Bro, all I'm saying is that words/language are very important. We need to stop using this divisive language.Adali wrote:Raganimo, I have been rejected many times, it is a part of life and growing up, I am a man and know how to deal with rejection, I learned it quite young and I think I am far more emotionally stable than the average guy, when my emotions flare up once in a blue moon I am like "well damn" it is a rare event. Don't let my eccentricity fool you mate, I want us to have a rational discussion, you have made numerous topics about social engineering and it fascinates me because I don't even make these many topics, you are passionate, and that is why unlike other guys here I do not insult you back when you are name calling. I do see the same things they see, but I rather not discourage you from doing what you are doing.
We're literally opening doors for our enemies to come in and exploit this division by feeding destructive, feminist ideology to our women. Some of you confirm the worst stereotype about men being "chauvinists" who only see women as sex tools and have little respect for women. Some have even adopted this rap culture of referring to our women as dhilooyin and such. These are our own sisters for goodness sake! I'm not saying that they're all these perfect little angels, but we should be extremely careful about speaking about them in general and we need to choose our words more carefully. For every person who posts here, there are ten who are silently reading this forum. They will go away with an image of us as barbaric, woman-hating, bitter, sexually frustrated freaks.
Wallahi it's a calamity that some of us have adopted this nihilistic, "anything goes"-culture of the West where we don't even see how our words and behaviors could effect the larger community.
Yes, we should have frank, open discussions about our actual problems as a community. But the language that we use is extremely important.
