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I'm shy person in real life I rarely approach unless is a especial female my game is also trash I usually get by with how I look

Even a seemingly stone-cold Xalimo can be guilted into giving a number to a poor sap, particularly if he looks like he's on the brink of tearing up. After all you don't want to look like a horrible human being, in-front of your friends, who know him well. Why....oh why did you develop a momentary lapse of kindness? Yes; this was almsgiving, that's it. Kind of like that homeless man that pressured you to give him a 20, for a mysterious health condition, he didn't have. You consider this a grievous indiscretion of youth. Now you've blossomed nicely into an ice queen, ever since.



Not a random though.

I got to know my husband on Facebook, less awkward than the mobile where its just you and them and constantly trying to sound clever/sweet/not desperate/whatever the heck single people like....Facebook lets you chill and get to know each other through fadhi ku dirir/ invites to events that aren't dates...and its not the creepy side of the internet like Somalinet.

I ask for their snapchat before I do their number

Women are still impressionable, you deliberately do fun stuff and make ur life seem like u belong in hollywood hills by snapchatting and uploading it to ur story. If she is intellectual, then u snapchat about books, random visits to seminars etc, anything to attract her antennas.

You make sure she is one of the people who viewed ur story, it's not complete unless her name is visible. After about a week, u slide to the left and start an actual chat about something she snapped about.

It always works, ALWAYS :cigarcuban:

Adali: you want to tell you what every guy who approached said to me? Do you want to practice with it? Loool jk.

Sophie: I just laugh at them and they automatically know not to go any further. But lawd the persistent ones are too much. No self respect at all.

Gedogirl: Snet guys will curse you out on the forum and run to your pm and cry to you and beg you because they were joking.

Because you're at the age they're desperate to hook you in, but their qabyaalad gets the better of them at the same time. I remember it was the same scenario with me a few years back...a guy would call me ilkoyar or God knows what else and the next day there would be rose and heart emojis and the Somali flag with a long message....bi-polar ka sii daran - they were less than strangers to me. I would not like to meet the guys who were here in the early 2000's in a dark alleyway...war ravaged minds. There was a guy on here a couple of years back with the nickname 'Pederast'...thats when I knew there was something about this site which attracted true weirdos.

Idman it is good to learn from other peoples mistakes.

My problem with girls is not getting numbers, that is quite easy, but I get told this quite often, "delete my number" "be a darling and delete me from your list" etc I wonder how they can do this to me, they are heartless soma ahan ? my text game is really bad, I come across very arrogant.

Idman702 wrote:Adali: you want to tell you what every guy who approached said to me? Do you want to practice with it? Loool jk.

Sophie: I just laugh at them and they automatically know not to go any further. But lawd the persistent ones are too much. No self respect at all.

Gedogirl: Snet guys will curse you out on the forum and run to your pm and cry to you and beg you because they were joking.

Most of the guys that are bold are clowns or simply delusional. Where does their bravado come from?

Sophisticate wrote:

Idman702 wrote:Adali: you want to tell you what every guy who approached said to me? Do you want to practice with it? Loool jk.

Sophie: I just laugh at them and they automatically know not to go any further. But lawd the persistent ones are too much. No self respect at all.

Gedogirl: Snet guys will curse you out on the forum and run to your pm and cry to you and beg you because they were joking.

Most of the guys that are bold are clowns or simply delusional. Where does their bravado come from?

Guys do it cuz there's a relatively high success rate, whether it's stupid or not. It's pretty much 50/50, and those are good odds.

SolidCamel wrote:

Sophisticate wrote:

Idman702 wrote:Adali: you want to tell you what every guy who approached said to me? Do you want to practice with it? Loool jk.

Sophie: I just laugh at them and they automatically know not to go any further. But lawd the persistent ones are too much. No self respect at all.

Gedogirl: Snet guys will curse you out on the forum and run to your pm and cry to you and beg you because they were joking.

Most of the guys that are bold are clowns or simply delusional. Where does their bravado come from?

Guys do it cuz there's a relatively high success rate, whether it's stupid or not. It's pretty much 50/50, and those are good odds.

Not quite. They are detached from reality and can't take a hint .The hope of being successful propels these insufferable weirdos to strike, even though their odds of securing a number are grim. It's more like shooting in the dark.

Sophisticate wrote:Not quite. They are detached from reality and can't take a hint .The hope of being successful propels these insufferable weirdos to strike, even though their odds of securing a number are grim. It's more like shooting in the dark.

I think it's higher than you think. I've seen guys be successful with this many a time. I know my evidence is merely anecdotal but I'm serious about this. Now as far the quality of lady they get with this technique? That's a different story.

SolidCamel wrote:

Sophisticate wrote:Not quite. They are detached from reality and can't take a hint .The hope of being successful propels these insufferable weirdos to strike, even though their odds of securing a number are grim. It's more like shooting in the dark.

I think it's higher than you think. I've seen guys be successful with this many a time. I know my evidence is merely anecdotal but I'm serious about this. Now as far the quality of lady they get with this technique? That's a different story.

They get insecure chicks or thots loool

He who hesitates, ********

At the end of the day, rejection is part of the game. It also toughens you up for rejection in other parts of your life.

You would be surprised at how many lonely good looking women there are out there. So guys, step up and kick it but always make sure you do it for the right reasons and not be one of those cruel focks who just do it for the thrill of it with zero follow up.

AbdiWahab....Are you in your forties and still single?

Idman is basic and no fun.