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[quote="Ina Baxar"]Dhaga and gurey , shorts macawis T shirts .... Waan baadhay arrintaas oo runti I have to admit , I have become quite fond of my own scent after a good qaat session in hot and humid Djibouti summers [/quote]

Must be the cadar buskut from suuq dakhsiile.

Kambuli,

I think she is quite emotional and her hormones are getting alot out of her. It' s hasn' t got anything to do with libido or the craving sexual activity . It differs from woman to woman. Some women feel lonely even though everyone is around them.Some get depressed and so on. She is at an early stage of pregnancy and I assume it' s her first time. As a friend I would try my best to comfort her

Lady qac,

Thanks walaal. I will just do that.

Kambuli

She is going through the "Wallac phase" of pregnancy and due to hormonal imbalances it alters her emotional state...thats normal...and its has got nothing to do with an increase of her libido.

Just try to be supportive and she should pass this stage soon.

Kambuli

lol @ the shirt.

Seriously, we know less about your friend, and what I think is either;

Since it is her first pregnancy, maybe she thinks that she is not getting the support that she needs from those arround her. Or;

She became obssessed with the bastard that made her look like a whale and can't trust the reasons for his absence to be solely based on an overseas job. Ask her if she suspects that her guy can't can't keep his zipper shut.

[quote="LaDy-Qac"]Kambuli,

I think she is quite emotional and her hormones are getting alot out of her. It' s hasn' t got anything to do with libido or the craving sexual activity . It differs from woman to woman. Some women feel lonely even though everyone is around them.Some get depressed and so on. She is at an early stage of pregnancy and I assume it' s her first time. As a friend I would try my best to comfort her [/quote]


I 2nd to Qac.. Its the hormones..Some women go through a different stage during the wallac..some can't stand their husbands..One of my friends use to puke when her husband enters the house..said he smells like feces..and will continue till he leaves her sight..

Atleast your friend didn't go through him smelling like crap and she still likes his siniin.. lol

looooool@siniiin

Not siniin qadhmuun

Mohowk,

No masayr is involved

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Kambuli,


Are you sure she isn’t just horny? You know what they say about pregnant women.
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my exact initial thoughts[/quote]

Kambuli,

Lool@ Smell his shirts... Abaayo, she's acting. I have never in my life seen a person obsessed like that. Naag oo odeygeeda sidaas ugu khafiiftay? She needs a daily dose of karbaash. Walilaahi ineey is yeeyeeleyso. It can't be emotions and it can't be her personality.. Waxaas oo kale waa filin.

This normal for a female who is pregnant, especially if he is her first, wey ku walacdey galmado is a big thing for females, if you are her first or her good active sexual partner she will miss you for sure

Thanks all of you for your input. I did not stop there I asked some elderly women about this issue. Actually they confirmed me that my friend is not acting at all. This happens in different ways they told me....Some women hates the man during their first months of pregnancy to the extent that they throw up when he comes around her ( I think Gogo mentioned this too) and some become obsessed with him and some become very easily irritated that every little thing irritates them and makes them cry... While some of them remain normal.... very small % they said.

One lady told me and stressed that it is very important for young couples to understand this changes... She said this is why some couples immediately divorce each other..Because the guy could not understand the sudden change of his sweet heart....

So guys be carefull......

[quote="Dhaga Bacayl"]


Maria,

Why only the last three months?

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less sickly than the first months, they are in their best shape (phisically+ emotionally). Also contraction may occur during her last month, most doctor's advise couples to have sex, couz that increase the chance to have normal childbirth. I know it sound dangerous, but the baby is well protected, she might have few pains, and that couz the baby's head is in the pelvis, no harms what so ever.

[quote="kambuli"]

I think the smell was not the bad one [/quote]


How did u know that?

[quote="maria from west side"][quote="Dhaga Bacayl"]


Maria,

Why only the last three months?

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less sickly than the first months, they are in their best shape (phisically+ emotionally). Also contraction may occur during her last month, most doctor's advise couples to have sex, couz that increase the chance to have normal childbirth. I know it sound dangerous, but the baby is well protected, she might have few pains, and that couz the baby's head is in the pelvis, no harms what so ever.[/quote]

Now I know why babes have that soft spot in the top of their heads.