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Its not about being cheap but asking for 10k just signals the shallowness of her and family.
There are people dumb enough to pay that price and put themself in alot of trouble and pay the weeding altough they cant afford the meher even.

I would never pay 10k; its straight up golddiggerism and materialism, every thing opposite to real marriage. Disgusting.
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Sxb I will hook you up with a blonde that looks 10x better and won't ask for a tenth (1k) what she's asking for
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nord wrote:Sxb I will hook you up with a blonde that looks 10x better and won't ask for a tenth (1k) what she's asking for
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Viking:

Hur går revolutionen?
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What she selling? Have you asked her? Maybe you r not giving us the whole info.
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Substance wrote:Viking:

Hur går revolutionen?
Haha mannen det går bra, många har gått med i revolutionen, Snart ska vi förändra världen
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GeoSeven wrote:Who cares what people think, she's only asking for an extra 3k. Pay her and marry her :mindblown:
This is where I strongly disagree. She's not being "bought" and the fact that she's comparing herself to her sister's or competing with them shows she's immature at most, and at the very least she's not planned for the long term. If she's intended to be in it forever, then tawakkal calallah & be humble. Remember the dowry/meher is insurance in case the marriage breaks down. Insurance is only ever high when break down is very likely.

Btw I assume this is $10k Not £10k? In pounds is much too much.
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vikingman wrote:
Substance wrote:Viking:

Hur går revolutionen?
Haha mannen det går bra, många har gått med i revolutionen, Snart ska vi förändra världen
Inshallah bror.
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Naagtu hadii ay cigar cabto causes depreciation to the nikah rate.the problem with nikah rate is that it doesnt take into account the cost of inflation, fixed costs minus variable costs and profit margin after the women has a baby and perhaps puts on weight. If you want nikah estimation from a professional fadlan holla at us through paypal and send us her instagram.private investigator will cost you more.
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I don't understand this meher bullshit, u mean to tell me I have to give money to a woman I just broke up with, GTFOH I swear she will never get a penny.
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The Nikkah amount is not between families, its between You and Her. She can forgive the entire Nikkah amount after marriage. Most likely You'll be spending well over 10k on Her expenses within a short amount of time. After 6 months/1 year of marriage When She sees You're responsible and not just trying to 'Hit and run' but are in the marriage for the long hall she'll just forgive the amount and the meher will be zero. In that case the family probably wanted the 10k just so they can brag at the wedding 'Our Daughters meher is 10k'.
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ciddhartha wrote:Nigga, why you buying a woman? Just marry one. Unless you're in Somalia, then I feel bad for your predicament.

If she can't stand up to her parents now, they will be a crushing force in the future. You dodged a bullet.
+1. You just dodged a bullet sxb, thank your lucky stars.

Women are a dime a dozen. There are plenty more out there.
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10K is nothing in the year 2014. Its reasonable it shows you can take care of her. thats $833 per month you have to be kidding me to make a big deal out of that. Join a ayuuto.....(hagbat in af waqooyi) ..take out a loan.....If I had a daughter or my sister was getting married forget 10k? we be asking a lot more plus make you pay for the wedding. You man enough pull your pants up get it done. And who the hell cares what people think. Thats a keeper if she is not backing down. And mad respect for her family for caring about her and not giving her away like a free samples at the supermarket.
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Sell your kidney bro.
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Re: Dowry Dhibaato

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I really hope my future wife/in-laws accept some sort of payment plan for their meher. 0% financing for 240 months :ahh:
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