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when i was 15, 16 i was thinking to marry 4 and in my head were not even enough.lol

i hit 18 and reality hit. i cannot even take my self seariously. i am not fit fianacially, mentaly to be a husband or a father. God knows when i will but i wont take some one else' to be responsible of them .

4 wifes are not for rich men though, it is a profession that has always been dominated by poor men


If ever become rich, one wife is enough to protect my assets but if I stay poor.....waan iska afareeysan

Keyblade wrote:

ElfRuler wrote:Somalis and their desire to claim old age so fast.


How is 40 old? I have seen 80+ Asian women and men still running around like they are in their 30s and working endlessly.

20-60 Should be the work hard years. Not 20-40, and then I will drop dead because I'm old and I just saw what appears to be a wrinkle or a bidar.

Nobody's talking about working. Did you even read the OP?

And who are you again?

An anonymous user. You?

HutuKing01 wrote:Imam is on the opposite. I like girls above the legal age. In Spain the legal age is 13 years, in the netherlands it is 16. Depending on the laws of the country. Laakiin below 9 is not my thing I can ofcourse marry a girl at the age of 6, but i would wait until she becomes 9.

WTF did I just read? Calling To Catch a Predator

at first i thought this guy must be very young to think 25+ is "old"....but then again, in our culture, unmarried girls over this age is indeed considered "older"..therefore a man in his late 20's or even beyond will regard such women as "older women"....so in light of this....yes, 25+ is old.

and seen as how difficult it is for single somali girls over 25 to admit their age....perhaps more guys professing their desire to marry "older women" will help alleviate the age pressure placed on our unmarried girls.

Marry, breed and be happy...thats the bread and butter of life. Dont think too far ahead of yourself ("I will keep my 1st wife for sentimental reasons" made me spit my tea out lool)...just enjoy your youth, you only have it once

I want to be a crazy old granny who acts like a kid, still has water fights etc. Thats why I refused to marry a traditional man, I just want to have fun.

I wanna marry older woman and enjoy heR experience and sugar mommy bay ee noqonaysa

Look at these dumb faraxs thinking women are some kind of toys. Kulaha I will get me 4 of them, that's if you even manage to get a first one

gedo-girl

zulaika, exactly ! it is indeed a shame how the ageism in our culture makes it hard for guys like me to be with older women, I find myself at odds with the Somali culture which is something I don't feel too happy about since I am very pro-culture.

women are like wine they get better with age..