A husband's greatest fear

[Alphanumeric]

I think anyone would.

I beg to differ. If a man, no matter how attractive came up to a woman and said hey let's go back to my place, she'd decline.

I've seen otherwise.

[BlackVelvet]

BlackVelvet,

Its the fact she gets knocked up by another man, then cons you into believing you are the father. All those economic resources wasted on raising another man's seed that is the greatest fear.

Ah! You know even if you know it's not yours biologically, Islamically that is still your kid.

Islamically thats a bastard child.

Only if she's not married. If she's married, it's her husbands.

[BlackVelvet]

I think anyone would.

I beg to differ. If a man, no matter how attractive came up to a woman and said hey let's go back to my place, she'd decline.

I've seen otherwise.

Oh, do tell!

[Awe]

Wow at Alpha, so you would commit adultery that easy bro? That's one of the things i fear the most it's right up there with murder.

[Alphanumeric]

Only if she's not married. If she's married, it's her husbands.

You must be kidding with this.

Oh, do tell!

Guy walks up to girl. Guy and girl walk away together. The end. It's the whole premise of bars and clubs.

Wow at Alpha, so you would commit adultery that easy bro? That's one of the things i fear the most it's right up there with murder.

Anyone meaning man or woman.

[BlackVelvet]

One night stands. The line between typical male and typical female behaviour is becoming blurred but still I would argue that most women usually expect to be called after the event. So it's really their emotionally neediness and the promise of a possible future that makes them hit the sack that quickly. So still it's not the same.

Only if she's not married. If she's married, it's her husbands.

You must be kidding with this.

Nope. Research it.

[Alphanumeric]

One night stands. The line between typical male and typical female behaviour is becoming blurred but still I would argue that most women usually expect to be called after the event. So it's really their emotionally neediness and the promise of a possible future that makes them hit the sack that quickly. So still it's not the same.

There is no "typical" male nor female behaviour. They're all humans and act in accordance with their immediate desires and interests. They weigh opportunities to responsibilities, and if they feel their responsibilities are no longer worthy of fulfilling, opportunities win. There is no line. It's all the same.

Only if she's not married. If she's married, it's her husbands.

You must be kidding with this.

Nope. Research it.

No. As someone who makes a claim like this, it's on you to prove it.

[ManD333q]

BlackVelvet,

Its the fact she gets knocked up by another man, then cons you into believing you are the father. All those economic resources wasted on raising another man's seed that is the greatest fear.

Ah! You know even if you know it's not yours biologically, Islamically that is still your kid.

lol are u serious

[VeiledGarbasar]

BV is right. It is part of Islamic Law, if you are married to a Women and you believe the kid isn't yours, then he/she still carry your name.

If it happens that she gives birth to a child from adultery, the child will be traced back to the husband as the Prophet sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam ( may Allaah exalt his mention ) said: "The boy is for the owner of the bed and the stone is for the person who commits an illegal sexual intercourse (i.e. the child will not be traced back to him)." [Al-Bukhaari and Muslim]

[Foxy22]

cheating is worse, for man or woman. i believe the person looses so much respect for themselves to go that low!

the second option is perfect fine. it's their rights.

bv my worse fear is having a wife to begin with!

I thought u wanted 4 eedo How long was I away? What did they do to you love?

my dear eedo, how you doing? i really missed you. you the best.

yes eedo, wah badan ba ka dambeyey. you werent here but i said : foxy khair Allah seeyo, she hit me with the truth to wake me up. it took me while to admit to myself you were right tho. you know my ego

once i passed that physical need, the responsibility iyo jaqjaq da haweenka scared hell out of me. i will be happy single sheikh for rest of my life o iska ebadeysta .lol

I missed you too eedo I'm good Alxamdulillah my dear

What's with this business of no wife? I prefer u to have four instead of none.

[BlackVelvet]

If you want to argue that men and women are the same I won't argue with you but you'd be lying to yourself.

Nope. Research it.

No. As someone who makes a claim like this, it's on you to prove it.

No. I am not your sheikh. If you want proof, you have google go find it.

[Alphanumeric]

People are people and all have their own interests.

No. I am not your sheikh. If you want proof, you have google go find it.

Wrong. Anyone who makes a claim needs to provide evidence. Otherwise, stop spewing your fatwas.

[Mondey]

Only if she's not married. If she's married, it's her husbands.

Islamically -forget about her- even if the husband had a bastard child from another woman hes not married to, he cannot be named after him or even has the right to be financed by his father, he inherits nothing.

even an adopted kid cannot be named after the husband.

[caburiye1]

As a married man, I would agree with BV. I would rather have Yowmul qiyaama Pronounced today than thinking about my wife with another man on bed. believe me, I have so many thanbi that I know can take me to jahanam on my record faiyaadu bilaahi but there is no more fear for a man than having his wife cheat on him. Death of my Parents, disabled children, a nuclear on Somalia all that is minor to me than thinking of my wife cheat on me. I won't mind if she tells me she would need divorce to go marry another man. Even if she does not tell you, once your wife ask for divorce, You are not the best man she thinks is around in the world. Divorce perfectly fine, Cheating, over my dead body.

[Tuushi]

As a married man, I would agree with BV. I would rather have Yowmul qiyaama Pronounced today than thinking about my wife with another man on bed. believe me, I have so many thanbi that I know can take me to jahanam on my record faiyaadu bilaahi but there is no more fear for a man than having his wife cheat on him. Death of my Parents, disabled children, a nuclear on Somalia all that is minor to me than thinking of my wife cheat on me. I won't mind if she tells me she would need divorce to go marry another man. Even if she does not tell you, once your wife ask for divorce, You are not the best man she thinks is around in the world. Divorce perfectly fine, Cheating, over my dead body.

Wow,that is intense.U rather lose ur parents than have her cheat?