U can still shukaansi and not become a father. I am in the game for over a decade and half and still not a father and won't be one anytime soon (inshaalah).
You need to still represent for the men of your family and step up your game. A Xawadle man who can't shukaansi is like a HG who can't fight

Plus, i am sure u passed Health class with flying colors so I know u won't be having children anytime soon.
GedoBoy,
I agree. My advice to you is to stay away from ex's. I know this other Somali guy whom I went to college with. He was telling me about how his cousin got pregnant and the guy who knocked her up refused to acknowledge it. My college buddy stepped up and agreed to marry the chick rather than have the shame come upon the fam. Luckily, the guy who knocked her up did the right thing but her father was always thankful for College buddy's offer & never forgot it.