honesty, men were careless most of situations that let to that point and they just woke up it was wrong and they wanted to fix most of cases with little admitting they were wrong.
women in other hand, they were either victims and done with it or very vicious and very angry.
i learned not to upset a women in general and make your exit before they accumilate too much "hasidnimo".
also i learned some of the wisdom behind naag iney wah furi karin unless they go to the judge.
i wanted to say some thing based of my short experience observation but i dont want to get in trouble.
