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I was recently talking to a deeply religious girl (niqaabi) and she said she doesnt wanna marry a religious guy, she wants a "normal" guy

So kolombo, maybe she prefers a chewer (the somali version of badasss )

Advo wrote:I was recently talking to a deeply religious girl (niqaabi) and she said she doesnt wanna marry a religious guy, she wants a "normal" guy

So kolombo, maybe she prefers a chewer (the somali version of badasss )

cause they will get bored

oo sheekhu manu normal ahayn

FAH1223 wrote:

Advo wrote:I was recently talking to a deeply religious girl (niqaabi) and she said she doesnt wanna marry a religious guy, she wants a "normal" guy

So kolombo, maybe she prefers a chewer (the somali version of badasss )

cause they will get bored

Fah, are you speaking from experience.


Personally, I think she is doing it for security reasons. There is nothing like feeling safe for a girl (a bit of a generalisation), and prehaps it was instilled in her she will find this amongst her own (qabil).

Warsan_Star_Muslimah wrote:

Fah, are you speaking from experience.


Personally, I think she is doing it for security reasons. There is nothing like feeling safe for a girl (a bit of a generalisation), and prehaps it was instilled in her she will find this amongst her own (qabil).

I'm just calling it like I see it. People want variety...the world doesn't beat to just one drum!

Warsan_Star_Muslimah wrote:

FAH1223 wrote:

Advo wrote:I was recently talking to a deeply religious girl (niqaabi) and she said she doesnt wanna marry a religious guy, she wants a "normal" guy

So kolombo, maybe she prefers a chewer (the somali version of badasss )

cause they will get bored

Fah, are you speaking from experience.


Personally, I think she is doing it for security reasons. There is nothing like feeling safe for a girl (a bit of a generalisation), and prehaps it was instilled in her she will find this amongst her own (qabil).

Yup FAH is a good kid masha'allah, but he wants a wild and out girl

Okay, whatever you mean by that.

But why would she get bored with a religious guy? What is there to be bored about. Honestly.

What is a normal guy anyways?

Advo,

A religious girl would love to marry a religious guy, since that is what will tickle her fancy. Methinks there is no religious guys around her ends, marka she needs to stop the bs.

Shirib,

You to eh?

Warsan,

Nah, I just need a nice girl

Warsan_Star_Muslimah wrote:Okay, whatever you mean by that.

But why would she get bored with a religious guy? What is there to be bored about. Honestly.

What is a normal guy anyways?

Advo,

A religious girl would love to marry a religious guy, since that is what will tickle her fancy. Methinks there is no religious guys around her ends, marka she needs to stop the bs.

Shirib,

You to eh?

Normal Guy = Practices the religion (has the five pillars down and other things), but is no where near Sheikh status of said "Religious" girl (I hate the term religious, btw and 'wadaad')

or maybe the religious guys are more control freaks,,wayna xaasas badanyihiin for that reasons dumarka badanaa ma jecla wadaado gar dheerayaal..

Diyeeshaha_Tolka wrote:or maybe the religious guys are more control freaks,,wayna xaasas badanyihiin for that reasons dumarka badanaa ma jecla wadaado gar dheerayaal..

i hear that more with converts though

Shirib,

Insha-allah you will find that bella.

Fah,

Horta a proper Sheikh or a Wadaad, that really practices Islam, is not control freak and would make the best husband, don't mistake them for pseudo-Sheikh/Wadaad wannabe's. I see them in the Somali community and their far from wadaad/sheikh, as a matter of fact their only different from (what you described as the) 'normal guy,' in that they dress differently or have a beard.

Here I have a friend she was wild she used to go to clubs I used to see here at clubs smoking sigaar sharaabka ninka weyn etc , but she now married a wadaad , she is a beautiful girl walahi , xata mar mar waxan ku arki jiiray xaflada iyadu kuwan cabiida dirty dance la ciyaaraysa , any way she converted to wadaadisme and she married a wadaad I spoke to her like 2 weeks ago on the phone she was like khalidow wala dhimanaya ilahay ka cabso. And I was naa maxa kuguu dhacay say wax ka noqdeen. I was like ball tii invitegere xaflad yaro my cousin was giving , and like last week I saw her at a wedding and she was wearing xijaab I couldn’t even recognize her na ma adigii ba hadda this girl used to wear the most qurux dress ama dirac timaha na sii khataray uu samaysan jirtay and now she is like that , so my point is exwild girls go for maskiin wadaad men oo is yidhaha naag waxa la korra iyadu dhar xiidhan,.

Warsan, *sigh* you don't understand

khalid ali wrote:Here I have a friend she was wild she used to go to clubs I used to see here at clubs smoking sigaar sharaabka ninka weyn etc , but she now married a wadaad , she is a beautiful girl walahi , xata mar mar waxan ku arki jiiray xaflada iyadu kuwan cabiida dirty dance la ciyaaraysa , any way she converted to wadaadisme and she married a wadaad I spoke to her like 2 weeks ago on the phone she was like khalidow wala dhimanaya ilahay ka cabso. And I was naa maxa kuguu dhacay say wax ka noqdeen. I was like ball tii invitegere xaflad yaro my cousin was giving , and like last week I saw her at a wedding and she was wearing xijaab I couldn’t even recognize her na ma adigii ba hadda this girl used to wear the most qurux dress ama dirac timaha na sii khataray uu samaysan jirtay and now she is like that , so my point is exwild girls go for maskiin wadaad men oo is yidhaha naag waxa la korra iyadu dhar xiidhan,.

cause they know they wrong for bumpin and grindin in clubs and want someone to correct it


LOL @ sharaabka ninka weyn