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KingMJ wrote:

greenday wrote:i need a really open man that will cook an clean and wont be freaked on where i stand on some issues. This will not be easy to find back home. He migh not fit in, find hard to make friends etc.

This won't be easy to find over here as well

Trust you'd be surprised at the amount that would do it secretly..

I hear you Green and XalimoFaraax and I agree!..

accident wrote:

KingMJ wrote:Horta what happened to wanting a guy with a great education (2 degrees), a great job who can provide for you finantially.

Where is this "really open" man who can cook and clean and doesn't get "freaked" out on issues, business coming from

She wants a Manjina.

I guess its true what they say about the westernised xaliimos.

I prefer the gold-digger philosophy of tightrope to this

KIngMJ,While majority wins,do u believe all Somali guys,wether west or back home have the same mentality,believes and views on this?

WestLdnShawty wrote:

KingMJ wrote:

greenday wrote:i need a really open man that will cook an clean and wont be freaked on where i stand on some issues. This will not be easy to find back home. He migh not fit in, find hard to make friends etc.

This won't be easy to find over here as well

Trust you'd be surprised at the amount that would do it secretly..

I hear you Green and XalimoFaraax and I agree!..

Who you kidding cuzz you love pensioners and we all know they have no emotions or cooking skills, so you should be wishing for the new generation to be like your favourite golden generation

Woaaah, you're talking about guys back home, I'm having troubles dealing with FOB.

I just think they have a different mentality and might be shocked by us Xalimo's in the West. Lol

Trust me; guys back home receive, and never give. That is a difficult for us Western females.

Beans wrote:KIngMJ,While majority wins,do u believe all Somali guys,wether west or back home have the same mentality,believes and views on this?

No Somali guys aren't all the same as there are many different types. Particularly culturally the ones back home are very different to the ones raised in the west, as the ones raised in the west don't have the Somali dhaqan.
But for cooking and cleaning ones back home are worse as they don’t even enter the kitchen. Over here we clear our plates, make our own snacks, simple meals etc and enter the kitchen freely. There are also guys who don’t have any females around and have to learn to cook out of necessity. So yh there are some differences. But I don't think cooking is a must lol.

Okay, we get you MJ you hate cooking and cleaning, probably due to an accident once whilst you were boiling couple eggs, and trying to clear the tables you bumped into the cooking sauce and scaled yourself with hot water (worst the egg wasn't cooked properly). Therefore hating cooking&cleaning ever since.

KingMJ wrote:

Beans wrote:KIngMJ,While majority wins,do u believe all Somali guys,wether west or back home have the same mentality,believes and views on this?

No Somali guys aren't all the same as there are many different types. Particularly culturally the ones back home are very different to the ones raised in the west, as the ones raised in the west don't have the Somali dhaqan.
But for cooking and cleaning ones back home are worse as they don’t even enter the kitchen. Over here we clear our plates, make our own snacks, simple meals etc and enter the kitchen freely. There are also guys who don’t have any females around and have to learn to cook out of necessity. So yh there are some differences. But I don't think cooking is a must lol.

Thank U.

I really dont believe there are too many females who pride in watching their husbands cook every day ,let alone making it a must. I guess what most Somali men hunger for is a relationship where there is a mutual respect in the sense that if she is not there that day,the house isnt gonna look like a tsunami hit it or the kids starving because hooyo wasnt there.

He doesnt have to do every day lakiin maalintii loo baahdo,he should be the man.

Beans wrote:
I really dont believe there are too many females who pride in watching their husbands cook every day ,let alone making it a must.

Ii soo ducaay.

VeiledGarbasar wrote:

Beans wrote:
I really dont believe there are too many females who pride in watching their husbands cook every day ,let alone making it a must.

Ii soo ducaay.

Maxaan kugu ducayaa? Nin aan jikada ka bixin mise?

So, I'm supposed to be in the kitchen majority of my life, miya? Maxoo ugu baxaynin.

Mate, I'm happy with a husband who is a Chef and I will be the Cleaner. I'll cook when guests come over though.

VeiledGarbasar wrote:Okay, we get you MJ you hate cooking and cleaning, probably due to an accident once whilst you were boiling couple eggs, and trying to clear the tables you bumped into the cooking sauce and scaled yourself with hot water (worst the egg wasn't cooked properly). Therefore hating cooking&cleaning ever since.

No warsan, nice try though. Actually when I was a young boy hooyo said stay away from the stove, and me being the good, no great son I am. I of course listened to her and haven't touched the stove AND oven ever since

What can I say..I'm the Son of the decade.

Beans wrote:

KingMJ wrote:

Beans wrote:KIngMJ,While majority wins,do u believe all Somali guys,wether west or back home have the same mentality,believes and views on this?

No Somali guys aren't all the same as there are many different types. Particularly culturally the ones back home are very different to the ones raised in the west, as the ones raised in the west don't have the Somali dhaqan.
But for cooking and cleaning ones back home are worse as they don’t even enter the kitchen. Over here we clear our plates, make our own snacks, simple meals etc and enter the kitchen freely. There are also guys who don’t have any females around and have to learn to cook out of necessity. So yh there are some differences. But I don't think cooking is a must lol.

Thank U.

I really dont believe there are too many females who pride in watching their husbands cook every day ,let alone making it a must. I guess what most Somali men hunger for is a relationship where there is a mutual respect in the sense that if she is not there that day,the house isnt gonna look like a tsunami hit it or the kids starving because hooyo wasnt there.

He doesnt have to do every day lakiin maalintii loo baahdo,he should be the man.

Leftovers shall suffice that day she was not in.

Maybe if the husband is a bum, or is unemployed he should pick up on some chores. But I'm talking about a man who has strong education, a good job and provides for his family day in and day out, shouldn't need to cook on top of that and thats how life always was

accident wrote:

KingMJ wrote:

greenday wrote:i need a really open man that will cook an clean and wont be freaked on where i stand on some issues. This will not be easy to find back home. He migh not fit in, find hard to make friends etc.

This won't be easy to find over here as well

KingMJ

Maybe if the husband is a bum, or is unemployed he should pick up on some chores. But I'm talking about a man who has strong education, a good job and provides for his family day in and day out, shouldn't need to cook on top of that and thats how life always was

That right there,says a lot.His education,income or job shouldnt dictate how he interact with his family.