try this .........each time lagu qabto ....baraf biyo ah ku shub .. run the cold tap for a while till he gives up ,,
afterwards tell him you are in charge and not him ......
good luck

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But Dr Phil disagrees though. You don't believe me? Here is the prove:salool wrote:0sman wrote:Salooley, marnaba ma aaminsani in ay daacad ka tahay wuxuu ka sheekeynayo. His issue is worse than addiction to the point where I started believing he might even end up in jail for sexual assault. Ninkan Menace ayuu saddex darajo ka sareeyaa.
But if he's really honest & is trying to help himself then all the best to him.
Marbu hadu qirtay inay mushkiladi haysto, oo rabo inu xumaantan isago baxo wado saxo ayuu saaran yahy.Qof nool lagama quusto.With Allahs help and strong willpower he will overcome his addiction inshallah.Wuxuu baahan yahy uun dhiirigalin ee xooga tips ah ka so xad dr Phil oo miskiinka caawi.
War maxaa kuu baxay yah ! damn.0sman wrote:LilE, it's already been reported that you lasted only for few hours. What do you say about that?
And now?
Still hanging out there, soldier?
You need to put emphasis on rewiring your brain, either to be a Suju(me between ages of 13-19) where I would run away screaming Acudubilah at the sight of a naked girl. This is a game of hide and seek LOOL.Estarix wrote:Adali wrote:LilEmperor wrote: Day 1
I fapped 6 hours ago, i had to, it was an act of saying goodbye. It was the last i was going to touch myself, inappropriately, for a long time. I saw it as an act of saying 'farwell' to a long departure. But anyways Im ready for the 90 days! Woo-hoo optimism and confidence is high!![]()
Here is some serious advice for fap problems, we have all been there at one point in our lives were we fap to go to sleep, it isn't normal but definitely a normal reaction to our society that bombards us with sexual images relentlessly.
Step one. 1 diet, eat balanced food spreading your meals throughout the day, you don't want to have a sudden surge of kacsi due to eating a heavy meal after skipping breakfast.
Step two. 2 hit the gym, you will use energy and you body will feel good without having to touch yourself sexually, this definitely helps if you're a chronic masturbater who has to have an orgasm before going to sleep.
Step three. 3 your fighting a biological war against your body, the most natural thing for you to do at your age is be balls deep inside a flower, but since you lack access to such luxuries you should stay be strategic in fighting your body, that means do not provoke a fight that you cannot win, in other words STAY AWAY from sources of arousal, images, sounds, touches etc these things can activate your body and 6 hours later you're defeated by your own body.
Step four. 4 Improve your will power, although it is difficult to fight your body, it is easier to fight your thought process and your actions before your body takes over, so when you get that feeling of wanting to get into what I call "freak mode" that is when you should say "NO" and fight, it is easier to win at the beginning by avoiding temptation then to give in to temptation and fight your body natural reaction.
Step five. 5 when you start to win, you will experience a vacuum in your life, fill it with fap anti-oxident, get into reading, be more social with family, become spiritual/religious, these things calm you down. But you need to have an outlet for your inner beast, Yin-Yang, so do sports, gym is a start, but I suggest competitive sports where you can activate the beast, shout and shit, like football is good for that.
benefits of no fap, clarity, not the few seconds after an orgasm, but long lasting clarity.
The trick to succeeding relies on fundamentally changing your lifestyle, other important factors are mentality, drive and attitude towards winning. Ive read about how some taking this challenge write how they found success after completely reaching rock bottom, but, trust me nobody wants to be there.
Amira143 wrote:Behave yourslef, Twist. A lady does not "fap"
salool wrote:Amira143 wrote:Behave yourslef, Twist. A lady does not "fap"
Ladies would never sink themselv to that level....but they do daydream though about a handsome fella seducing them on empty beach...cant go in detalis![]()
yes it's a boring sunday..let me dream plz.
salool wrote:Amira143 wrote:Behave yourslef, Twist. A lady does not "fap"
Ladies would never sink themselv to that level....but they do daydream though about a handsome fella seducing them on empty beach...cant go in detalis![]()
yes it's a boring sunday..let me dream plz.