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Ismahan123 wrote:Indeed, we have it easy yet so many broken marriages b/c of irresponsible husbands. Someone please care to explain to me how a woman is supposed to obey, a man that is not fulfilling his basic duties to his wife and children and to ALLAH???????

it is not xaram to ask for a divorce if you think you cannot remain in the marriage. i am not advocating for divorce per se, but if you must..then you must. find yourself another one worthy of your efforts.

siren wrote:
Yeah I know, kind of scary! What if they ODed?

My thought exactly.

Firefly

Compromise" waan aqaan,

mayee mar haddey sidaas tahay , wax inaga ma xuma

SahanGalbeed wrote: Anigu waan ku sheegay , ma rabo naag iga amar sugta , ma rabo .

is that your way of saying "amar" sida loo bixiyo garanmeysid?

ok i'm just messin' with u....(just kidding huuno)

zulaika wrote:

Ismahan123 wrote:Indeed, we have it easy yet so many broken marriages b/c of irresponsible husbands. Someone please care to explain to me how a woman is supposed to obey, a man that is not fulfilling his basic duties to his wife and children and to ALLAH???????

it is not xaram to ask for a divorce if you think you cannot remain in the marriage. i am not advocating for divorce per se, but if you must..then you must. find yourself another one worthy of your efforts.

Yeah offcourse divorce is always available then what marke la dhaho guurigi bay baa'baisey for no reason? The thing is these days, people do not values the rules of marriage through Islam and when you say its easy for us, it actually is but only if the ones partner is doing their part as well. Otherwise, you are faced with either an unhappy marriage or a dissolved marriage after another. It happens and it happens often and the reason being is people stay in these marriages b/c of kids. Some mother rather stay if their children's father even though they might not have an ounce of respect for him b/c they dont want another man around.

Anyways, I think I deviated alittle fom my point, but DIvorce is not as easy as it seems.

I can't believe this disgust. Zuli, u r absolutely obnoxious.


Since you got married to that hobbit HG of yours, your perspective on life revolves around him. Now, you even declare to go to Jannah women have to be good to their husbands? One of the 'targets' u call it? Caudubilaahi.

The assertions that women will outnumber men in hell was not due to them being bad to their husbands.(how pathetic is this thinking? And i am not a feminist, by the way. ) The reason is pretty simple: Women, r vindictive, little gossip-wicked creatures by nature. I am honest here-- sorry my dear fellow Xalimos- u can throw the pie if u want-- my gabasaar is ready to shield me.

Women are pre-disposed to these vices that put them into these situations.(situations of hell..if u will) It is all in the Biological makeup. Men dont gossip because part of the brain that encourages gossip, wickedness, creativity is not alive.(The other side of the brain where lits up that encourages the love of sports) Basically, Mens's brain if scaneed will not light to show activity. Women, tend to be little evil tempress queens, half equivallent of men. it all started with Xawo-- convinsing Prophet Adam to eat the forbidden apple. Sheydaan did not approach prophet Adam, because he knew he would reason himself out of eating the apple. Xawo bored, and needed some a little attention from the sheydan to go convince P. Adam. (Just like Zuli needs attention now from her hobbit habar gidir hubby... )


Zuli- u want to know the quickest way to Jannah? Put Allah first, before your hobbit, brilliant habar gidir hubby.

It is all in the Biological makeup. Men dont gossip

I beg to differ!

I never thought this would happen but I do agree with Basra except for the part about men not gossiping.

THe FAT thing has a point, I'll admit.

DANGIRL wrote:I never thought this would happen but I do agree with Basra except for the part about men not gossiping.

Uhm now Basra doesn't know what do with herself, nobody ever agreed with her before!

[quote="Ismahan123"]THe FAT thing has a point, I'll admit.[/quote]







Thank you! *bowing down her gown and bonnet* 8)

siren wrote:

DANGIRL wrote:I never thought this would happen but I do agree with Basra except for the part about men not gossiping.

Uhm now Basra doesn't know what do with herself, nobody ever agreed with her before!

I know this feeling all too well.

Madd_Scientist_ wrote:

Firefly wrote:

Buhodle-Gurl wrote:FireFly


in general, of being the ideal muslim husband walal. Would I be obligated to obey him, even iF he's not followin' the sunnah?

You must obey your husband so long as he doesn't command you to do anything against the commandments of Allah (swt) and His Messenger (saw).

well said.

if only somali girls were all like this

Basra, well said.

NobleMan

It is the waters in London I suppose, stay there.