mixed marriages in the UK Somalis

[Kukri]

Am all for it.

I say all the best to whatever jini they join.

[LiquidHYDROGEN]

The only points I agree with are that Hollywood promote their own men. I think you are grossl exaggerating and sensationalising the rest. Somalis don't look after their bodies. The amount of Somali men and women who go to the gym are negligible. The amount of men and women who genuinely spend money on decent clothes, cosmetics and toiletries is negligible. The average cadaan men and women doesn't look like the movie stars in cinemas, but they still eat healthily, go gym and jog, as well as dress stylishly. But these are largely superficial reasons. Just because you look like a supermodel doesn't mean you are going to have a happy marriage. I believe it's naivety. I would understand of dumarkeenu marry non somalis who are succesful and good-looking. But the reality is they marry cadaans and madows from poor working-class backgrounds and some don't even work. If you ar going to risk everything and marry an ajnabi, at least go for a successful one with good prospects. Otherwise what's the point? It will only show that you are a self-hater and that's the only reason you want to marry an ajnabi.

[Kukri]

amount of men and women who genuinely spend money on decent clothes, cosmetics and toiletries is negligible.

The average cadaan men and women doesn't look like the movie stars in cinemas, but they still eat healthily, go gym and jog, as well as dress stylishly.

I would understand of dumarkeenu marry non somalis who are succesful and good-looking.

Otherwise what's the point? It will only show that you are a self-hater and that's the only reason you want to marry an ajnabi.

Metrosexual foqol metrosexual !

[Phinks]

The only points I agree with are that Hollywood promote their own men. I think you are grossl exaggerating and sensationalising the rest. Somalis don't look after their bodies. The amount of Somali men and women who go to the gym are negligible. The amount of men and women who genuinely spend money on decent clothes, cosmetics and toiletries is negligible. The average cadaan men and women doesn't look like the movie stars in cinemas, but they still eat healthily, go gym and jog, as well as dress stylishly. But these are largely superficial reasons. Just because you look like a supermodel doesn't mean you are going to have a happy marriage. I believe it's naivety. I would understand of dumarkeenu marry non somalis who are succesful and good-looking. But the reality is they marry cadaans and madows from poor working-class backgrounds and some don't even work. If you ar going to risk everything and marry an ajnabi, at least go for a successful one with good prospects. Otherwise what's the point? It will only show that you are a self-hater and that's the only reason you want to marry an ajnabi.

That's not what I meant. The media promotes white men as successful and one who is of high financial status that always kicks ass and saves the day while f-king that non-white super hot chick.


Correct?

[LiquidHYDROGEN]

Correct. But you'll find that in every major media industry in every country. Look at Bollywood as the non-western example. I'm sure if Somalis had a film industry we'd have Somali secret agent Jaamac Boodheri bedding russian and latina women on his missions as well lol.

[Phinks]

Correct. But you'll find that in every major media industry in every country. Look at Bollywood as the non-western example. I'm sure if Somalis had a film industry we'd have Somali secret agent Jaamac Boodheri bedding russian and latina women on his missions as well lol.

Looooooooooooool!!!



But listen brah, Somali girls are marrying these Ajanabi dudes in countries such as the U.S, UK, Canada, Europe etc and guess what? Who supplies the movie industry for these western countries?

HOLLYWOOD!!


So in essence, Somali girls in the west are only exposed to these films which are obviously catered for the west, which I've stated in my previous post, could indeed be a factor in all of this.

[YummyMummy]

I have an uncle of mine who married this Arab woman from Kuwait. They've been going strong for a decade now. I'm telling you she's so good looking I'd get stabbed, jump in front of a speeding car, climb Mount Everest, punch queen Elizabeth in the f-king face and risk going to prison for life JUST to see her without her hijab on. She's that fine.

Phinks billaah caleek are you serious? That's your uncle's wife though!!! She's a maxram. NOT ALLOWED! You're writing shows you picture her in ways you shouldn't.

As for the article, I don't believe it, especially how Somali women preferring cadaans are on the rise. Of course year on year there will be the natural rise in number, but that is very small and very natural, because of the rise in population, number of women & bilaayada liberal thinkingka larahdo.

Men need to understand something, especially the likes of Hawdian who have a strong affinity for insulting his female kin, who are majorly responsible for his existence and the existence of all of us. I'm letting you in on a secret we women have, kii fahmaa wuu fahmay. We were created different to men. Society & culture has made us 'evolve' to be different to men. We have the same desires, but unlike our brothers who have 101 (if not 1001) threads where they salivate about tan lugaha dheer ee latinoga ah, ama tan futo weyn ee iskadhalka ah, ama tan naaso waaweyn ee ethopianka ah, we are more discreet. It's a generalisation, but here it is nonetheless: we look, but we don't touch, if you know what I mean. Hence the hijaab & niqaab, to protect ourselves from you.

Besides, when one of us cries "it's unfair!" or "it's hypocritical!" you would reply "walal dee gabadh inay sidaa sameeso waa foolxumo, idinku sharafteenii baydun tihiin". Hadaba walaalayaal sharaftiinii baynu nahaye afkiina hanasoomarinina, oo hadalada xunxun naga dhowra, oo qiimeheena dhowra. Haadaa wassalaam.

[Phinks]

Phinks billaah caleek are you serious? That's your uncle's wife though!!! She's a maxram. NOT ALLOWED! You're writing shows you picture her in ways you shouldn't.

but unlike our brothers who have 101 (if not 1001) threads where they salivate about tan lugaha dheer ee latinoga ah, ama tan futo weyn ee iskadhalka ah, ama tan naaso waaweyn ee ethopianka ah...

What about the girls here who establish threads to appreciate Ajanabi men? I don't know anything more disgusting than this wallahi.


I'm sorry but as lame and repetitious as it sounds, men will be men. But I CANNOT excuse the behaviours of these so called muslimahs' on this forum. I just can't.




And to all of you phaggots who keep regurgitating the same old Ajanabi bullshit threads since the f-king early 2000's...

[Kukri]

Waryaa leave our Muslimah xalimos alone.

We appreciate them with all their imperfection and cultured ways.

[The_Patriot]

Anyone is free to marry however they want.
So stop the blame game.
Somalis are not new to interracial marriages and infact having been in the fringes of Africa have been always welcoming to foreigners.

[LiquidHYDROGEN]

Anyone is free to marry however they want.
So stop the blame game.
Somalis are not new to interracial marriages and infact having been in the fringes of Africa have been always welcoming to foreigners.

lol what?

[The_Patriot]

Somalia was the Brazil of Africa.
There is no specific somali color,hair texture,facial appearance apart from the big forehead.
I have met somalis that look straaight up bantu/Nilotic and those that look pale mediterenian.
They all speak af somaali with different dialects.
Mixing does happen but do you raise eye brows each time you see a somali inter racial couple? No cos it aint our business.

[LiquidHYDROGEN]

Yes somalis come in different shapes and sizes. But there is a general somali look and I can spot it from a mile away. The Somali admixture is tens of thousands of years old before such groups as middle-easterners, indians etc even existed. The brazilian admixture is much newer and comprises of euros, native amerindians and black slaves.
BTW bantus and nilotes aren't the same.

[EvolSyawla]

I love our men. When they are clean (w/no khat teeth lol), educated, open-minded and rational - a rarity!... Everything else like style, grace, gentlemanly behaviour and tact fall into place afterwards. I wonder how Reacher or LiquidHYDROGEN look...They seem like my types of Somali men (based on posts and opinions expressed of course).

Why is there so much hate on Somali women looking elsewhere? I don't think what Phinks said was sensationalist at all. We don't exactly have a variety of men we'd want to be raising our children with us. We're not perfect ourselves (Many Somali women are irrational and highly erratic with their emotions lol) but at least we work hard no matter what we are doing. I wouldn't marry an ajanabi, but it will probably take a lot of time before I can find someone worth sharing my life.

"Especially the likes of Hawdian who have a strong affinity for insulting his female kin" - It disgusts me to my core, the level of reproach he has for his own women.

[YummyMummy]

What about the girls here who establish threads to appreciate Ajanabi men? I don't know anything more disgusting than this wallahi. I'm sorry but as lame and repetitious as it sounds, men will be men. But I CANNOT excuse the behaviours of these so called muslimahs' on this forum. I just can't.

A few things to ponder over:

1) It is the same sin in Allah's eyes, so what makes you so comfortable with yours as to excuse yourself with "men will always be men"? Xishmo la'aan uun soomaaha?

2) It is a fact that there are considerably much more threads about male fantasies here than female ones. Almost all are about Ajnabi women.

I don't know anything more disgusting than this wallahi.

Does your disgust apply here too?

3) Whilst you acknowledged earlier reasons why Somali women find their brothers so lacking, your reasons were purely superficial (looks, sex, etc). These superficial reasons are allowed for men to be factors in selecting a mate in Islam (the last in the order of: religion, good family/stock, wealth, beauty). Women in general) are concerned with intrinsic qualities, and put more emphasis on the heart (kindness, tenderness and softness) to be present in akhlaaq, in provision, in protection towards herself, her children & their future. Hence our factors are only the 1st 3 of the list of factors for men. We're incredibly flexible on looks & sex. Our Creator knows best.
A lot of Somali brothers know this and take advantage. So

I CANNOT excuse their behaviour

. And it doesn't surprise me if a minority of our women therefore look elsewhere, whilst some of the rest patiently care for their children that their fathers are too busy elsewhere to even visit them. Afterall, if we did an anonymous survey, it would reveal a lot of us come from broken homes anyway.