Perfect, it all boils down to how you were raised. If you were raised in a household where your parents brought respect, love, and admiration out of you rather than fear and terror then you would view that sadistic beatdown as abusive. If you were however raised in a family where you were abused then of course that video is normal. They are already "acculturated" to that culture.
Not a single child of mine will feel physical discipline. I would rather try to become friends with my kids and reason with them and come to an agreement on anything as I were raised rather than beat my kids or expect my way or the highway and if not lash them like slaves acuudi bilaaah
