living with some one you are not in love

[FarhanYare]

Too little too late, unless he does not mind the big fall out, if he were to divorce her especially if the two families are related. He should never have been pressured in the first place.
if the two don't love each other (am not talking about hindi kind of love) sooner or later this will breed arguments iyo madax wareer

[Amira143]

Do they have kids?... God I hope not.

Sticky situation them being cousins and all. It's a damned if you do and damned if you don't kinda dilemma. Tell him to communicate with her. That's a great starting point.

[nadiasososexy]

hi

[Adali]

Why the eff is he wasting her time...tell him to grow some gotdamn balls & tell her how he feels...disgusting pig..getting married cuz family gtfoh...i hope she doesn't really love him either..smh

OMG someone has issues, relax, do you know how many people are in loveless marriages but manage to have successful family and raise their children ? marriage is about more than love, its about trust, respect and understanding.

On the other side there are many abused people in dysfunctional families who insist they're in love.

GTFO here with your nonsense nayaa, go back to the ghetto with your childish naivety, being raised by disney and movies on TV has lead you to believe in this picture perfect love BS which for the most part doesn't exist until years of hard work.

OP, if you love someone instantly that isn't bad, but expect to hit rock bottom when excitements is over and you get into your routine, it is then when you're tested and if you're man enough you will build a relationship full of love and fun with your wife, love is not found it is planted and like a tree it takes years to grow strong.

[Amira143]

^^ How do you expect two people who don't love each other to share an intimate life together let alone to raise children in a loveless home. You can't sugar coat this sinking ship.

[LMFAOO]

This is why you should never rush into marriage. People need to stop seeking love, happiness and approval from other people. It can only come from yourself.

I don't care how much my family pressure me, if I say I am not ready. That means I am not ready. Period.

[LiquidHYDROGEN]

:mindfuck:

Who marries for love? Life isn't a chick-flick. Love comes after marriage. People seem to mistake lust for love.

Somalis pissing in the instution of marriage as usual. Nacdal ba saaran ummadan.

[Amira143]

:mindfuck:

Who marries for love? Life isn't a chick-flick. Love comes after marriage. People seem to mistake lust for love.

Somalis pissing in the instution of marriage as usual. Nacdal ba saaran ummadan.

AstakfurAllah, well in this case love isn't coming after marriage. As he is still claiming he doesn't lover her. So what do you expect us to say....

[Keyblade]

Meh, love is overrated anyway. Whether or not he should stay depends on what he wants from the marriage tbh.

[Amira143]

^^ "what he wants"? What about her? It takes two to tango in any case. They should communicate and decide what's good for the both of them. Tsk. This is the reason why we have so many broken families.

[zaki87]

U don't have to love someone to live with em, aslong as ur not budding heads everyday u good to go. Just have a time schedule for dinner and sex, everything beyond that find a hobby and love the shit out of that hobby.

U can just say that easily but when u are in that situation its really different,

[zaki87]

Our deen says real mahabak comes after marriage but i cant agree anymore as i seen it=-O

[sconosciuto]

Our deen says real mahabak comes after marriage but i cant agree anymore as i seen it=-O

So, you disagree with the deen?

[Keyblade]

^^ "what he wants"? What about her? It takes two to tango in any case. They should communicate and decide what's good for the both of them. Tsk. This is the reason why we have so many broken families.

Nah, you misunderstand me. I'm only referring to what he wants because we're advising him and not his wife. In an ideal world he would let his wife know about how he feels (or doesn't feel) and easily put an end this dilemma of his.

[Amira143]

^^ "what he wants"? What about her? It takes two to tango in any case. They should communicate and decide what's good for the both of them. Tsk. This is the reason why we have so many broken families.

Nah, you misunderstand me. I'm only referring to what he wants because we're advising him and not his wife. In an ideal world he would let his wife know about how he feels (or doesn't feel) and easily put an end this dilemma of his.