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'My dad hates jaad eating people'


....How sad is it that your father's child---ends up being addicted to Jaad.

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You're not responsible for what they spend it on. You shouldn't be even thinking about that.

I agree with SanDheer, sadaqada hadal ha daba dhigina. Haddaad u niyooto adiga wuxuu qofku ku sameeyo xil kaama saarna.

When I send remittance funds to some bugger back home, I dont stay awake the whole night contemplating:'what will he do with X amount I sent today through Dahabshiil? will he buy Khat or buy his mates beer in a nightclub in downtown Nairobi?'

Once it goes to him/her, it is for them to decide what to do with said money.

Simply we( our family) have no respect for Jaad. We feel obliged to do anything to stop it. We cann't close our eyes and say " Well, we shouldn't care what they spend with the money" .Yes we care, and I am proud to say that we make sure the money goes to the hungry children and women not to marqaan, Geerash and fusuq.

Jaad is what distroyed our country. No respect for it and its users.

Kambuli was first trying to safe the kaluun/malaay in Somalia now she wanna harvest Kat in the country. Allah maxaan kaa yaabay.



I agree with San Dheere 100%. No body twisted my arm. I decided to send the money..no need for me to dig dirt and find out what they’re spending "THIER" money on.

Dhaga,

Maxaad ka yaabtay? Ma inaan u danqaday khayraadka badda Somaaliyeed ee shisheeyuhu guranayo? Ma ogtahay Somaalidu waxay ku maahmaahaadaa " Qofkii doonaya inuu ceeb kuu raadiyo, ilkaahaaga cadcad wuu kugu caayaa"

My dear wax ceeb ah oo ku jirta ma leh, inaan khayraadka dalka u danqado Ilaahow muu qudhaanjo le'ekaado.

Qaadka sheekadiisa, qof walba waxbaa daruuri u ah. Kii qaadka cuna mayba qaadka ayaa uga daruurisan... cuntada Laakiin annaga waxaa nala daruurisan inay gaajada ka baxaan caruurta iyo haweenka iyo ragga aan ku tuureyn lacagta qaadka Ninmba waxbaa la weyn.... qaarna qaatka qaar kalena nolosha..... Sorry my intention was not to irritate kat chewers walaahay.... Just the money to go into safe hands rather than Ethiopia and Kenya...

Kambuli

Waxaad socoto ood socoto ood socoto, ma waxaa lagaa kari la'yahay mijintii xumeyd ee qaadka ahayd ee aniga iyo Biko aanu isku haysannay ee waliba aanu kala dhuumaneynay odeygii xumaayoo Qudhac ahaa?

Gabadhyahay aayar meel joog oo cago dhigo oo ragga xoolihiisa u daa

Sir,

Ismaba ogeyne, miyaan socdey oo socdey? Thanks for the advice...

Miyaadan akhriyin qormada hore? Here it is again "Sorry my intention was not to irritate kat chewers walaahay.... Just the money to go into safe hands rather than Ethiopia and Kenya... "

Sandheer & Lug

Actually I think you are wrong from Isalmic, moral, ethical and practical point of views and Kambuli is right.

The idea that you are not responsible for what happens to the money you send is rather disingenous and smacks of see no evil hear no evil hypocrisy.

What if you send money and they buy guns with it and kill the local people? What is Islamic about that?

No it is vital you ask questions and demand explanations of what is happening to your Sadaqah if that is what you consider it.

[quote="Galol"]Sandheer & Lug

Kambuli is right. .[/quote]


haaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Say my name again

Galol

On the contrary. I am not with them and can not control how they spend, but I will take their word for that, besides, I know who is capable of buying weapons (I never sent money to Ina Indho Guduud)

How would you know if they are spending the right way or the wrong way? Unless you are a control freak and wanna dictate how ppl spend the meager pennies you part with, there is no reasonable way a man in the West would know where what he remits ended up, hence, I give the liberty to the recipient

Kambuuliyeey khyraadkaa kala dacye meesha dhiigii dadkaa la xalaalaystay..intaad xabad lauuna iyo sakaaro ku daalayso wiilasha yaryaree ee aan wali calan Soomliyeed oo xora arag ee mooryaanka laga dhigay inaad u oydaa kula gudboon.


Meeshana nin halkan jooga oo qaad cuna lagama hadlaynee warku wuxuu ahaa maxaa lacag loo dirayaa laga yaabo in Qaad lagu cuno..jawaabtu waxay ahayd hadii aad daba galayso halkuu shilinkaagii galay markaad dhiig shiil ka dirto waxba ha dirine iska hayso waanay ahayn, dadka u hanee waxaad siinayso...gabadhu hadab madax adagaa.

Dhaga, quote " Kambuuliyeey khyraadkaa kala dacye"

Cajiib....

Lug

Do you believe the concept of of `do no harm' as minimum ethical common denominator applies in sadaqah?

And if you do are you not in breach of it by sending money without taking all the necessary steps to ensure it used for good and not for evil?