Somali girl's getting fat after Marriage Why

[Thuganomics]

Waar waxaa Iska dhaafoo,maxaa acountkii kuugu hadhey

Waraa topic hayga wasin waa cilmi aan rabo in aan ogaaday. Wallaahi I am just wondering why the girls get fat after marriage. I mean ofcourse she will cook the same food that her mom cooked. I hope someone can explain biologically.

Topicka adaa already waseye I'm just having a two's up

[MissFiora]

There is a strong correlation between weight gain and stress. Most Xalimos settle down and marry broke Faraxs which causes a lot of stress. Cadaan women have men who cater to them ... they get nannies/housekeepers to assist with the house husbands pay for spa trips and gym memberships and organic food etc.

[Sumubaridi]

There is a strong correlation between weight gain and stress. Most Xalimos settle down and marry broke Faraxs which causes a lot of stress. Cadaan women have men who cater to them ... they get nannies/housekeepers to assist with the house husbands pay for spa trips and gym memberships and organic food etc.

woowowowowow alla been badanaah. Cadaan women have nannies and get free trips which their husbands uu dhiibo? alla been badanaah. I work with 10 married cadaan women and they work their butt off for adime. Their husbands work as well but they won't sleep and eat if they don't bring their paycheck. When it comes to being taken care of, Somali and arabs lead by far. Bal inta nin cadaan ah guursato kuiraah waan jiifanaa ee i masruuf. naag ma kid baatahay buu kuleeyahay and will kick you out.

[MissFiora]

I can't get with an cadaan man ..idea of pink nipples freak me out among others. I am just saying your a Farax who wants to sleep on a mattress on the floor ..that can cause stress especially if your wife-to-be is accustomed to sleeping in a bed. If you can't afford a bed frame I doubt you will be able to pay for a gym membership or organic food.

[Sumubaridi]

I can't get with an cadaan man ..idea of pink nipples freak me out among others. I am just saying your a Farax who wants to sleep on a mattress on the floor ..that can cause stress especially if your wife-to-be is accustomed to sleeping in a bed. If you can't afford a bed frame I doubt you will be able to pay for a gym membership or organic food.

Gym costs only $40 bucks a month and Food costs about $200. Sariir and furniture is $7000. Who can afford that at once.

[LiquidHYDROGEN]

There is a strong correlation between weight gain and stress. Most Xalimos settle down and marry broke Faraxs which causes a lot of stress. Cadaan women have men who cater to them ... they get nannies/housekeepers to assist with the house husbands pay for spa trips and gym memberships and organic food etc.

I've seen plenty of overweight xaliimos married to ajnabis. In fact, the amount of fit and in-shape xaliimos I've seen in my life I can count on one hand.

Stop using Somali men as an excuse for your inability to control your over-eating and lack of exercise.

[MissFiora]

If you can't afford to furnish a home I don't think you are ready to get married. Iska tartiibso. A lot of Xalimos are desperate to get married they settle down for men who can't meet their expectations thinking they can cope, but soon after they start to resent their husbands. Waxan ku odhan laha iska shaqayso ee naag maa waynaysid. Otherwise this Xalimo who you think is a raaliyo will turn on you because you can't give her the things she wants ..waayo she will see how her friends are living and look at you with contempt and disgust cause ur not a man who can give her those things.

[MissFiora]

There is a strong correlation between weight gain and stress. Most Xalimos settle down and marry broke Faraxs which causes a lot of stress. Cadaan women have men who cater to them ... they get nannies/housekeepers to assist with the house husbands pay for spa trips and gym memberships and organic food etc.

I've seen plenty of overweight xaliimos married to ajnabis. In fact, the amount of fit and in-shape xaliimos I've seen in my life I can count on one hand.

Stop using Somali men as an excuse for your inability to control your over-eating and lack of exercise.

If you can make sweeping generalizations ..why can't I?

[LiquidHYDROGEN]

The difference is I make sense, and you don't. I live in a Somali neighbourhood of working-class and middle-class Somalis. 99% of the females are chunky and bloated - young and old alike. Whereas even the poor cadaans work out and hit the gym a couple times a week. It's not "stress", it's pure laziness and a lack of effort.

You are not generalising, but lying.

[MissFiora]

*rolls eyes*

[GAMES]

I agree with LiquidHydrogen. You hit the Musbaar on the head.

[MissFiora]

Of course ur gonna side with him. Somali women are the backbone of their homes, they are under tremendous pressure they don't have the luxury of working out. They don't have time to themselves if they are mothers they are too busy tending to their children, if they are daughters they are too busy assisting their mothers with keeping the ship that is the family afloat. Where are the men ? Too busy gang bangin', drinking, at the cafes on the fadhi ku dirir front. Then the daughters marry the likes of Samu to try to escape their pathetic stressful lives only to continue the cycle of raafad iyo silaac lol

[GAMES]

Only in general MissFiora. Not you though, when i saw ur pic in that other thread.....i wish more Xalimos were like you.

[MissFiora]

Anigu I am naturally slim, I try to make it to the gym 3 times a week waayo cause I am still single hehe once I snag that Farax waa bes ima let shidh goooooo kick back triple calool some back fat the works and he's gonna love me for it

[Sumubaridi]

Of course ur gonna side with him. Somali women are the backbone of their homes, they are under tremendous pressure they don't have the luxury of working out. They don't have time to themselves if they are mothers they are too busy tending to their children, if they are daughters they are too busy assisting their mothers with keeping the ship that is the family afloat. Where are the men ? Too busy gang bangin', drinking, at the cafes on the fadhi ku dirir front. Then the daughters marry the likes of Samu to try to escape their pathetic stressful lives only to continue the cycle of raafad iyo silaac lol

and what is wrong with likes of Sumu?