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Re: I don't have a good relationship with my father!

Posted: Fri Sep 09, 2011 1:04 am
by AhmedBoqor
Well when you listen to music that belittles your dad's package, your bound to butt heads :lol:

Re: I don't have a good relationship with my father!

Posted: Fri Sep 09, 2011 1:12 am
by OliveOil
Alchemist wrote:Olive is because your a love :roll:

Ma qaniiskii baa oo gabdhaha caayi jiray hadana wadaad iska dhigi jiray? Cajaaib :P



everyone else...thnx so much...I read N considered ur inputs :) :rose:

Re: I don't have a good relationship with my father!

Posted: Fri Sep 09, 2011 2:59 am
by ciyaal_warta
olive

they are pple that would die to have a father who cares like that ...say alhamdulillah and be happy that u have a father that cares
its old pple's way they never compliment u its their way of encouraging their child i guess

Re: I don't have a good relationship with my father!

Posted: Fri Sep 09, 2011 3:17 am
by Rabshoole
OliveOil wrote:We have the same exact personality and we butt heads almost all the time...I can't remember a time when he amaaned me...he is always caayin me and when I ask him why....he replies by saying its a Reer Mudug dhaqan to be hard on ur kid...which doesn't make sense at all wallahi...I also cannot wait to leave this house so I don't go through his never ending 21 questions a day....and his dissapointed stare...what have I done wrong?????? No one is perfect wallahi arrgggg this is killing me wallahi :x :x :cry: :cry: :cry:
reer mudug waalidkooda waa umad iska dhig kuluul, the evil eye stare waa caadi waa la qabsaneysa. My granpas was the same way, esply reer galkacayod always cold hearted for no reason, their were times, aan is ordhan jidhay khalada miyaa kagashay duqan indhaha la ? like what the hell, if he was any younger he would've been dropped in a heart beat, I'm not caasi nor would I hit my elder altho the dude was pushing it to the extreme when I was growing up back in TN. Here's the catch as long as you play it safe and do what your told before you know it you'll be married prolly be doing the samething to your offsprings, its a cycle of life. I've always said I wouldn't place my hands on any child, now I can't wait for my nieces and nephews to mess up or do anything out of line around me so I can get the belt and show them how I was dealt with growing up. so you see, its all about dhulqaado as much as you can. just know their are folks who are in waay more crucial predictment than you with no father around. be thankful that you have one, try to understand him and go from their.

Re: I don't have a good relationship with my father!

Posted: Fri Sep 09, 2011 3:25 am
by WiglessBidaar
Olive

Are you suffering tremors in the deep, dark 3am of the soul? Poor thing. One too many clubs to the head, one too many ghouls in the night.

I've always wondered if parenting classes ought to be made compulsory. It may sound outlandish, but in Iran they have mandatory lessons in how to use contraceptives before a couple may acquire a marriage certificate.

So why not a parenting license?

Childrearing is an art. It's a discipline which demands a certain grasp of children's psychology. How many prospective parents undergo any such training before they mount each other? Answer: None. Things being what they are, why is it any surprise that most flunk the test for which they have never been trained? The moderns are full with denunciations. They are however exasperatingly thin on solutions.

Re: I don't have a good relationship with my father!

Posted: Fri Sep 09, 2011 6:21 am
by Twist
Sister, don't discuss certain family info on the net. No matter what, your family is your flesh.

Re: I don't have a good relationship with my father!

Posted: Fri Sep 09, 2011 6:28 am
by Alchemist
I would be disappointed too if I had a daughter who brags about French kissing her co workers and shares family issues with the whole world uff. :roll:

Re: I don't have a good relationship with my father!

Posted: Fri Sep 09, 2011 6:31 am
by Enlightened~Sista
AhmedBoqor wrote:Well when you listen to music that belittles your dad's package, your bound to butt heads :lol:

:lol: :lol: :lol:

Re: I don't have a good relationship with my father!

Posted: Fri Sep 09, 2011 8:42 am
by Shirib
I love my dad and he's my biggest role model. We have a wonderful relationship and talk all the time about everything. AlhamduliAllah