Love, Hate and everything in between

[Methylamine]

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[Octavius]

Which one of these is love to you?


1.

Loving someone regardless of what they do to you, what they say to you or how they behave. I don't mean not getting angry or offended but that no matter what happens you remain loving that person, even when you don't want to.Remaining kind and tender and feeling horrible when you lose your temper. You never want to see them in harms away, even when you're angry, even when you hate them. Being able to let them go if that's what they said they want, being okay to let the love you have disappear if it can or live in pain if you must.


2.

Loving someone such that you can never be away from them. No matter what they do, no matter how badly you hurt each other, wanting to stay together in pain than even consider being apart. Desperately needing that person and never accepting or letting them accept that you could be apart even if you hurt yourself or them in the process. Fighting for them and never letting go of what you two have. If you have to let go, knowing that you will forever hate them for it.


Is one more sincere than the other? Is one better than the other? Is one more mature or less powerful than the other?

Both come across as very needy/clingy. There should be no such thing as unconditional love; love should be earned.

[Octavius]

Yasmin, waligaa jaceyl ma ku so maray?

No, I don't think so. What about you?

Dont you love your mother/father/siblings/grandparents? Is that not true love, as close to unconsitional as it gets?

[Octavius]

What u just described is not Love. I did my duty as a man to go out into the world and provide for her, when i get home she needs to do her duty as a woman and provide me with hot food and a clean body

And if she works

[Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE]

Yasmin, waligaa jaceyl ma ku so maray?

No, I don't think so. What about you?

Yes, two times.

[waayeel101]

i think to be in love is better than smoking.

[Basra-]

Octa

I don't love my parents and siblings unconditionally. But I do love my children unconditionally, as much my heartless heart can love. (same parents love me unconditionally, as they should, but I don't return it)


its biology. Its how we humans are made up. I am being straight up hones.t

[Octavius]

Octa

I don't love my parents and siblings unconditionally. But I do love my children unconditionally, as much my heartless heart can love. (same parents love me unconditionally, as they should, but I don't return it)


its biology. Its how we humans are made up. I am being straight up hones.t

I can understand that and I can see myself loving my kids unconditionally, should God grants me any, because after all I actively chose to bring them into this world so its the least I can do. Whereas the children did not choose their parents, but they were merely the result of procreation.

[Basra-]

Octa

We are all a result of our parents being horny for each other. An erect penis-- Daddy penis- meet mamas vagina. Its as simple as that. Lets not sugar coat it.

[AgentOfChaos]

Neither, both options are retarded.

[0sman]

Yasmin, dadkan meshan so gala love wax ay ka yaqaanan ba iska yar.For them love and lust is the same.

Of course Love = Lust.

[Rabshoole]

To me love is when I finish work in the evening and I come home to a hot meal then me and my Mrs spend the rest of the evening on the couch watching eastenders/corrie. That's True love

What if she didn't cook, the house was a mess and she preferred CSI Miami? Would you love her less?

What u just described is not Love.

[Caesar]

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[BlackVelvet]

Yasmin, waligaa jaceyl ma ku so maray?

No, I don't think so. What about you?

Dont you love your mother/father/siblings/grandparents? Is that not true love, as close to unconsitional as it gets?

I wasn't talking about that kind of love and I don't think Smile was either.

Yasmin, waligaa jaceyl ma ku so maray?

No, I don't think so. What about you?

Yes, two times.

Do you think when a relationship ends, if you really loved that person that it becomes impossible not to get angry or hate them?

When you stop feeling resentment is when you've stopped loving them or do the two have nothing to do with each other?

[BlackVelvet]

So most of you guys believe in "practical love"?

You love the person based on how well they are fulfilling a set criteria.