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DisplacedDiraac wrote:

Gaashaanle1000 wrote:Many of them want a mixed light skin designer baby

Come off it kid.
Take this BS to an African American forum.
AlhamdulilaAh many of us ain't colour struck and we have the genes to produce a better looking child with a fellow Somali!!

DisplacedDiraac wrote:

Gaashaanle1000 wrote:Many of them want a mixed light skin designer baby

Come off it kid.
Take this BS to an African American forum.
AlhamdulilaAh many of us ain't colour struck and we have the genes to produce a better looking child with a fellow Somali!!

incognito1 wrote:i personally feel sorry for the few women that marry out, i mean they are so short sighted. They dont even think of their kids future, like the somali women who marry the jareers of the u.a.e for money, and who end up hiding their children when family comes over, just because they resemble their father her husband what a discrase.

Sumubaridi wrote:

incognito1 wrote:i personally feel sorry for the few women that marry out, i mean they are so short sighted. They dont even think of their kids future, like the somali women who marry the jareers of the u.a.e for money, and who end up hiding their children when family comes over, just because they resemble their father her husband what a discrase.

If they hide the kid, Would they hide the husband too? if they were attracted to the dad, how can they not like the kid's looks?

Hyperactive wrote:you are exaggerating, no one can hid their kids and husband from their family! what kind of family they have? where they were in their wedding? where they were when having a baby?

Sumubaridi wrote:I watched a somali girl called Yasmiin and her white american husband called Salah on Facebook and how she was the reason he took islam. They are now married for 21 years with 4 children and they seem proud and happy family. Here is what I took out of the husband tag.

1) The kind of romantic and sweet talking that our girls wants is in the cadaan culture. There was kissing on camera.

2) Somali girls do not realize that, those ajnabi boys did not work hard to be sweet talk. They learnt it from their parents. They brought up into that culture. Their fathers and grandys were kissing and sweet talking. Our fathers and grandys did not even sit on the same sofa with our parents.
3) Somali boys are victims of cultural change. The girls wants them to be cadaan sweet, their parents did not raise them that way. They still see somethings as " Not appropriate".
4) Our girls do not realize that, if you marry kikuyu, you expect him to be the best kikuyu but not the best Amhara.
5) Cadaan boys do not have other obligation and responsibility other than just the wife and the kids. He spends everything that he has on them. Somali men has a wide a range of financial obligations.
6) The girls who marry ajnabi soften up to that culture and get on with the flow. She was aruging with him that, she asked him to marry him. A Somali girl will never admit to a somali man that, she asked him to marry her. She will always claimed she was wanted and persued while she did nothing to get him.

Who is being unreasonable here akhiyaarta?

A somali girl who expects her somali husband to change or a somali man who still things he has to be how he was raised.

TheMightyNomad wrote:

Sumubaridi wrote:I watched a somali girl called Yasmiin and her white american husband called Salah on Facebook and how she was the reason he took islam. They are now married for 21 years with 4 children and they seem proud and happy family. Here is what I took out of the husband tag.

1) The kind of romantic and sweet talking that our girls wants is in the cadaan culture. There was kissing on camera.

2) Somali girls do not realize that, those ajnabi boys did not work hard to be sweet talk. They learnt it from their parents. They brought up into that culture. Their fathers and grandys were kissing and sweet talking. Our fathers and grandys did not even sit on the same sofa with our parents.
3) Somali boys are victims of cultural change. The girls wants them to be cadaan sweet, their parents did not raise them that way. They still see somethings as " Not appropriate".
4) Our girls do not realize that, if you marry kikuyu, you expect him to be the best kikuyu but not the best Amhara.
5) Cadaan boys do not have other obligation and responsibility other than just the wife and the kids. He spends everything that he has on them. Somali men has a wide a range of financial obligations.
6) The girls who marry ajnabi soften up to that culture and get on with the flow. She was aruging with him that, she asked him to marry him. A Somali girl will never admit to a somali man that, she asked him to marry her. She will always claimed she was wanted and persued while she did nothing to get him.

Who is being unreasonable here akhiyaarta?

A somali girl who expects her somali husband to change or a somali man who still things he has to be how he was raised.

Is this it?

https://www.facebook.com/AlJasiiraNews/ ... 43686554:0

Hodan94 wrote:

TheMightyNomad wrote:

Sumubaridi wrote:I watched a somali girl called Yasmiin and her white american husband called Salah on Facebook and how she was the reason he took islam. They are now married for 21 years with 4 children and they seem proud and happy family. Here is what I took out of the husband tag.

1) The kind of romantic and sweet talking that our girls wants is in the cadaan culture. There was kissing on camera.

2) Somali girls do not realize that, those ajnabi boys did not work hard to be sweet talk. They learnt it from their parents. They brought up into that culture. Their fathers and grandys were kissing and sweet talking. Our fathers and grandys did not even sit on the same sofa with our parents.
3) Somali boys are victims of cultural change. The girls wants them to be cadaan sweet, their parents did not raise them that way. They still see somethings as " Not appropriate".
4) Our girls do not realize that, if you marry kikuyu, you expect him to be the best kikuyu but not the best Amhara.
5) Cadaan boys do not have other obligation and responsibility other than just the wife and the kids. He spends everything that he has on them. Somali men has a wide a range of financial obligations.
6) The girls who marry ajnabi soften up to that culture and get on with the flow. She was aruging with him that, she asked him to marry him. A Somali girl will never admit to a somali man that, she asked him to marry her. She will always claimed she was wanted and persued while she did nothing to get him.

Who is being unreasonable here akhiyaarta?

A somali girl who expects her somali husband to change or a somali man who still things he has to be how he was raised.

Is this it?

https://www.facebook.com/AlJasiiraNews/ ... 43686554:0

Yooo the guy looks his 50s tho

incognito1 wrote:i personally feel sorry for the few women that marry out, i mean they are so short sighted. They dont even think of their kids future, like the somali women who marry the jareers of the u.a.e for money, and who end up hiding their children when family comes over, just because they resemble their father her husband what a discrase.