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Re: Married folks who take separate vacations
Posted: Tue Nov 26, 2013 10:01 am
by Minneapolis Mayor
My ex didn't even let me go to Karmel mall for about 2hrs to chat with boys. She will call for about 2-3 times in an hour asking for things which I know she could find if she wanted to

Re: Married folks who take separate vacations
Posted: Tue Nov 26, 2013 2:37 pm
by zulaika
kambuli wrote:Mar haddii lagaa dhoofo, waa lagaa dhoofey..

lol, kambuli I never thought of u as the clingy type
so u would never let your hubby go anywhere without u?
Re: Married folks who take separate vacations
Posted: Tue Nov 26, 2013 2:41 pm
by hargaysaay
zulaika wrote:kambuli wrote:Mar haddii lagaa dhoofo, waa lagaa dhoofey..

lol, kambuli I never thought of u as the clingy type
so u would never let your hubby go anywhere without u?
Kambuli knows how to keep her man , Fariid .

Re: Married folks who take separate vacations
Posted: Tue Nov 26, 2013 2:50 pm
by zulaika
^
many ways to keep a man, every woman has her own way
Re: Married folks who take separate vacations
Posted: Tue Nov 26, 2013 3:02 pm
by CilmiDoone
Arabman wrote:I think taking vacation is a foreign culture. I don't think the Sahaba took vacation.
I think you may be onto something there! I also dont think they drove, or used cookers, or used public transportation, definitely foreign culture, we must re-evaluate our lives, we must abandon these things at once!

Re: Married folks who take separate vacations
Posted: Tue Nov 26, 2013 3:05 pm
by Nomand
CilmiDoone wrote:Arabman wrote:I think taking vacation is a foreign culture. I don't think the Sahaba took vacation.
I think you may be onto something there! I also dont think they drove, or used cookers, or used public transportation, definitely foreign culture, we must re-evaluate our lives, we must abandon these things at once!

or used internet and chat forums.
Re: Married folks who take separate vacations
Posted: Tue Nov 26, 2013 3:08 pm
by CilmiDoone
Nomand wrote:CilmiDoone wrote:Arabman wrote:I think taking vacation is a foreign culture. I don't think the Sahaba took vacation.
I think you may be onto something there! I also dont think they drove, or used cookers, or used public transportation, definitely foreign culture, we must re-evaluate our lives, we must abandon these things at once!

or used internet and chat forums.
Say what?!

Re: Married folks who take separate vacations
Posted: Tue Nov 26, 2013 3:17 pm
by Arabman
CilmiDoone wrote:I think you may be onto something there! I also dont think they drove, or used cookers, or used public transportation, definitely foreign culture, we must re-evaluate our lives, we must abandon these things at once!

Not really. Modern technology has its origin in the past. It's nothing more than one technology evolving to a better one. For instance, public transportation started in riding horses, mules, camels, etc. It then evolved to wagons of various types, and then to the modern car which was enlarged to accommodate more people. Things of that nature.
Re: Married folks who take separate vacations
Posted: Tue Nov 26, 2013 3:19 pm
by CilmiDoone
Arabman wrote:CilmiDoone wrote:I think you may be onto something there! I also dont think they drove, or used cookers, or used public transportation, definitely foreign culture, we must re-evaluate our lives, we must abandon these things at once!

Not really. Modern technology has its origin in the past. It's nothing more than one technology evolving to a better one. For instance, public transportation started in riding horses, mules, camels, etc. It then evolved to wagons of various types, and then to the modern car which was enlarged to accommodate more people. Things of that nature.
wow my mind=blown. So things
can change over time?
Re: Married folks who take separate vacations
Posted: Tue Nov 26, 2013 3:23 pm
by Arabman
^ I think so.
Re: Married folks who take separate vacations
Posted: Tue Nov 26, 2013 4:12 pm
by FarhanYare
hadee ticketkeed along with her accomodation costs iska bixineeyso everytime i aint got no probs

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But, seriously, though alot of xalimos on this thread have second wife phobia (stemming from trust issue) if you keep following him around, the second wife will be inevitable 
Re: Married folks who take separate vacations
Posted: Tue Nov 26, 2013 5:34 pm
by kambuli
Zuleikha, If a man is done with u, he is done with u no matter what u do and asking him not to go vacationing alone won't stop him. Common sense tells us that if there is no reasonable excuse for him to vacation alone, something is fishy, very fishy. Koley anigu if I sense he is upto something, I will leave before he throws me out...body language and actions like wanting to go alone vacationing is a big red flag....are you kidding me
Hargeysay,
I am not fariid, but I have dareen, ninkaasi intuuna iga tegin waa in aan ka tegaa

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Re: Married folks who take separate vacations
Posted: Tue Nov 26, 2013 9:54 pm
by BuuloXubeey
Nothing wrong with that. However the wife is not allowed to travel alone. She must have a relative with her then I will allow it.
Re: Married folks who take separate vacations
Posted: Wed Nov 27, 2013 3:17 am
by salool
kambuli wrote:Zuleikha, If a man is done with u, he is done with u no matter what u do and asking him not to go vacationing alone won't stop him. Common sense tells us that if there is no reasonable excuse for him to vacation alone, something is fishy, very fishy. Koley anigu if I sense he is upto something, I will leave before he throws me out...body language and actions like wanting to go alone vacationing is a big red flag....are you kidding me
Hargeysay,
I am not fariid, but I have dareen,
ninkaasi intuuna iga tegin waa in aan ka tegaa 
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oo adigu waxba indhahaaga ku arkin baad isaga tagi laheyd? nin raba inu naago kale kugu dul wado uma baahna inu dhoofo, isaga oo kula jooga ayuu wuxu doono sameyn kara.Inay labada qof isku kalsoonadan ba fiican.Trust is important.
Re: Married folks who take separate vacations
Posted: Wed Nov 27, 2013 5:36 am
by Cherine
zulaika wrote:Smile-LiKe-SuN-RiSE wrote:The only time he can take a vacation alone is markaan dhinto...inta noolahay agtayda un bu fadhin

it's ok to let him go somewhere without u once in a while. It's really not that big of a deal..it's when they make a habit of it, you'll start to wonder why his trying to get away from u..hmm[
. my husband went to World Cup in South Africa with his brother and friend, it didn't bother me, even though i was very hormonal at the time
likewise, I went to Hong Kong last year with my friend who was shopping for her store..it didn't bother him.
How about the World Cup in Brazil ? Ma agoolaan lahayd
