All my ladies Independent...

[HELWAA]

I dont know why but i find men with hairy chest sexy.

[haniDD]

I dont know why but i find men with hairy chest sexy.

that is just disguesting. U nearly gave me hearttack.
Helwaa, sis what u doing looking at half naked men? I had u as the most pious out of everyone?

[BlackVelvet]

That is a lot of hair yaa Helwaa, can imagine in a few years when he loses his pecks and his abs and all those lovely muscles. Muxuu noqon a hairy old man with a big belly not a wise investment sxb. The one in the other thread is so much more attractive.

[Murax]

probability that Black Velvet was gonna appear in a thread titled 'all my ladies indpendent'=100%

[HELWAA]

HniDD...WITH A NICK LIKE THAT DONT PLAY SHEKHA WITH ME HUUNO.WAXAAN AAN DAAWANEYO MAXAA KAGA 15 AH ADIGA.



Black v

Hairy men need love too dee...ruuferka hore ka soo qaad oo xaadh timaha.

[haniDD]

Sister Helwaa, i am far from Sheikha hani.
And DD is my initals. nothing more nothing less.
I just thought u were.

Its nice to have u bk though.

[HELWAA]

Hani D

Ha igu mashquulin huuno ee forumkaaga dhinac ka gal.

[haniDD]

Helw sis...............I know u dont care but u know what for some reason i respected u but

But Dont worry hani i am leaving, this is my last nite.

I got my handsome husband bk.
yes we did have a lot of problems but we sorted it out. He finally gave me what i wanted from him and he apologised.
So he is back to the man i married ALHAMDIUALLH.

And i didnt cry to my family like u suggested. Thank God.
I sorted things out like a real woman. but we are all humans and make mistakes.

So while i cuddle up to a real man u can dream of ur hairy man.(DISGUESTING!).
cio. kix kix.

And oh, dont bother replying. i wont read it cos every time open this page and i see that man i feel SICK.

p.s.
I just want say thanks to SNET, for seeing me through the difficult time i was going through. it was real destraction.
But i hope i am never bk here again.

[MizHargeysa]

above comment .. Ouch !!!!

back to the topic ... even though i like my independence, if i find a man who is very financially stable and i cud put my feet up , i wouldn't mind working part time or even staying at home to look after my children insha allah ... independence is hard work man ...

what do u guys think of a household where the woman is the breed winner ? i personally would stop work if my husband got too cosy in that lifestyle where he can go out and work but couldn't be bothered.

[BlackVelvet]

^^ lol according to a Daanyeer article such marriages are doomed to fail because such women (bread winners) become unattracted to their men (househusbands) and start to resent and lose respect for them.

It's good to not have to worry about money and if a man can willingly and without complaint provide you with everything you want then who in their right mind would complain?

probability that Black Velvet was gonna appear in a thread titled 'all my ladies indpendent'=100%

Well you gotta throw your hands up in the air innit



HaniDD how is the old husband getting on with the new husband?

[MizHargeysa]

^^ lol according to a Daanyeer article such marriages are doomed to fail because such women (bread winners) become unattracted to their men (househusbands) and start to resent and lose respect for them.

It's good to not have to worry about money and if a man can willingly and without complaint provide you with everything you want then who in their right mind would complain?

probability that Black Velvet was gonna appear in a thread titled 'all my ladies indpendent'=100%

Well you gotta throw your hands up in the air innit



HaniDD how is the old husband getting on with the new husband?

loooooool yh i would find any man who enjoys sitting at home 24/7 asking his wife for money a loser and very unattractive !!! i now understand why our beautiful religion says Men should be the providers and protectors of women it makes sense !!!!

but all i see in London are somali guys signing job seekers i think i need to look somewhere else for a husband !!!

[BlackVelvet]

MzH wouldn't it be fair to say that the reason you don't see them around is because the ones who aren't on JS are probably at work

Seriously though, these days unless the man is rolling in money it is not always possible to support a household on one income alone and sometimes the woman's income in higher than the man's. Shit happens and you don't always get what you want I suppose.

[Murax]

^^ It's good to not have to worry about money and if a man can willingly and without complaint provide you with everything you want then who in their right mind would complain? ?

Heres the thing though. When You say "everything you want" that can be very vague. I mean You can be talking about a new ring/bracelet every couple days, credit card spending sprees @ the latest upscale fasion stores? I mean only a futbol player can afford that kind of lifestyle for His Wife. Don't get Me wrong if I had that kinda money, sure I'd love to spoil her like that, but damn..



I mean most marriages of My friends, and the marriage I see myself having I'd take care of all the basics like ofcourse the rent, groceries, her gas, her phone, pocket money for her to go out with her friends or whatever, in addition to all the other basics. I mean if She wants more than that, which she's entitled to then sure She's more than welcome to get a part time job.


Really though one thing I've observed is no matter what kind of game girls talk before marriage like I'll work work work, as time goes on and they get a little bit older i.e mid '20s, early '30s, etc. their appetite to do that gets less and less and they'd rather just focus on their childeren, husband, etc. and at worst will wanna work part time. My observation

[MizHargeysa]

MzH wouldn't it be fair to say that the reason you don't see them around is because the ones who aren't on JS are probably at work

Seriously though, these days unless the man is rolling in money it is not always possible to support a household on one income alone and sometimes the woman's income in higher than the man's. Shit happens and you don't always get what you want I suppose.

loool walalhi even the ones i meet are all either students or looking for Work and if they do work its in a retail shop or u know them kinda jobs nothing that are not a stable job

[KingMJ]

MzH wouldn't it be fair to say that the reason you don't see them around is because the ones who aren't on JS are probably at work
Seriously though, these days unless the man is rolling in money it is not always possible to support a household on one income alone and sometimes the woman's income in higher than the man's. Shit happens and you don't always get what you want I suppose.

loool walalhi even the ones i meet are all either students or looking for Work and if they do work its in a retail shop or u know them kinda jobs nothing that are not a stable job

Whats wrong with Students walalo
Ok yh make fun of the ones on JSA laakiin students are the hardworking ones