TheMailMan wrote:sophisticate wrote:mrdegdeg the problem is they can't accept that Africa is a diverse place and they attribute slight differences in aesthetic to "admixture". That's what screams identity crisis, intolerance and insecurity. Not only for Somalis but for those making these erroneous claims about their progeny and look.
I totally agree bro.
The Somalis who promote that they are "Arab" have a deep inferiority complex.
But so do the Somalis who promote that they're "Madow"
We are neither. We are neither Arab nor are we Madow. We are a Horn African people and we have nothing to do with either of them. It isn't that difficult to understand.
I also ascribe to the notion of being Somali above all other made up social distinctions. I get where both you and Maliprince are coming from. Maliprince wants to bridge commonalities between people. That's nice, especially when you are a minority in the diaspora. Linking hands with other highly myelinated people is fine and dandy when it comes to large scale issues (systemic racism) that impact all parties concerned, but I realize as an ethnocultural group we also have challenges that greatly impact us more or are unique to us alone. I understand my priorities when working in the pluralistic nation that live. I don't see identity as clear cut but something fluid and political. I can be black/African when the moment presents itself. I'm sure a lot of Somalis have claimed school funding classing themselves under that umbrella.

I also don't hate people or generalize them as [all degenerates]. Paying attention to semantics is important. Bro, you don't have to hate on other people to indicate your self-love (as a Somali). Force of habit I get it, Somalis have an inflated sense of self-importance, we just need to tame that a bit when dealing with others.
I also understand where you are coming from with Bantu people. I will use words that are somewhat agreed upon. Cushtic and Nilotic people have been warring for millenia. Bantus came recently to East and South Africa (less than 1000 yrs ago). Before that time they were isolated from those areas for upwards of 30,000 years. This is due to the split you mentioned. In any case the Nilotes and Bantu have fought many times along with the Cushities and Bantu. There is an animosity between these groups. *I get that.* Africans barely get along. And many Africans are rather socially endogamous and sparingly marry other groups.

The thing is I don't expect Europeans to know or understand this dynamic because they are a mixed group of people that have less diversity than two Nigerians from Lagos. They wouldn't understand. I do think Africans could benefit from better trading relationships though. The bottom line is important.I care not for black or white but green.
P.S - I'm a female.