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Re: Arranged marriage.

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chelseaforever wrote:Salool, hada kalumayse badan ayaa ku dhaafay :)


Adigu ka fara qabso boqolka sawir ee kolba dhinac la iska so sawirayo.Naagahan maaney ogayn talow inay niman sawiradooda ku dul dhareerinayan. :down:
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Sumubaridi wrote:I lost faith in Arranged marriage when a mentality disabled man who could not used the bathroom because biyaha dhan buu dhulka kabuuxinaa was taken to Somalia and had arranged marriage. Everytime I think of arranged marriage, I think of that poor girl and what dhibaato led her to marry mentally challenged man. Anytime I hear arranged marriage, I think of gabar miskiin ah oo cuqubo laga galaayo. When i went to africa last year, 16-18 years old girls were being offered to me back and forth. Last time i checked, 16-18 year olds were calling me adeer. When did I become every teenage girl's mr. Justin bieber. I told them fiiriya akhiyaarta, I have been tarxiil from america and I am not going back. The word spread and non of them came back.
:dead: cashar baad u dhigtay :pac:
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salool wrote:
chelseaforever wrote:Salool, hada kalumayse badan ayaa ku dhaafay :)


Adigu ka fara qabso boqolka sawir ee kolba dhinac la iska so sawirayo.Naagahan maaney ogayn talow inay niman sawiradooda ku dul dhareerinayan. :down:
:P Hadey isku dhareeriyaan ma iyadaa kutiri isdhareeriya maxaa kagalay. hadii inta gabar sawir meel soo saarto ayaku ay bilaabaan dhareeris, dee waa hawshooda.
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chelseaforever wrote:How many successful arranged marriages do you know? I know some in my family nd they seem happily married

I know everybody says I want to marry someone I love but there's no love before marriage! You can't really love someone if you havnt lived with them, you can like them but true love comes after marriage

So would you consider arranged marriage? If not why?

Garoobnimada + the 2 kids you have ayaa kaa yeedhsiinaysa. Lol

But go for it, i support arranged marriages :up:
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^^ lol, adigana saacada Kugo socota Inay sida kaga yeedhsiiso ayay ahayd lol .. hurdada ka kac cheriney :lol:
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^ Lol

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Over the yrs I have observed that arranged Marriage has more successful rate than longtime dating ones because a lot of people have got interest it to be successful.

I initially also believed ani in bilcaanta soo helo waaye, ani soo shukaansado waaye, there should be an emotional connection bla bla bla, apparently wax weyn kama soo kordhin so if ur family and friends who knows you introduce to you to someone they r think u match and u have conversations here and there n decide to settle down then well and good.
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chelseaforever wrote:^^ good, hang in there sis :up:
Thanks brother. Am alright actually - I even had full lunch. Going out to work was good for me.

So you want to get marry again?
If you are single dad - you should go for single mothers -not because single mothers are easy (I disagree with those who degrade single mothers as desperate) but because as parents to different parents-children you both have understanding of each situation and would appreciate each other situation better.
Unlike single ladies who will get jealous if you want to spend time with your kids.
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Labo qof oo lais baray does that fit the definition of arrange marriage? Personally, I don't like it but pressure baa la ii saarooya
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Arranged marriage is really freaky. Its OK, if the marriage is arranged, and then the couple start shukaansing here and there, sex phone on the telephone--and eventually meeting, holding hands, getting to know each before the night of meheerka! that's natural and good. But I am a little quizzy about arranged marriage of the couple who meet on the night of Taacsiii. I am sorry --my aaf Somali is qaraab---is Taacsi a funeral? Anyway--I don't trust this new arranged couple meeting for the first time on their wedding night! I mean-- can u imagine the horror?

Salaam Aleikum--abaaay---remove your clothes and spread your legs! :o
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Re: Arranged marriage.

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Basra- wrote:Arranged marriage is really freaky. Its OK, if the marriage is arranged, and then the couple start shukaansing here and there, sex phone on the telephone--and eventually meeting, holding hands, getting to know each before the night of meheerka! that's natural and good. But I am a little quizzy about arranged marriage of the couple who meet on the night of Taacsiii. I am sorry --my aaf Somali is qaraab---is Taacsi a funeral? Anyway--I don't trust this new arranged couple meeting for the first time on their wedding night! I mean-- can u imagine the horror?

Salaam Aleikum--abaaay---remove your clothes and spread your legs! :o

:lol: :lol:
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Looool@ tacsi :lol: indeed ur Somali is kharaab Basrey

The guar ... No sis I amnt planning to get married anytime soon
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salool wrote:
Basra- wrote:Arranged marriage is really freaky. Its OK, if the marriage is arranged, and then the couple start shukaansing here and there, sex phone on the telephone--and eventually meeting, holding hands, getting to know each before the night of meheerka! that's natural and good. But I am a little quizzy about arranged marriage of the couple who meet on the night of Taacsiii. I am sorry --my aaf Somali is qaraab---is Taacsi a funeral? Anyway--I don't trust this new arranged couple meeting for the first time on their wedding night! I mean-- can u imagine the horror?

Salaam Aleikum--abaaay---remove your clothes and spread your legs! :o

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Dadka burburan dadka kale way kaa qooq badanyahin baa la igu yidhi. You are forever sexualizing everything Basra.
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Re: Arranged marriage.

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Marriage topics tend to peak this time of year hmm
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