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Re: Your cousin...

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ArcadeFire wrote:Most people treat their cousins like siblings, least I do :? Didnt the prophet saw advise against it anyhow?
I don't believe he did. There are many cases of sahaabi marrying first cousins or close to it.
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The chance of your child having a inheritance disease is increased. FACT.
If your grandparents are carriers of a disease both of your parents have the 50% each of being a carrier therefor you have a chance of being a carrier so that cousin, this means that your child has a chance of getting the recessive from you and from your spouse! Recessive allele+ recessive allele= disease. The bigger your gene pools the better people!!
Ps. it’s all up to Allah though, am proof :up:
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I know but I read ages ago something like its better to go out the family, this is the only thing I found in google:
The Islamic view is that while marriage between cousins is permissible, it is preferable to choose a marriage partner from outside one's family. We have to distinguish between what is permitted and what is advocated. Some clans restrict marriages to amongst their kin only – a practice far from what is advocated. It is worth stressing here that when marriage of cousins is repeated over several generations, they are bound to have more effects on children.

By permitting such marriages Islam does not encourage them. It advocates the cementing of social relations through marriages between totally unrelated families.

The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) once told one of his Companions to choose a wife from a tribe different to his, and then to choose for his son a wife from a third tribe, and to seek for his second son a girl from yet another tribe.


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Re: Your cousin...

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greenday wrote:The chance of your child having a inheritance disease is increased. FACT.
If your grandparents are carriers of a disease both of your parents have the 50% each of being a carrier therefor you have a chance of being a carrier so that cousin, this means that your child has a chance of getting the recessive from you and from your spouse! Recessive allele+ recessive allele= disease. The bigger your gene pools the better people!!
Ps. it’s all up to Allah though, am proof :up:
Facts are the increase is so small. Its smaller then you having a baby after age 35, which woman do normally and there is no taboo.
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greenday wrote:The chance of your child having a inheritance disease is increased. FACT.
If your grandparents are carriers of a disease both of your parents have the 50% each of being a carrier therefor you have a chance of being a carrier so that cousin, this means that your child has a chance of getting the recessive from you and from your spouse! Recessive allele+ recessive allele= disease. The bigger your gene pools the better people!!
Ps. it’s all up to Allah though, am proof :up:
:up: :up: These hillbilies dont know nothing of Genepool walaal, Its halaal and then everything else is disregarded. Waxaa wa xawayaan nimo.

But it was funny though, now i know wich users wouldnt mind sexing their cousins :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
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ArcadeFire wrote:I know but I read ages ago something like its better to go out the family, this is the only thing I found in google:
The Islamic view is that while marriage between cousins is permissible, it is preferable to choose a marriage partner from outside one's family. We have to distinguish between what is permitted and what is advocated. Some clans restrict marriages to amongst their kin only – a practice far from what is advocated. It is worth stressing here that when marriage of cousins is repeated over several generations, they are bound to have more effects on children.

By permitting such marriages Islam does not encourage them. It advocates the cementing of social relations through marriages between totally unrelated families.

The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) once told one of his Companions to choose a wife from a tribe different to his, and then to choose for his son a wife from a third tribe, and to seek for his second son a girl from yet another tribe.


Read more: http://www.islamonline.net/servlet/Sate ... z1D0s0sNtr
The prophet used to urge sahaabi to marry from other tribes to strengthen Islam, as he did himself. Marriage relations did a lot for strengthening ties of different tribes. I don't think he did for any other reason Alaahu aclam though.
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Shirib wrote:
greenday wrote:The chance of your child having a inheritance disease is increased. FACT.
If your grandparents are carriers of a disease both of your parents have the 50% each of being a carrier therefor you have a chance of being a carrier so that cousin, this means that your child has a chance of getting the recessive from you and from your spouse! Recessive allele+ recessive allele= disease. The bigger your gene pools the better people!!
Ps. it’s all up to Allah though, am proof :up:
Facts are the increase is so small. Its smaller then you having a baby after age 35, which woman do normally and there is no taboo.
Well if you have a disease in your family you know the chance are waaaay higher! this also increase with family that keep on inter marryin, It halal so am not agains it.
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Coeus wrote:
greenday wrote:The chance of your child having a inheritance disease is increased. FACT.
If your grandparents are carriers of a disease both of your parents have the 50% each of being a carrier therefor you have a chance of being a carrier so that cousin, this means that your child has a chance of getting the recessive from you and from your spouse! Recessive allele+ recessive allele= disease. The bigger your gene pools the better people!!
Ps. it’s all up to Allah though, am proof :up:
:up: :up: These hillbilies dont know nothing of Genepool walaal, Its halaal and then everything else is disregarded. Waxaa wa xawayaan nimo.

But it was funny though, now i know wich users wouldnt mind sexing their cousins :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:
Waryaa am hooyo and aabo are not xeywaano :evil:
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Cousins can be of different tribes, so its just as likely that the prophet saw advocated widening the genepool. Allah knows best, but its certainly better socially to keep it out of the family imho!
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Waryaa am hooyo and aabo are not xeywaano :evil:
Im sorry green. But isnt it clan love taking it to the extreme when someone marries his relative?
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whats wrong with marrying your own cousin i think thats great :up:
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Coeus wrote:
Waryaa am hooyo and aabo are not xeywaano :evil:
Im sorry green. But isnt it clan love taking it to the extreme when someone marries his relative?
Not really, if you want to keep it in the qabil you dont need to marry your cousin, plus if your ina habaryar you might not be the same qabil!!
If you had a hot cousin who knows you might have had a different view :D
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Coeus wrote:
greenday wrote:The chance of your child having a inheritance disease is increased. FACT.
If your grandparents are carriers of a disease both of your parents have the 50% each of being a carrier therefor you have a chance of being a carrier so that cousin, this means that your child has a chance of getting the recessive from you and from your spouse! Recessive allele+ recessive allele= disease. The bigger your gene pools the better people!!
Ps. it’s all up to Allah though, am proof :up:
:up: :up: These hillbilies dont know nothing of Genepool walaal, Its halaal and then everything else is disregarded. Waxaa wa xawayaan nimo.

But it was funny though, now i know wich users wouldnt mind sexing their cousins :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:


Lol at sexing their cousins :?
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Re: Your cousin...

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greenday wrote:
Shirib wrote:
greenday wrote:The chance of your child having a inheritance disease is increased. FACT.
If your grandparents are carriers of a disease both of your parents have the 50% each of being a carrier therefor you have a chance of being a carrier so that cousin, this means that your child has a chance of getting the recessive from you and from your spouse! Recessive allele+ recessive allele= disease. The bigger your gene pools the better people!!
Ps. it’s all up to Allah though, am proof :up:
Facts are the increase is so small. Its smaller then you having a baby after age 35, which woman do normally and there is no taboo.
Well if you have a disease in your family you know the chance are waaaay higher! this also increase with family that keep on inter marryin, It halal so am not agains it.
The disease part is luck of the draw. U can easily marry someone with the same recessive aleele who isn't married to u at all.
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Re: Your cousin...

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Coeus wrote:
Waryaa am hooyo and aabo are not xeywaano :evil:
Im sorry green. But isnt it clan love taking it to the extreme when someone marries his relative?
lmao, u can have first cousins from different clans, genius
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