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metamorphosis wrote:

SultanOrder wrote:

metamorphosis wrote:My wife is actually not darood. I know marriages between the same laf and jilib and even as close as ilma adeer cousins that failed miserably. The key to make a marriage work is to select a compatible partner. If you find one a compatible person from your tribe there is no need to decline the marriage and inversely if you find one from a different tribe there is again no need to decline the marriage. Being two different clans will not break your marriage..being incompatible will.

Tf didn't you go on your first date a few months back?

Whatever happened to Colonol?

I married her bro..after 2 and half months. Colonel comes once in a while i have no idea what happened to him.

metamorphosis wrote:

SultanOrder wrote:

metamorphosis wrote:My wife is actually not darood. I know marriages between the same laf and jilib and even as close as ilma adeer cousins that failed miserably. The key to make a marriage work is to select a compatible partner. If you find one a compatible person from your tribe there is no need to decline the marriage and inversely if you find one from a different tribe there is again no need to decline the marriage. Being two different clans will not break your marriage..being incompatible will.

Tf didn't you go on your first date a few months back?



Whatever happened to Colonol?

I married her bro..after 2 and half months. Colonel comes once in a while i have no idea what happened to him.

waayeel101 wrote: it's not about just qabil. it's about culture.
for example a man from back home do not understand a girl who has never been in somali even if they are same clan or first cousins. meanwhile if are raised in same environment let's say gulf countries, or europe, north america you can understand each other easily.

Hyperactive wrote:inshallah I am not going to Africa marka mis hoyo is fahmayan, Arabic is a most, omba e daran.

SultanOrder wrote: Thank god for eedo's, they keep us grounded on our pedigree. I wonder if my ceyr great-grandmother had such dilemmas, but I'm confident she made the right choice.

Old? I can't believe you feel old, if that's how you feel now how will you feel in the near-future? Life is a blessing, even the tedious and mundane. My biggest struggles have been learning to walk after a car accident, things move at a slower pace when you can't move very fast.

BVSNet wrote:

SultanOrder wrote: Thank god for eedo's, they keep us grounded on our pedigree. I wonder if my ceyr great-grandmother had such dilemmas, but I'm confident she made the right choice.

Old? I can't believe you feel old, if that's how you feel now how will you feel in the near-future? Life is a blessing, even the tedious and mundane. My biggest struggles have been learning to walk after a car accident, things move at a slower pace when you can't move very fast.

I don't mind getting old I quite like it, you are already getting a bit of temporary practice in your slowmo. That is so insensitive but I am hoping you are now well enough to take it

ps I didn't know you had Cayr in you, now we know where you got your je nais se quoi from

SultanOrder wrote: I don't mind getting old said no one. Ever. You wouldn't believe it but moving slower slows down time, you breathe more steady and you take in the world more. Not to mention you don't feel stressed either.

My family is from balanbale area, of course there is ceyr in me. Not to mention my fathers cousins, etc. C'est la vie.

Bibaaye6828 wrote:Somaali reer baadiiyo le ahaane. I think its mainly reer sl who don't like marrying outside their qabil. I would happily marry a girl from any qabil. No midgaan tho.