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^^ to test your haraad

Phinks wrote:

GubanOgoJSL wrote:When you have tried your best and it all fails.

Bro, can you blame a nigga for trying?








But If she truly wanted another nigga, why did she always start with the sexual shit?

Edit: fuck it. I give up. Bitch is gonna give me a bidaar.

waryahe that is clear cut sign

like I usually say effort is always the key to a healthy relationship.
If both sides are not doing their best in a relationship it will collapse.

Bluelion: haraad?

Mahoka: Nah, I ain't about that life. I always assumed she was just joking around. But if she meant it, I dodged a bullet right there.

GubanOgojsl: Agreed Sxb. Best to just quit this whole thing.

When she asked you if you missed her, your reply looked like you do not care for her. And it looks clear to me that's how she took it. And you also wrote "dont cry" which could have also irritated her and it explains the awkward ending comments. I may be wrong but this is the impression i got from reading this convo.

Phinks wrote:All the real niggas get it in here. I need some advice bros. What do you do when a xalimo wastes your time? What I mean by this is that she'll act up and freeze me out so I'll retaliate by cutting her off but then she'll talk to me like a month later as if nothing happened. She's average looking (amazing body though) and pretty smart. She's the hot-blooded sarcastic ball busting type which I have to admit I do like. I actually wouldn't mind wifing her up. The thing is, one minute she's fawning over me then suddenly she'll freeze me out. What's with the manipulative games and mental gymnastics? What gives?


This is a typical convo I had with her recently and mind you, this is what I consider a good night.












She's always the one to sever contact with me randomly but she's always the one who initiates it again. What game is she playing? I think she's crazy. This is why most Somali girls remain single. The way I see it is that there is a difference between playing hard to get and just wasting people's time. Should I just tell her to fuck off? If you were in my position, would you walk?

Brother honestly from my experience this is where you jump ship with what little dignity you still have left , if a woman figures you out your finished and this one knows you really well, and she is in full control of your relationship.
1) You have no cards left to play
2) she knows your hand
3) you have no clue about her hand
She's got you were you should have had her, in other words your the bottom fish, fold, cry it off if you have to and move on.

Chances are high she's got a serious card player on the other side, one that doesn't show his cards at all. Woman like them.

So next time you open up to woman give her enoughto trust you, but not enough to feel comfortable. She should always feel her position being threatened by other women, by doing that you will keep her on her toes, and everything from her will be nothing but quality. Cause remember she will feel the need to keep proving herself to you, basically you do to women what this girl is doing to you but not so openly.

By the way your home girl is an expert in the arts of deception that's not a good trait in a women, your welcome.

Phinks wrote:Bluelion: haraad?.

horniness

BlueLion wrote:

Phinks wrote:Bluelion: haraad?.

horniness

haha

https://scontent.cdninstagram.com/hphot ... 2773_n.mp4

BlueLion: hahah I see

Estarix: I see where you're coming from. But that's how I game. I act like the cocky aloof guy.

Incognito1: I'm gonna be honest, I was kind of a d**k to her. I would also ignore her randomly so it kinda went both ways. If she did something, I'd retaliate then she'd respond. It goes on and on. Anyway, I'm done Sxb.

But for my bday she got me a new phone and a pair of Adidas crazy light boost 2015 edition. So I actually gained something from the headaches.

Phinks wrote:BlueLion: hahah I see

Estarix: I see where you're coming from. But that's how I game. I act like the cocky aloof guy.

Incognito1: I'm gonna be honest, I was kind of a d**k to her. I would also ignore her randomly so it kinda went both ways. If she did something, I'd retaliate then she'd respond. It goes on and on. Anyway, I'm done Sxb.

But for my bday she got me a new phone and a pair of Adidas crazy light boost 2015 edition. So I actually gained something from the headaches.

Aha well then I misread thinks a little bit hope things work out for the best, but you gotta admit a woman willing to invest in your happiness is not a bad woman.

U need to cut this viber stuff ,fb iyo waxas o.kle it will just destroy ur time and I ddnt read it. Ask ur self do u see ur self marrying this girl , if yes go and meett her talk to her talk about ur future. Be serious , if u want a true relationship o xalal , ah if yes iska guurso , deenta islam wa easy daqankeno wa.easy. mid.kle all that energy u carring around marke bad dageysa wayo nolosho family bey ku wacantey marka imika suala isweddey . Im giving adving from as married man oo happy ah. Tuku allan swt talo.saaro . Mid kle dumarki nin goan qato bey jacaylheen marka sida la soco. TheCheif .

Depends. Do you have time to waste? Yes, then chit chat. If you don't and want to focus on a woman who fulfills your desires, then kick her to the curb and focus on women who want face to face conversations.

You are obviously attracted, the question is what's really the attraction, her and the life you want to have with her or hunting an elusive woman you can't quite get a handle on


Picture this, picture a female X who is just as smart, has a hotter body and an even prettier face, who gives you something that you value and you get married to her, not to the girl you mentioned in the OP, picture that for a few moments...that female x..how you feel when you picture someone like her...the likely benefits of being with someone like her...things she can add to your life...

Now when you remember the girl in the OP, how does that make you feel? Why do you think you feel that way?


The point of doing this is figuring out what, if anything, you get from the girl in the OP that you can't picture getting from another person and how important that thing is. In light of another viable option would you still miss that thing? If so, can you be sure you will get it for as long as you think you will, if you do will you value it for as long as you are receiving it and if that person (girl in the OP) didn't have that quality, would you still want her?

AbdiWahab252 wrote:Depends. Do you have time to waste? Yes, then chit chat. If you don't and want to focus on a woman who fulfills your desires, then kick her to the curb and focus on women who want face to face conversations.

Maybe they're not in the same city, country, continent...

LooL@Basra.

Phinks she thinks u are desperate for her. Set the rules and stick to it. Make it clear to her u are ready to move on and then stick to it.

Xaliimos love decisive men.

Or, completely turn the tables on her and u start to waste her time and play the little games she is playing with you.

LooL good luck.