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I need to know about his financial status before I even give him the time of the day. What kind of career he has. It's all about social climbing boo. Love comes after he secured his place in my heart, meaning he will have to show me what he can offer me and the future of my kids. He has to work hard in order to get my love.

Itrah wrote:

Sumubaridi wrote:Thanks brother. I am 36 going 37 so i only approach women who are 24-28 years old. Maybe that is why wealth means alot to them. Maybe I should look for a woman who has a job and is educated so that she will marry me for who I am and not trying to come out to me as if she was looking for a fortune.

Time is running out for you. You are nearly 40 soon, just settle for any half decent woman.

Miskiinka maxa niyada uga jabinaysa... wa iska amar alle inu xiliga bila naag yahy iyo caruur.

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Ninyahow mid akhwaan muslimiin ah och jeebadaada daloosha ku waydiin waxa ku jira iska guurso.

Does it matter? If you see all the qualities that you would like to see in your future wife and mother of your future children then why does it matter?

Idman702 wrote:I need to know about his financial status before I even give him the time of the day. What kind of career he has. It's all about social climbing boo. Love comes after he secured his place in my heart, meaning he will have to show me what he can offer me and the future of my kids. He has to work hard in order to get my love.

Lady Idman is reminding us the basics My I add his faith in Allah and a good character!

But I want to add men should also understand the women's taqwa and character. If the lady has imaan and has a good character, that is the woman that a Muslim man should be with and marry immediately.

Two key words here: (1) Believe in Allah (swt) and his messenger (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him); (2) Good character - someone who is decent and caring - someone who will not abandon his (or her) spouse at the time of difficulty.

Times change, finances go up and down, and when reality his the family, it really comes down to the above 2 characteristics in successful marriages.

theyuusuf143 wrote:if love matters I fall in love with every attractive lady I see every day. even if you marry good one you may still like million more women.

the truth has been spoken

Doesn't matter had sex.

Idman702 wrote:I need to know about his financial status before I even give him the time of the day. What kind of career he has. It's all about social climbing boo. Love comes after he secured his place in my heart, meaning he will have to show me what he can offer me and the future of my kids. He has to work hard in order to get my love.

I thought Love comes naturally and gradually without your consent. Ma adigaa masuul ka ah qofka aad jeclaanayso iyo qofka aadan jeclaanayn? As i understand love though not experienced it, that love is just like the wind. No one controls where it blows.

I know our parent did not marry because of financial reasons. If she marries me for money and I get into a road accidnent and become disable or get fired from job, then soo iskama tagayso ilaa lacagtii ay meesha utimid lama haayee?