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QansaGabeyle wrote:

Obviously u dont just marry a person coz they are Muslim...u marry them for who they r

Being muslim is part of who you are, isn't?

Nah,its not... u know what I mean...

Firefly wrote:


and trust me, its easier to stick to your own kind


but somalis dont listen, so go a head and marry who ever you want

only people who will be affected are your parents and you

Where exactly did Allah (swt) say that? [/quote]


it was a hadith....maybe someone can post it

I actually agree with you. Dhaqan is very important but some overlook it!
Ka dharag......maxaan ka dhargaa?

QansaGabeyle wrote:I actually agree with you. Dhaqan is very important but some overlook it!
Ka dharag......maxaan ka dhargaa?

Waxaad doontid..

my chick doesn't know this, but i'll dump her ass one of these days so fast that she'll not now what hit her. i sure as hell ain't marrying a non-somali. 8)

IF i was to marry outside somalis, it'd be only an arab or sudanese.

to each his own.

Somalis are largely instable mentally, in part because of the isolated gene pool.

That's why we need to accept some foreign blood.

We need to import brides from Persia, Armenia, Brazil rainforest, Kazakhstan, Siberia, British Columbia.

Otherwise we will be extinct!

We are at the stage of the Mongol hordes, Nordic Vikings, Turkic tribes. They were on the verge of insanity as well, but they conquered other lands, expanded their gene pool, and then gradually settled down and became civilized.

This is a natural mechanism.

Lexmark wrote:it was a hadith....maybe someone can post it

Is it a hadeeth qudsi?

Does anyone here know about this hadeeth, if you do, can you please post it?

i might know what he means FF.....inshallah if I find that hadith I'll post it.


Wasalam

interracial relationships are exceptions, not the norms

somalis love to exaggerate

Firefly sis, the brother wasn't entirely correct....Allah did not say marry for Dhaqan, nor did Allah say anything about tribe, or language etc is more important than ISLAM!!!! A Good Muslim is better than anything else.

The hadith goes something like this....(it might be another one his talking about)

The Prophet (s.a.w) said: "A woman may be married for four reasons: for her property, her status, her beauty, and her religion; so try to get one who is religious, may you be blessed."
(Bukhari----I don't know the right no. though)

I personally believe Islam before anything else, however Islam is blessed religion and your allowed to marry someone even for their looks, but you have only yourself to blame if it isn't succesful.

Like my husband being Somali will benefit me in Jannah

Al-Hujurat

Ya ayyuha alnnasuinna khalaqnakum min thakarin waonthawajaAAalnakum shuAAooban waqaba-ila litaAAarafooinna akramakum AAinda Allahi atqakum inna AllahaAAaleemun khabeerun

13. O mankind! We have created you from a male and a female, and made you into nations and tribes, that you may know one another. Verily, the most honourable of you with Allah is that (believer) who has At-Taqwa. Verily, Allah is All-Knowing, All-Aware.

Allahu Akbar

Warsan-Star-Muslimah:- Jazakallahu Kheyr sis. That's the hadeeth I had in mind too. But I wanted him to verify it since he made the claim therefore the onus of proof rested on him. We should choose our spouse based on their taqwa like we're instructed to in the Qur'an, so if you find a Somali brother who is a good Muslim, thats great, and equally if you find a Non-Somali brother who is a good Muslim, that's good too. The couple join forces in order to build a place together in Paradise, and also to increase the Ummah by raising pious children. Culture and language are important, but the Deen should always take precedence.

In Minneapolis, it increasingly becoming common thing for Somali girls to marry outsiders. Every month, You'd see a white men(usually college students) marrying a Somali girl. Just three years ago, the biggest wedding was a black African American with an Isaq girl, and that was the biggest wedding in Minneapolis history

But, Somali guys aren't doing bad either, I regularly encounter Somali guys with White girls who are dressed like a typical Somali girl, which leads to my question


Why Somali man always manage to bring Ajnabi girls to Islam religion, while Somali girls run away withe the first ape that yells "I am Muslim"

MJ Pride its easy, you have dudes converting for the girl, not Allah

or they are entirely Kuffar and the women follows the man's ways (which is why Muslim women aren't supposed to marry non Muslim)

and maybe thats why you see these ajnabi gaalo women becoming Muslim because they are following into the man's culture and his religion

it just happens that way