" should deal with his friend's ex..for a simple fact, he would be jeopardizing his friendship with his buddy for a woman, and no man or woman is worth coming between friends..that's if they are tight...as u said..there is a lot of fish in the sea..why take your friend's left overs while u can have a brand new one else where??

Marka oo caqli ciili your "friend" not to mess with someone who might cause him something good..

[muslim-man]

[quote="1nemansquad"]mm, it look as if your interest in her is immoral, talkin bout how broke you are and her monetary circumstances; let me tell something i have well-read thru occurrence/experience

women who are on tha re-bound after a long serious relationship and after bein hurt are yet to return to their normal self waa very very vulnerable and in a emtionally fragile position markaas camal soo dude, unless your lookin to benefit from that then you have no binis gettin your self implicated, plus there are kids involved sooooo its more complicated and be more complicated than your think

gotssss to run ... but good luck[/quote]


1man,

you of all ppl shouldn't be discouraging me from this newly found suxul baruul. somalidu say, walaalkaa oon dhimanin, dhaxalkiisa macanaa


just kidding abti, waan ka fiirsanaa sxb even thou it is a very hard to do judging at the rate things are going btw us. dont be suprised if i come back to report we are items in the near future

[muslim-man]

looooooooooooool@ caana dhame

caanihi wali madhadhamin. waxaan maleeya goran dhereen inan sifican ucantuugu doono haduu eebe rali ka noqdo

kambuli, i think u know very well how life is like for a single man, student, without a council flat to call home in lonodn.
now let try to answer you questions in the honest way possible.


you ask "Is the lady younger than you or older than you? What is the age differense.?"

she is older by a big margin

You need to watch her very closely. Is she taking care of her children probably.?

yes she does very well. waa qof aad iyo aad udadaal badan.

"I wonder why is it a big deal to you to have a nice car? What is a nice car? Something to throw your whole life into a women?"

i never said i am throwing meself into her because of the nice car. yes i need a nice car to go to uni and stuff but there is more to it than the car. i will cease paying the rent (unaffordable as very well know in this part of world), i will come back from studies with ready made meal on the table (no more kfc and McDs), ironed clothes, kingsize bed and *ahem* to hide from the chilly winter among other things.


Isn't it easy to buy a car in England? And what is your plan after you finish your college?

i cant afford it. i am extremely poor. runtii bus paskaa iigoye labadan bari

"I also wonder why she needs a replacement immediately? Waxay is leedahay ku xumee ninka. Laakiin miskiinta god ay iska ridee. "

those are least of my worries kambuli, right now the only thing that worries me most is what will be my freinds initial reaction after he finds out! (that iss if we go ahead with her plans)


"When you hear or see something like that, then most of the girls are realy discouraged to get married at all".

no need to worry huuno,, isheeg xagee dagantahay. i will abandon this mission aniga iyo adigaa isu qabaneynaa .

[kambuli]

MM,

Quote"no need to worry huuno,, isheeg xagee dagantahay. i will abandon this mission aniga iyo adigaa isu qabaneynaa ."

Aflagaadadu waa reeban tahay.

Ceeb caleek. Xishood oo wax isku fal.

Naag kaa weyn maxaad ku fali? Maxayse iyadu kugu fali?

Adigu waad caddaysatay oo waxaad tahay caano dhame. Ceeb weeye. Hunguri naag looma raaco.

Iyadu waxay kugu falayso waa la iska garanaya oo waa naag
masayrstey. Naag masayrteyna falkeeda masuul kama aha oo waa ruux waalan oo kale.

Waa iga talo walaalnimo. Miskiintaas masayrsan faraha ka qaad. Caruurtana caanaha haka dhamin. Ilaahay ninbuu kaa dhigee, part-time shaqo ah raadso oo is deber.[/quote]

[muslim-man]

[quote="kambuli"]MM,

Quote"no need to worry huuno,, isheeg xagee dagantahay. i will abandon this mission aniga iyo adigaa isu qabaneynaa ."

Aflagaadadu waa reeban tahay.

Ceeb caleek. Xishood oo wax isku fal.

Naag kaa weyn maxaad ku fali? Maxayse iyadu kugu fali?

Adigu waad caddaysatay oo waxaad tahay caano dhame. Ceeb weeye. Hunguri naag looma raaco.

Iyadu waxay kugu falayso waa la iska garanaya oo waa naag
masayrstey. Naag masayrteyna falkeeda masuul kama aha oo waa ruux waalan oo kale.

Waa iga talo walaalnimo. Miskiintaas masayrsan faraha ka qaad. Caruurtana caanaha haka dhamin. Ilaahay ninbuu kaa dhigee, part-time shaqo ah raadso oo is deber.[/quote][/quote]

xagee kugu aflagadeeyey kambuli waxan respect ehen kuuma haayo bayoo ee isdaji inadeer

adigu maxad caanaha igu diidantaha ood igu direysaa shaqo part time iyo warehouse waa yabe???

maseerkeeda waxba igama galin, bisaarad xunaa iheyso ee idaa aan qiiqa isaga kjiciyee qoftaan ilahey ii jilciye inadeer

[foolxume2005]

ALA SHEIKHII BAY NAAGI TUSTAY SOME SKIN MARKAASUU WAASHAY, WARYAA HOW CAN YOU MARRY XALIMO WITH 3 KIDS? 1 KID I CAN UNDERSTAND BUT 3 LIL FAARAXS HELL NO, HADHOW BAY KU ORANAYAAN SHUT UP YOU AINT MY DADY , ANU WAXAAN KU ORAN LAHAA, BEEN U SHEEG WAXAAD TIRAA WAAN KU JECLAHAY, ISKALA SEESEEXO LACAGTANA KA CUN AND MAKE SURE YOU KEEP IT ON THE DL SO YOU SORRY AZZ FRIEND DOESNT FIND OUT, YOU NEVER KNOW HE MAY KILL YOU.
I'M JUST SAYING DONT BUY THE COW IF YOU CAN GET THE MILK FOR FREE, I'M OUT

[Skippa]

"And Adam said, This is now bone of my bones, and flesh of my flesh: she shall be called Woman, because she was taken out of Man. Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh." Genesis 2:23, 24.

if it's about marriage, then (your friend should) GO for it...(tell him) isku duceeya oo kala duceysta anana idiin duceyne, maasha'allah.

If it's anything else then "what sweet nanny goat a go run him belly"

[Steeler [Crawler2]]

Try asking your buddy first if he cares. Could be he doesn't care if you date the girl or not. Not everyone is a self-absorbed, selfish a$$hole.

[Beenaale_No1]

I thought friends share everythin'. I dont mind my friend or brother seeing my ex after Im done wit her. After all, she is my ex, so anyone can have my left-overs.

[Steeler [Crawler2]]

Beenale
Good attitude