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FAH1223 wrote:

BlackVelvet wrote: You are an individual, people need to stop factoring in the whole of the Somali community when it comes to this topic.

If you met a man who loved you and was in it with you, who had your back and you could count on, who could be a good friend and husband and a good father to your children. A man who wanted to go on the journey of spiritual enrichment with you and was loyal - you'd be an idiot not to give him a chance because of the body his soul was put in. Now I pray to God that man is not OG or Abgaal even if it's a massive contradiction But my point still stands.

Contradictions all over the place

Based wrote:

Nomand wrote:your are about 6 years to late,

no one cares anymore, if i see a xalimo walking down the street with a badger or a racoon i say mashallah nice couple.

Based wrote:

Based wrote:

Nomand wrote:your are about 6 years to late,

no one cares anymore, if i see a xalimo walking down the street with a badger or a racoon i say mashallah nice couple.

still

grandpakhalif wrote:go ahead, Somali men lose nothing out of this, we got plenty women to choose from + since somali women hate polygamy we got others who love it. PLus there's no shortage of good somali women for us but there's a shortage of somali men.

Somali women in thew west have been absorbed by Western wonderland they want white dress for their wedding(which is non muslim tradition), they want Prince Charming loool their standards are way too unrealistic, anyways good luck with your new Ajnaaib husband, when he beats your ass dont come crying to Somali community, now ur an outkast part of their community since women belong to their husband, you better learn Patois kkkkkkkkkkkkk.

Megatron wrote:

grandpakhalif wrote:go ahead, Somali men lose nothing out of this, we got plenty women to choose from + since somali women hate polygamy we got others who love it. PLus there's no shortage of good somali women for us but there's a shortage of somali men.

Somali women in thew west have been absorbed by Western wonderland they want white dress for their wedding(which is non muslim tradition), they want Prince Charming loool their standards are way too unrealistic, anyways good luck with your new Ajnaaib husband, when he beats your ass dont come crying to Somali community, now ur an outkast part of their community since women belong to their husband, you better learn Patois kkkkkkkkkkkkk.

says the soon-to-be 40 year old virgin...Haha...This subject never fails to generate a multi-page response...Not all farax's are bumbs though. In fact, some are quite entrepreneurial. Case in point, the farax's in Toronto trying to sell a Rob Ford crack video (alleged..) for $200 000

saacJabshee wrote:Every Somali women that's in interracial marriage i have seen is over 26 and over. I was in a southall eating once in a resturant. there was a somali lady and ajanabi man with her. the man looked asian. the look on the peoples face wallahi was nothing but disgust and shame. it was unsually quite. you could cut the tension in that place with a knife (figure of speech). everytime the man looked up people would look away.then when he looks away they would stare at him again. maaskinka was looking for a smile. Me and him clicked eyes once and he smile and i didnt smile back. from there and onwards he didnt look up once till he left.for the first time in my life i actually felt deeply sorry for a women in interracial marriage. maskinta probably brought him to show him how we somalis eat in lounge around in resturants all day doing nothing but discuss politics. My god did she miscalculate. whats more disgusting is she had little boys with her. I did not see one adult raise them a smile and stroke them or pad them on the back like we normally we do. When they left it was like euphoria (not our euphoria) in there. talks, arguments, debates kicked off. I told an elder that i felt sorry for the couple and he said dont because they would do this to us if we went in their restuarants with an arab women. so i thought fuck em aswell.

ElfRuler wrote:

metamorphosis wrote:

Thirdly, for your own sake I hope you dont get divorced because no somali man will raise ajnabe kids.

What's up with the scaremongering?

Somali men, the ones that are divorced barely stay around to raise their own kids, so what are the chances that they will raise kids they didn't father regardless of their father's origin?

The issue is not that her kids are ajnabi, but that it was never part of the Somali man's agenda to take care of the kids he fathered once he divorces their mother.

SummerRain wrote:
I have couple of close friends married to white men, they met in collage and have been married for number of years now. I don't know of any issues with family acceptance, they seem to be doing ok.

Based wrote:

Based wrote:

Nomand wrote:your are about 6 years to late,

no one cares anymore, if i see a xalimo walking down the street with a badger or a racoon i say mashallah nice couple.

still