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Only seen this twice, one a man and another time a woman. Sad day, not so much.

why would one care? :/

What can anyone do and how is it anyone business?

Although - because I always want the best for my Somali sisters-
I do check out the guy for two things;

1)If the guy is good looking and well dressed .

2) He is not a deadbeat- from the local estate.

So same goes to brothers who marry those overweight cadaan who are drug addicts alcoholic chavs with missing teeth and then go on dissing Somali women -yucky!

At least- if you're gonna marry out- upgrade!

gegiroor wrote:It bothers me but I blame the men - me being part of them - and our culture as a whole. First, we destroyed their country and forced them to come to the diaspora. Second, some of the women are missing male figures in their upbringing and think all Somali men are like them. Third, in other cultures, the girl is shamed, she is well-known within the community and has no future with them, and her family disowns her. Somalis are much more lenient than others. If we were as harsh as other the fellow Muslims like Pakistanis and Arabs, and Somali men were fully supportive of their families through hard work, I believe there would have been less women marrying out.

The day they issued me with that British passport I stopped giving a fuck

A man who spent most of his life in Scandinavian and Uk went to visit Mogdishu back in 70's. He was shocked when he saw Italian man holding Somalian girl's hand. He punched the Italian man. When he went to the police station, the police officer asked him why did he punch the Italian man. He told him the story and said how an Italian man dared to go out with our girl. The officer replied " It is not your business ". Ninkii qorbo joog ah wuxu yidhi: " Hadaan dalkay ku ciil bixi waayo halkan ku ciil baxaya? ". That was the last time he been to Mogdishu.

As for me, only Allah knows how many foreign men I have beaten or shouted at and how many girls I informed their families about them dating foreigners or even shouted at. And for your information, none of them were even my relatives or my extended family. It is just a matter of dhaqan and which family you come from. Unlike many here, I am not dayuus " fattal ".

Forget about none Muslims, None used to give his daughter to Yemenis, Turkish, Indians, Pakistanis and Egyptians in Djibouti, Zayla, Berbara, Hargeysa and Burao. They used to marry prostitutes in most of the cases.

Somalis have been in the West for almost 180 years, no girls dared to go out wearing pants forget about going out with foreigners pre 1990.

Beating ku lahaa, I ain't go to jail for no one siiba for a woman I have no relationship with.

I don't even look at their direction...there is a reason they're going out with foreigners, they think we are nothing so fuck'em.

I mind my own business. For starters, it's very rare. And when I come across it, most of them tend to duck and hide for cover. Even when you're nice to them they think you are judging them or have their (hooyo on speed dial). There's no winning. So, I just stay out of their way, avoid eye-contact (since they are trying to be evasive) and keep my distance from them. I'm referring to the unmarried ones, though.

Today I saw this hot young Somali girl with soft flowing hair with this ugly blue black Jamaican looking nigga holding hands.

I felt sorry for her. but said nothing and just thought 'meh'.

Itrah wrote:Today I saw this hot young Somali girl with soft flowing hair with this ugly blue black Jamaican looking nigga holding hands.

I felt sorry for her. but said nothing and just thought 'meh'.

In Deutschland? Never knew there was a sizeable Afro-Caribbean community there. That Pu.s.sy is now tainted with Reggae semen.

Back to the topic, Meh.

The Somali ethnic group continues whether Xalimos marry out or fuck out. It is all about the Y-chromosome so let them Su.ck all the Ajnabi Gu.uus they want.

zumaale wrote:In Deutschland? Never knew there was a sizeable Afro-Caribbean community there. That Pu.s.sy is now tainted with Reggae semen.

Back to the topic, Meh.

It was in the center of a large city. There are a few thousand Somalis here.

The bitch could have been Ethiopian though. I hope she is, lol. Either Ethiopian or Somali, but looked more Somali than Ethiopian.

Itrah wrote:

zumaale wrote:In Deutschland? Never knew there was a sizeable Afro-Caribbean community there. That Pu.s.sy is now tainted with Reggae semen.

Back to the topic, Meh.

It was in the center of a large city. There are a few thousand Somalis here.

The bitch could have been Ethiopian though. I hope she is, lol. Either Ethiopian or Somali, but looked more Somali than Ethiopian.

Bro, I was asking whether you had a sizeable Afro-Caribbean community in Deutschland. Are there many?

Itrah, you get desensitised to it when you live in a country like the UK where you got all sorts of Skinnies. If she ain't family, I just shrug my shoulders and start singing Que Sera Sera.

But I gotta confess if the Dhi.lo is pretty, I slightly get bothered.

zumaale wrote:Bro, I was asking whether you had a sizeable Afro-Caribbean community in Deutschland. Are there many?

The big metropolitan areas basically have all the ethnicities of the entire world present. The country-side is totally white though. I don't know what the guy was exactly but he looked like some kind of New World Jareer. There are some of them here, but the biggest black group are Ghanaians and Nigerians.

zumaale wrote:Itrah, you get desensitised to it when you live in a country like the UK where you got all sorts of Skinnies. If she ain't family, I just shrug my shoulders and start singing Que Sera Sera.
But I gotta confess if the Dhi.lo is pretty, I slightly get bothered.

I didn't get bothered by it being a non-Somali, but why o why do Somali girls go for losers when they date outside their ethnicity. At least try to get people with class.

Sauron wrote:Beating ku lahaa, I ain't go to jail for no one siiba for a woman I have no relationship with.

I don't even look at their direction...there is a reason they're going out with foreigners, they think we are nothing so fuck'em.

What do you mean by " I have no relationship with" ? Who do you consider relatives, only your sisters or cousins or any girl who is from your subclan??

Watch from 32:40.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qZhXvduQzE0


There are many ways to stop girls from dating foreign men other than beating them or beating the guy they are dating. If you think it is none of your business then you are mistaken. It is very easy to seduce girls specially when they are young (-18) and born & bred in the west. Anyone may take advantage of them so it is our job to protect them. Today she is one, tomorrow they will be ten. Xumaanta markay goor tahay hadaan la qaban ariinta farahay ka baxda.

Too all of you, make sure you know who are your sisters' friends, female friends for sure. If you can't monitor your own sisters definitely you won't be able to protect others sisters. What goes around comes around, you should start with yourself and don't ever date others. Dating is Haram whether you date Somali speaking person or none Muslims.

I really wonder when I see old women taking their daughters to attend foreign man & Somali girl wedding. And then complaining when her daughter bring a foreign guy home. Sawdigi ina heblayooba sacabka oo toomayay maxaad taad dhashay ugu diidaysa.