Men Who Beat Their Wives!

[Gedo_Boy]

zulaika,

Yes! I have heard women threaten their men w/ boiling oil. That happened to a relative, but he wasn't beating her.

Now how are you supposed to go to sleep under those circumstances?

[Koronto91]

GB,

How come everyone has met these weak men who get beaten by their wives and I have never seen them? Now I want to see them for myself, just so that I can laugh my @ss off, WTF?

I remember attending a thanks giving dinner years ago at a co-worker's home (Iranians) and the discussion of Islam permitting wife beating came up, all these dudes who were only a moment ago drinking wine with their turkey started quoting verses from the Qur'an saying it was their God given right to beat their wives. Funniest thing I'd ever seen!

[HELWAA]

[quote="zulaika"][quote="HELWAA"]Horta what shocks me the most is back home when a man beat his wife and the women leave him the relatives comes back with her like nothing happend...cajiib. [/quote]


helwaa,

nagaha back home when they go to their families after a serious beatdown session by their husbands, they are yelled at, beaten even at times for leaving their husbands and are returned back to their husband and he beats her again for running away to her family.

so what does a woman like that do? ....ah why yes.... the old boiling-pot method…works everytime. imisa jeer baa la gubey nin kibrey, korna ku kaadiyay. watchout now, hell hath no furry like a women scorned. [/quote]



looooooooooooooooooooool

Naa heedhe waxaan xita aan maqley naag intey reerkoodi oo dodey baa aabahed xita diley...kulaha sidaad ninkaaga oo ceebaysa....Walaahi dadkena mentalatigooga waan ka yaabey

[Gedo_Boy]

[quote="Koronto91"]GB,

How come everyone has met these weak men who get beaten by their wives and I have never seen them? Now I want to see them for myself, just so that I can laugh my @ss off, WTF?
[/quote]


Koronto91,

Have you heard the term 'Crazy In Love'

Personally, I would never hit my woman but if she started hitting/biting me or threatening me with hot oil then I would have to divorce her.

[zulaika]

[quote="Gedo_Boy"]zulaika,

Yes! I have heard women threaten their men w/ boiling oil. That happened to a relative, but he wasn't beating her.

Now how are you supposed to go to sleep under those circumstances?[/quote]

Gedo,


what he did must have been worst than beating for her to threaten him with boiling oil. maksiin...he better sleep with one eye open at night walle. nah...actually he better get the hell away from her....he prolly pushed her to the limits and its a matter of time before she lets him have it.

[AbdiWahab252]

Gedoboy,

If she made a threat like that give her the divorce and get out of that house fast.

NO ONE, I MEAN NO ONE can threaten the AW Family Jewels.

[Gedo_Boy]

zulaika,

No sometimes there are just crazy bijes out there. I had a relative spend the night at my apartment b/c he got kicked out at like midnight. It was late and I wasn't gonna answer the phone but I was like: "This guy doesn't call me this late it must be urgent"


Some women are like DMX:

"One minute I'm cool....the next minute I"m up on a nigGa flippin"

[AbdiWahab252]

GedobOY,

Ur friend is soft.

My cousin a true OG (Original Gangsta) wife asked him for a divorce. She didn't mean it and was simply trying to fock with him.

He granted it to her and left two hours later with all of this stuff.

Her family came to mediate the conflict and she became hysterical crying and asking for him to come back.

He refused and is now happily married to a mellow, miskiin woman.

[zulaika]

abdi,

this is not fair…why come when a farax threatens divorce, xalimoz can’t make true of his fake threats..furniin is soo easy for him but when I want one..he will say naayaa hadii xitaa tin cad iyo tin madow isku xidho, ma ku furaayo…. that’s not fair.

walahi if a farax threatens me with divorce…I would want the damn divorce right there..at all means and all costs..or otherwise he will be sleeping with the enemy that night.

[Gedo_Boy]

Aw252,

I'm calm and miskiin almost to a fault. I don't like family trouble and would compromise, I would probably bend over backwards for my wife but if I reach my snapping point then I will turn into a different animal.

She would probably see another side of me, my business side. Basically, if she took advantage of my kindness then I would have to assert my authority and what I say would go and she would get the submissive wife treatment.

[AbdiWahab252]

Zules,

She had done this several times. He got fed up and granted it to her.

Don't make threats unless u are prepared to carry them out.

GedoBoy,

U are not establishing boundaries at the early stages of the relationship and make sure to enforce them.

Problems start when boundaries are not respected.

[Gedo_Boy]

Aw252,

If my wife told me "divorce me" I would tell her not to play around and if she really means it she better say it.

But you have to take into consideration that sometimes women flip so knowing women's psychology if she said she wanted a divorce I would act like I'm going along with it and pretend I'm going through with it....u know start some rumor or something.

So that when she cries uncontrollably I could later tell her that I was about to go through with it and she shouldn't say things she doesn't mean.

But being her nature the way it is, she would probably flip at a later date and you just gotta roll w/ the punches.

It's in her nature to flip and say things she doesn't mean you can't hold that against her too much.

[AbdiWahab252]

GedoBoy,

I have Xalimo say that they are dumping me, and I RUN WITH THE FREE PASS.

Once a woman gets rid of you, the ball is in your court. You got a free pass to flee and not feel guilty at all.

90% of the time, they want you to come back, beg and bribe her to take you back.

But 100% of the time, my pride won't let me.

[zulaika]

[quote="AbdiWahab252"]Zules,

She had done this several times. He got fed up and granted it to her.

Don't make threats unless u are prepared to carry them out.

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abdi,

yeah...but why is that faraxs make threats they don't intend to carry out? i know this girl who's husband keeps saying nayaa walahi waan ku furayaa buuqa hadaan iga joojin...and the mothafocker never divorces her... so she went to a wadaad and she told him that her husband said i will divorce you many times, and that if she's still legally married to him since he said it more than three times. the wadaad then said..he has to say it infront of witnesses and he must say... "waan furary" ama "waad iga furantahey" not " waan ku furayaa"(which is what he always says) so this means that this bastard can keep threatening this shid forever and she has to endure this. fOck it

[Gedo_Boy]

Aw252,

I would be pretty mellow except in the cases where she was taking my kindness for a weakness and trying to manipulate me or I felt that she was dishonest, deceptive, or betraying me.


Then I would make her feel like a slave.....I'm very calculated when I'm pissed.......very diabolical