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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings

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AgentOfChaos wrote:Ok now I see what people were talking about.......that DJ smiley is indeed annoying.
but i'm the first to use it wth ur victimizing me
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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings

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BlackVelvet wrote:
AgentOfChaos wrote:
BlackVelvet wrote:Can't imagine buying a husband because he's practical wth :lol:
Then stop going to the huudheedhka. :umad:
What is huudheedhka?
I wish I could tell you, but I don't know what's it's called in Af-Reer Xamar, sorry walaal. :meles:
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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings

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Tuushi wrote:
BlackVelvet wrote:
Tuushi wrote:I thought u didnt believe in love,what the hell happened? :lol:

I was being hard innit :lol:

But when it comes down to it I don't even buy a bag unless I feel that way about it. Can't imagine buying a husband because he's practical wth :lol:
Hard mise mushy like mashed potatoes. :lol:

Lols@ buying a husband.

Make the selection well,it is a final sale and faulty product stays with u .
You do buy in a lot of ways and it is the most expensive purchase because the price is your time and your future

Lakin do you get what I mean? When you see something and you get that feeling and you know it's the thing you want to have. Years go by and it's still your favourite ama you value logic in all things
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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings

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AgentOfChaos wrote:
BlackVelvet wrote:
AgentOfChaos wrote:
Then stop going to the huudheedhka. :umad:
What is huudheedhka?
I wish I could tell you, but I don't know what's it's called in Af-Reer Xamar, sorry walaal. :meles:

So you're reer Waqooyi after all. :blessed:
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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings

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Lmao mine did too. They were neighbors since childhood. 15+ years of knowing each other before marrying

I am sure we know some who married the same month of knowing each other or after finding a bride at a catalogue at the office of the masjid.

Every couple is unique in their circumstances
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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings

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zulaika wrote:
BlackVelvet wrote:They get married because they don't think they'll find anything better



Would you agree with that statement?
there will always be someone or something to one up what you got... "something better" shouldn't be the basis for looking for a suitable partner - it will lead to an endless search. have a checklist(be realistic) and when u find someone who meets your expectation. nab em'
Zuli did you know before you got the chance to tick all the boxes or did you wait until all the boxes were ticked to make your decision?


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I wish I could tell you, but I don't know what's it's called in Af-Reer Xamar, sorry walaal. :meles:
Ileen qaldaan aa aheyd. :clap: We'll see if a translator is in the house
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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings

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You do buy in a lot of ways and it is the most expensive purchase because the price is your time and your future

Lakin do you get what I mean? When you see something and you get that feeling and you know it's the thing you want to have. Years go by and it's still your favourite ama you value logic in all things
U said it so perfectly. :up: :rose:

Brobaganda, There are folks who knew each for weeks and are still together after decades,happily married,while people who knew each other longest cant last long.
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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings

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InaXaydar: Good to know, stay on topic and don't derail BlackVelvet's thread or GTFO.

BlackVelvet wrote:
AgentOfChaos wrote:
I wish I could tell you, but I don't know what's it's called in Af-Reer Xamar, sorry walaal. :meles:
Ileen qaldaan aa aheyd. :clap: We'll see if a translator is in the house
Fair enough, enjoy this song.



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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings

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AgentOfChaos wrote:InaXaydar: Good to know, stay on topic and don't derail BlackVelvet's thread or GTFO.

I don't engage in meaningless discussions. Markaa futada u rux these wanlaweyns and they will cheer while calling you qaldaan.
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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings

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InaXaydar wrote:
AgentOfChaos wrote:InaXaydar: Good to know, stay on topic and don't derail BlackVelvet's thread or GTFO.

I don't engage in meaningless discussions. Markaa futada u rux these wanlaweyns and they will cheer while calling you qaldaan.
LOL why you mad though? :lol:
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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings

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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings

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you should not get married because of feelings, marriages like that usually end bad.
i had no feelings for my wife when we married, 3 years later i am madly in love with her and couldn't imagine being with another woman.
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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings

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gurey25 wrote:you should not get married because of feelings, marriages like that usually end bad.
i had no feelings for my wife when we married, 3 years later i am madly in love with her and couldn't imagine being with another woman.
tellus about ur marriage gurey

what made the feelings develop

did u do exercises

or did it just happen between washing dishes and taking out the trash
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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings

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Huudheedh=who died in broken Somali. They're hand-me-downs/used clothing.
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Re: SART - Most people don't get married because of feelings

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gurey25 wrote:you should not get married because of feelings, marriages like that usually end bad.
i had no feelings for my wife when we married, 3 years later i am madly in love with her and couldn't imagine being with another woman.
I am happy for you lakin for me just the thought of going through that makes my tummy ache. Isn't it strange living with someone who you don't have any feelings for?
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