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Any girl who wants to know a man's qabil before she knows him as a person is either reer baadiye or even worse.

I never care about a girl's qabil..unless I am thinking of marrying her..and that will be late in the game.

The problem with some xalimos is that the moment she meets you..she will see at you as a potential husband.
.without ever thinking of how to get to know you first.

hyperactive wrote:i dont mean all somali girls this narrow minded but this is one of the reasons i dont want to take any change
and marry somali woman!!
nothing more turn off naag qabyalad and racist ah.
i rather stranger one who says: my husband is african, madow or even somali than some one qabil meel la tagan!!

dont say that hyper, these women who do that are in the minority

These days if you are from the wrong qabiil or wrong sect,things will not work. Maybe because of that,he does not want to reveal his tribe?

FAH1223 wrote:

hyperactive wrote:i dont mean all somali girls this narrow minded but this is one of the reasons i dont want to take any change
and marry somali woman!!
nothing more turn off naag qabyalad and racist ah.
i rather stranger one who says: my husband is african, madow or even somali than some one qabil meel la tagan!!

dont say that hyper, these women who do that are in the minority

brother some women, just spoil the rest in your mind!!
you and i need some one from same background.
my mother already thinks somalis are trouble makers, imagine mid qabiil igu na'ada.lol
too much drama for my liking!!

Well personally I need to know his qabiil before I even go on a date with him. There are some qabiils I am not even willing to date. So why waste my time

lol Rayan walle hablihi wey ka daren!
but the poor farah doesnt represent his qabil, even not his family.
you should judge him as individual.
any ways i wouldnt say to date any one whatever qabil he is.lol

Hyper

Do you really believe what they say in here???

Its BS..the moment any girl/xalimo..(majority of them anyways) sees a guy she likes..she will forget her name..let alone ask his qabil

es'al al-mujarib..wala tas'al thabib.

Rayan_08 wrote: There are some qabiils I am not even willing to date. So why waste my time

inalilah waa ina ilahi rajucun.

cawaro adigu u dont even know your own qabil u cant demand askin a girl for her qabil waxba adigu maha inad weydiisiid

fah is right quran says

yuu tu carifun isku garta not yuu tu qaatiluun


but then again we are somalis we twist things

Nabeela wrote:

Rayan_08 wrote: There are some qabiils I am not even willing to date. So why waste my time

inalilah waa ina ilahi rajucun.

Nabz you can't really be surprised

I am serious but of course my list does not only exclude certain qabiils, there is a bunch of reasons why I would refuse to
date someone.

Hyper,

Well to each his own.

Cawar,

Forget her name, I dont think so..

Ryan

Which qabils are forbidden??

Ok maybe I exaggerated about the name forgetting..but I have seen some lose their concentration..in the movies...of course.

Cawar wrote:Hyper

Do you really believe what they say in here???

Its BS..the moment any girl/xalimo..(majority of them anyways) sees a guy she likes..she will forget her name..let alone ask his qabil

es'al al-mujarib..wala tas'al thabib.

lol ya mojarib inta.lol
bess i do believe them because i mean every word i say here.
Allah ya3en elli bayazawajhom, takhayel bisranhom shlon yatla3oon?lol

Rayan, I was aware of one qabill you won't date, but the rest is news to me lol

Hyper, kuleey waxaad guursan doontaa mid Carab ah ee markaa gabdhaha like Rayan u dhaaf their qabiil selection preferences.

Cawar wrote:Ryan

Which qabils are forbidden??

Ok maybe I exaggerated about the name forgetting..but I have seen some lose their concentration..in the movies...of course.

This is the list I am NOT willing to date

1. Reer xamar man They dont even look like a MAN to me. Somehow they are 2 soft.
2. The usual undesirables i.e., Raxanwayn, Midgaan, etc
3. Dir Fake Hawiya??
4. Hawiya just couldn't have Hawiye children, they killed too many of my fam members in the past
5. Mejertan: they are too narrow minded and I dont want to have love girls (since most MJ girls are love)
6. Dhulbahante Gave them a chance but they didn't deserve it
7. Leelkase Who are they?
8. Ogaden Most of my OG friends were really slow so for the longest time I thought the whole Qabiil was half-retarded

I guess that pretty much leaves Mareexan

lol nabeela mid indo yar bey aniga iga heysa.lol
not because i prefered her indoyar.
as they say loe is blind.
was childhood love, before i even know differences of people's colour/race