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Re: Wives, what would be your reaction?
Posted: Fri Feb 23, 2007 2:46 pm
by Navy9
hmm, well, i guess that would be okay with me...if & only if i am the keeper of all his finances (assuming he is a rich dude)
Re: Wives, what would be your reaction?
Posted: Fri Feb 23, 2007 2:55 pm
by eyes-only
Aiman, sorry to disappoint bro
I just don't like b!tchy women and too much drama. I like the idea of having one person to grow old with and not having to share him. If he has a need to marry someone else, it means were not compatible anymore and there wouldn't be any need to continue such a relationship....which is why I would kick him out.
Re: Wives, what would be your reaction?
Posted: Fri Feb 23, 2007 2:58 pm
by Osman
Even though it is permitted in Islam, I think it would difficult to wed more than one wife. nevertheless, showing equal passion and not favoring one over the other, those are the great deal of responsibility in which you choose to undergo, for life and financially.
Re: Wives, what would be your reaction?
Posted: Fri Feb 23, 2007 3:19 pm
by Copy.&.Paste
I don't think many people realize the affect of marrying a second wife can have on the kids sometimes. Imagine one group of kids verses another group of kids with a different mothers? I know families that have serious divisions . it maybe because of jealousy, envy etc
this one risk of having more then one wife.
Re: Wives, what would be your reaction?
Posted: Fri Feb 23, 2007 4:17 pm
by Broud-SeesTar
@ 01 or 02..by saying 2 digit number i mean..10+, but ofcourse im only kidding.
Re: Wives, what would be your reaction?
Posted: Fri Feb 23, 2007 8:17 pm
by Aiman
[quote="qudhac-m"]
I never thought the day you and agree on I something will come but on this one I agree with you 100%[/quote]
Glad you agree with the Muttawac on this one.
[quote="HELWAA"]
well try to explain it bro.........becouse i cant come up with onther reason when a man who have kids and a great wife get a second wife
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One of the reason is we need a darzan of kids (like Osama's father did close to that) the other reasons can't explain it may offend you ladies so I'd rather keep it to myself.
Re: Wives, what would be your reaction?
Posted: Fri Feb 23, 2007 8:29 pm
by Copy.&.Paste
[quote="Aiman"]
One of the reason is we need a darzan of kids (like Osama's father did close to that) the other reasons can't explain it may offend you ladies so I'd rather keep it to myself.[/quote]
salam aiman
If someone wants to have lots of kids they can always have them with one wife. They can also have the option of adoption. if they want to birth dozens of kids thats ...well that's not really realistic anymore . in the past it was fine because populations on earth were low. but do u realize that over populating the earth is not a necessarily good thing ?and not sustainable. Imagine if everyone kept having dozens and dozens of kids. China and India are good examples of people having to many kids and they have serious problems now.
Re: Wives, what would be your reaction?
Posted: Fri Feb 23, 2007 8:31 pm
by Qumanyoo
neeeveerrrr... allow ma kids havin 2-3 mums or watnot... dats jus crazy...
yee its allowed n unless the woman agrees, he cant marry a second wife...
hello... tii xore ba muu ilaalin ee...! newayz ma man tries to tell moi bout 2nd marital issues...
he will have no manhood to be worrying in the future
im with copy and paste... it has an effect on the kids mostly
