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Re: walahi Allah has made it easy for women to get into Jannah
Posted: Fri Sep 05, 2008 12:08 pm
by zulaika
hablaha wali la guursan horta how come they are so anti guur and complain about the ailments of other people who failed at maintaining reerahooda? sheytaanka iska naara dee..waa idin sidee. zuli is just tryan tell you..its not as bad as it was made out to me..trust me, i know this from kolkaan singlka ahaa..i used to preach the same shid to myself as well.
btw, i see feminists(previously in disguise) have crawled out of the woodwork
Re: walahi Allah has made it easy for women to get into Jannah
Posted: Fri Sep 05, 2008 12:14 pm
by Air Canada
Some here are bitter single mothers and some are happily married while there is a third group that are single and trying to impress.
If you are smart, you can tell who belongs to which group..atleast the bitter single mothers can easily be spotted.
Re: walahi Allah has made it easy for women to get into Jannah
Posted: Fri Sep 05, 2008 12:17 pm
by SummerRain
Re: walahi Allah has made it easy for women to get into Jannah
Posted: Fri Sep 05, 2008 12:30 pm
by HELWAA
Salamaad!...Because of the holy month i cant say what i realy want to say about this topic.
Ismahan123 wrote:zulaika wrote:Ismahan123 wrote:Indeed, we have it easy yet so many broken marriages b/c of irresponsible husbands. Someone please care to explain to me how a woman is supposed to obey, a man that is not fulfilling his basic duties to his wife and children and to ALLAH???????
it is not xaram to ask for a divorce if you think you cannot remain in the marriage. i am not advocating for divorce per se, but if you must..then you must. find yourself another one worthy of your efforts.
Yeah offcourse divorce is always available then what marke la dhaho guurigi bay baa'baisey for no reason?
The thing is these days, people do not values the rules of marriage through Islam and when you say its easy for us, it actually is but only if the ones partner is doing their part as well. Otherwise, you are faced with either an unhappy marriage or a dissolved marriage after another. It happens and it happens often and the reason being is people stay in these marriages b/c of kids. Some mother rather stay if their children's father even though they might not have an ounce of respect for him b/c they dont want another man around.
Anyways, I think I deviated alittle fom my point, but DIvorce is not as easy as it seems.
Indeed divorce is not easy esp when you have children.Waa runta naagaha badankoodo sidaas ayey oo fakaraan..marba hadaanan nin kale caruurteeda oo keenan maan kan iskala joogo.But Ismahan remember pple can change and Allah can show that lost man in the right path...qudrada ilaahy way fara badan tahy walle ee waxa kaliya e inaga la inaga waa samir...allah ma3al saabiirin yaa ukhti.Hadaad ilaahy isku xidhid wax kaa xumaaniya ma jirto.
Re: walahi Allah has made it easy for women to get into Jannah
Posted: Fri Sep 05, 2008 1:04 pm
by Basra-
Air Canada is an Air head.
Nabs--r u for real? On medications macaanto?
Re: walahi Allah has made it easy for women to get into Jannah
Posted: Fri Sep 05, 2008 1:26 pm
by HELWAA
Re: walahi Allah has made it easy for women to get into Jannah
Posted: Fri Sep 05, 2008 1:30 pm
by SummerRain
HELWAA wrote:Salamaad!...Because of the holy month i cant say what i realy want to say about this topic.
Ismahan123 wrote:zulaika wrote:]
it is not xaram to ask for a divorce if you think you cannot remain in the marriage. i am not advocating for divorce per se, but if you must..then you must. find yourself another one worthy of your efforts.
Yeah offcourse divorce is always available then what marke la dhaho guurigi bay baa'baisey for no reason?
The thing is these days, people do not values the rules of marriage through Islam and when you say its easy for us, it actually is but only if the ones partner is doing their part as well. Otherwise, you are faced with either an unhappy marriage or a dissolved marriage after another. It happens and it happens often and the reason being is people stay in these marriages b/c of kids. Some mother rather stay if their children's father even though they might not have an ounce of respect for him b/c they dont want another man around.
Anyways, I think I deviated alittle fom my point, but DIvorce is not as easy as it seems.
Indeed divorce is not easy esp when you have children.Waa runta naagaha badankoodo sidaas ayey oo fakaraan..marba hadaanan nin kale caruurteeda oo keenan maan kan iskala joogo.But Ismahan remember pple can change and Allah can show that lost man in the right path...qudrada ilaahy way fara badan tahy walle ee waxa kaliya e inaga la inaga waa samir...allah ma3al saabiirin yaa ukhti.Hadaad ilaahy isku xidhid wax kaa xumaaniya ma jirto.
I agree sis. Tawakal 3ala Allah.
Re: walahi Allah has made it easy for women to get into Jannah
Posted: Fri Sep 05, 2008 3:38 pm
by Gedo_Boy
zulaika well said ( & Ramadan Kareem)
Sadly, in this day and age, a lot of women take it as a point of pride to not listen to their husbands and what not. This is a product of TV & pop culture.
Little do they know that a man will do what he can to please his wife if he gets that special feminine gift of wanting to please her husband, this can melt a guy and only smart God-fearing women know how to use this.
Re: walahi Allah has made it easy for women to get into Jannah
Posted: Fri Sep 05, 2008 3:46 pm
by hilal2020
It ain't easy being a family in the west, u know "Xalimo" is gonna impress every culture she come across to, and it's picture of perfection to them..sarwalka waad ku quruxbadan tahay baa laigu yiri ee kawaran.
Re: walahi Allah has made it easy for women to get into Jannah
Posted: Fri Sep 05, 2008 3:49 pm
by FAH1223
This topic is overdone.
Re: walahi Allah has made it easy for women to get into Jannah
Posted: Fri Sep 05, 2008 3:58 pm
by Kolombo
Marriage is over-rated.
Re: walahi Allah has made it easy for women to get into Jannah
Posted: Fri Sep 05, 2008 4:00 pm
by FAH1223
Kolombo wrote:Marriage is over-rated.
Yes sir.
Re: walahi Allah has made it easy for women to get into Jannah
Posted: Fri Sep 05, 2008 4:02 pm
by Kolombo
^I seriously mean it, stay single for as long as possible.
Re: walahi Allah has made it easy for women to get into Jannah
Posted: Fri Sep 05, 2008 4:09 pm
by SummerRain
Re: walahi Allah has made it easy for women to get into Jannah
Posted: Fri Sep 05, 2008 4:14 pm
by Kolombo
Ismahan123 wrote:NO comment.
That's right!
